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Wednesday, 20 May 2015

Blog Reader's boyfriend gets married 8 days after they split...

Hello Emeh, a wonderful morning to u. Ok let me  go straight to d point. I met dis guy 2yrs ago, we dated briefly and I really fell hard, so hard I couldn't get him off my mind afterwards. It was a surprise to me cos I never attach myself emotionally to my boyfriends so I find it easy to move on afterwards. But dis one, ha!! I can't even explain.

So we stopped talking and one day 2yrs later out of no where he sends me a message on whatsapp, I was surprised, happy, angry...... Mixed feelings, but we chatted and I kept asking him what I ever did wrong, he kept saying nothing. Anyways,we chatted for months off and on. He kept begging me he wanted us back together, he was sorry, he had changed..... Bla bla bla, u know men na. After sometime I accepted him, we hooked up and I became more convinced I shouldn't have even started anything with him 2yrs ago and hooking up with him was something I'd regret.

I noticed he used people and didn't care how they felt. Well, we never saw again but he kept asking for us to see. So on d 28th of April he called me I didn't pick he tried chatting me up, I ignored him only for me to find out on Sunday that he got married on d 2nd of may.

 Now here's d thing, each time I asked about his girlfriend,he'll get so angry and say ' I've told u I don't have a girlfriend,did you give me a girlfriend? I'm so far from marriage' and now ...... WOW!

 I was very very ...... Surprised, shocked, I felt silly n stupid. I'm so ashamed to tell my friends I just had to let dis out by telling u. Been on my chest since.

 And I'm wondering do I have any right to feel bad, angry, stupid n shocked and all that. The last time we met was in February and now this. That is one possessed guy sha!  I'm sorry for disturbing u, I've been in some sort of minor shock ever since. Thank u so much for letting me share. U can mail me for more info, I'll be willin to release it. *wide smile* Kisses.

28 comments:

  1. That's Why They Said Life Ain't Fair... Pele Dear, So Your Back To Single Market, Welcome And Take a Good Seat ok, You'll Be Fine.
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    .NOTE: Raise Your Words, Not Your Voice. It Is Rain That Grows Flowers, Not Thunder..

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    1. My dear Poster it is well,just move on and forget him, better guys will locate u just believe in ur self,pray,package ur self well.. God will surely see u through IJN

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    2. All I can say is God saved you...

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    3. Bad market baby!!! You guyz didn't date self. You two were just licking each other. Pele. Lol.

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    4. Will be hard. But you will get over him. I have been there. He's not d one for you. If he were, God would have kept him with you. Thank God. Trust Him for another. Go out more. Involve in any activity around you. You may meet another. Meanwhile, give that ex d cold treatment. Don't b nice to him. Let him know he hurt you, but you don't care anymore. Sure he will ping you again. Make it hard

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  2. Sorry oo.
    I don't gerrit at all... Is this a ynash opening or a narrative? Do you want us to curse you out for going back to ur spit? Or tell you what exactly? I'm confused!!
    It's obvious you don't need advice so ama check outta here mehn!! *feeling myself *of Lmao oo

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    1. U sooo on point

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    2. @blog legend, heheheheheh.. Nice one! IT IS WELL

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  3. a betr guy is on it's way jare,forget abt dis one...he ought to be called (eletan)deceiver,it's well my sister.

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  4. There are so many guys like that out there living in a world of pretense. Bae, just be thankful that you didn't open up your heart and soul for him the way you did the first time cos it would have been a disaster. Forget him and move on with your life. It is well.

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  5. Eyah sorry dear u will surely get over it,its just for sometime n am sure u will get someone who truly deserves u hugs.

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  6. Don't really understand your write up...

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  7. All these agbaya guys we date sha...na God go help us

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    1. They will just knack you anyhow all in the name of relationshit.

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  8. Blog Legend.. Your comment got me ROTFL.. Dear poster., Its quite obvious the guy came for the body and not the relationship... Dust yourself up and try again....!!!!

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  9. You have a right to be sad, happy, angry, stupid and shocked. They are all emotions so let them out *wide grin*
    Sorry dear for the little trauma... would you have loved to be married to him?? If your answer is no get up and show some dancing skills.. #be happy!
    And like Atinuke said "God saved you"

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  10. Sista, get over it. The guy don't love u. He is only after your "thing".
    Every woman should b married only to a man dat love her.

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  11. The truth is that most guys are like that,just thank GOD he did not get married to u,men,hush dont ever trust dem,just make sure u use your brain in ur next relationship.

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  12. I don't understand what you actually need sister... Advise on how to get a married man back or what? You said you regretted hooking up with the guy and ever since then you've been ignoring him. It's obvious he ain't right for you so let the man marry in peace. With time, God will send you the right man. Peace out

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  13. Less I forgot, dnt tryna go in between dem pls, jst move on wit ur sweet life,nd the best is coming for u...ma ronu oo! Pele

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  14. OK, so we shud go n kill the guy 4 yo foolishness abi? Mnximmm

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  15. Belly shut up!!!!! Must of you ladies here must have had same.....

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    1. Mnximmm So what? Deal with it n move on with yo life!

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  16. MR EDDY said this heat wan kill person o.

    Shit happens. Dust urself and move on
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    ^™THAT EDO BOY.COM~

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  17. This dudes ain't loyal...

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  18. a.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said..
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    Sorry ok.....
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    ***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***

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