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Thursday, 25 June 2015

You are better off alone-Toke Makinwa tells ladies in new Vlog

Following her marital issues, Toke Makinwa is back with more advice to the ladies..This time, she is back with "You are better off alone"She says many people are in relationships were they are better off by themselves..She says regardless of how long you have been dating,regardless of what the man tells you.It's high time women start to take notice of the things men do and know when to leave..
She says she is starting a new hashtag #you are better off alone..She listed the following instances...

-If every single time you are crying
If the happy times are getting lesser..The drama is becoming more..Always thinking and crying..
Did you come to this world to cry for a man?If you are crying all the time, you are better off alone..She advises such women to clean their tears,pick up their shoes and move on

-If you realise he can do or live without you..It is nice to know someone can live without you but does not want to live without you..It's not about I but we..


-He keeps stringing you on...If he says if you want to stay, good.If you want to go,that's the door .. She says if you are an option,you are better off alone..If you are with a man for so long and no plans for a future with you, then leave..

-If you are dating a guy with no future ambition.He always takes from you,has no plans for his future..

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  1. Unknown25 June 2015 at 14:44

    a.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said..
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    This babe dey really find person wey go join her for this lonely train i swear..... Ladies is left for yu o....
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    ***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***

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    1. Unknown25 June 2015 at 15:08

      Lol, confusion.. I can't say I feel your pain cos I don't even wanna imagine it.

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    2. Anonymous25 June 2015 at 15:09

      U stole my intended comment...hahahahahah dey find body join body....failed fool...I blame everyone who don't hv anytin good for their lives and look up to these money hungry idiots videos be blogs whatever they call it and mentor them...shit

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    3. Anyi Achanga25 June 2015 at 15:29

      Lmao @ ed dream 's comment..hmmm.

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    4. Anyi Achanga25 June 2015 at 15:41

      I totally agree with toke app I honestly can't fate why a woman would stick stick to a man. Who is rather an "onion" to her eyes..no man is perfect but it's no reason why a man would treat you like trash and you still stay all in the name of being in a relationship or having a man.. there's a reason why we are called ladies ; that's because we deserve to be treated with respect. #you are better off alone if your man makes you cry and disrespects you. You were surviving before you met him and you still will without him. #MyOpinion

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    5. Anyi Achanga25 June 2015 at 15:45

      *agree with Toke. *can't get why a woman...

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    6. Unknown25 June 2015 at 16:00

      Lmao Ed on point... but she made sense, ladies don't be emotionally available all the time let him self show you green light.

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    7. Anonymous25 June 2015 at 17:30

      This old fool should keep her ill-advice to herself. She failed to nurture her marriage and it crashed. Instead of advicing the ladies not to make the same mistakes that she did, she's here talking nonsense about crying for a man. Shame on you Toke.

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    8. Anonymous25 June 2015 at 21:02

      And shame on you @anon17.30 for this trash you are writing. Her husband should have been MAN enough to quit in a dignified way if he was not satisfied with the marriage, not to go behind to get another woman pregnant. Be there feeling like a nurturer. If your spouse wants to cheat, they will cheat, no matter how 'perfect' you may seem.

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  2. Unknown25 June 2015 at 14:46

    @Toke....LWKMD she said....you come to this world to cry for a man? Actually no man is worth crying for,may GOD give us the man that will always make us happy,especially when he is God fearing holy ghost filled

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    1. Unknown25 June 2015 at 15:11

      Holy Ghost filled?? Hahahahaha......Sandra, Seems Men u r interested in are Pastors, deacons and Archbishops.... was ur first love a pastor abi Men don show u pepper u feel Reverends are the safest??....

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    2. Unknown25 June 2015 at 15:45

      Ur comment got me laughing kkikikikkikikik

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  3. Unknown25 June 2015 at 14:50

    Lmao ed Dreamz oo! Boy is a heavy clown!
    And yes Toke, no man is worth crying for! It should be the other way round!

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  4. Unknown25 June 2015 at 14:57

    Abeg stop with d nonsense....ladies/guys if u like don't work on ur marriage/relationship ...b forming u better off on ur own unless he cheats or beats u

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  5. Unknown25 June 2015 at 14:58

    Sandra rev sista
    "No man is worth crying for, No man is worth crying for''...that was how aunty Ceililia remained single,Nd now shez 55

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    1. Anyi Achanga25 June 2015 at 15:31

      Lolz

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    2. Unknown25 June 2015 at 15:50

      Blood of Jesus it is not my portion ohhhh......@Obinna Azubuko u no serious

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    3. BeeVee25 June 2015 at 16:09

      Krkrkrkkrk dnt mind yo aunty! Um sure she's regretting her words by nw.

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  6. Unknown25 June 2015 at 15:06

    Now its 'you're better off alone', just looking who would join her on her train. Ladies, please wise up and work on your relationships, better off alone is it a good thing? mchteeeeew

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  7. Anonymous25 June 2015 at 15:15

    All these hypocrites shouting "no man is worth crying for are those that cry even more.
    Toke is even more stupid than I thought to write this nonsense in the name of counselling.
    You have no qualifications ever to offer any advice or counselling on relationships.
    Professor of man/woman affairs that could not make her own marriage work.

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  8. Unknown25 June 2015 at 15:21

    Not all things in this world are good for You that includes People be it relationships,casual friends etc....
    Why would I stop finding love in another person just because one fool wasn't worth it?? Men this, Men that....Are those Men and women celebrating Golden and platinum jubilees transgender??

    If you seem to end up with Bad men or attract them, then check urself.....As for you Toke, I Dont believe what comes out of ur mouth cos I Dont know the whole story....

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  9. Millypee25 June 2015 at 15:44

    Toke.. and this cup too shall pass over you. keep the spirit up but please cry a little so you don't sote up the grief and go into depression. its ok to cry sometimes.

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    1. Brenda25 June 2015 at 15:55

      that exactly my point.... u nailed it.. she is in denial

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    2. Millypee25 June 2015 at 15:59

      I just like this Toke girl, keep your head up baby

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  10. Olayemi25 June 2015 at 15:45

    Hmmmmmmm

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  11. Steveosky 4 Real.25 June 2015 at 15:48

    In as much as I wouldn't agree with you on this advice of yours to other ladies, though some people going through the same or have gone through same might agree to it, but all you need to know is.:.When you learn to believe in yourself, you grow strong. Self-belief gives you the power to fight away even the worst odds...!!!

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    1. Brenda25 June 2015 at 15:54

      i totally agree with u...... i feel she thinks she is giving advice bt she is in denial of her situation and handling it badly to ask other people to also be alone....self believe really does give the upper hand

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  12. Brenda25 June 2015 at 15:52

    yuno i feel she needs help.. she is hiding behind this vlog.. she is in SERIOUS denial and has a psychological effect if not attended to early enough.. she is actually blabbing rubbish ryt now and i jst cant seem to connect to the fact that she feels she is trying to advice. i hope she listens to others so they can help her.. she seems sturbborn and feels she knows the best.

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    1. Millypee25 June 2015 at 16:03

      if she were in denial, she would not have taken down the wedding pic. She is just not talking directly about what she's going thru instead she is indirectly giving hints that all might not be well but she is keeping strong. just my opinion tho'.

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  13. same girl25 June 2015 at 16:21

    Runs in........yay, our blog is back, felt like my family travled.....excited much. Wetin una carry come? miss y'all. Ehen, Toke in as much as i wanna say true that, this mentality is what has made most omes fall apart, i wanna be like my parents who rather than give up fought together for their marriage and have made us sseenthat of a truth, marriage can be delicious. for any two relationship be it marriage, friendshp, family etc to work, one person has to be the fool in every circumstance, as long as u are not taken for granted, as long as u are not a mumu, as long as u are respected, then fine..... before u walk out, ask, what is making this relationship this way, cn i make it therwise, a SANDRA SAID,MAY GOD LEAD US TO PARTNERS THAT RESPECT US and will fight for us. cos entering a relationship wit this idea is the worst thing ever. truth is, its never eaasy

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    1. Truth25 June 2015 at 17:10

      Missed this blog too like my former boob implants.Happy it's back on.Toke you cried for maje for 14 years before he married you. Liar.

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    2. Unknown25 June 2015 at 17:37

      Welcm back dear

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  14. Unknown25 June 2015 at 18:39

    lol

    The life of Aldorable fashion blog

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  15. Shekeleke25 June 2015 at 18:42

    Some ladies are not destined to marry. Some ladies force themselves into marriage!!! Single and not married is the best option for ladies who can't endure the heat in a relationship-Pst.Chekeleke

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  16. Unknown25 June 2015 at 21:35

    So after all the advice I gave Party Makinwa,she still had mind to release another Vlog.Its only a fool dat will take a single thing coming out of her mouth.
    Btwn any lady that feels she came out of this world with a man hanging on her pussy and feels d need to cry for a man.,should keep crying.

    No shaking

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