A Lagos Court on Thursday saved a 12-year-old marriage between Mr Femi Ajayi and his wife, Modupe.
The petitioner, Mr Femi Ajayi, 45, legal practitioner, had filed a suit seeking dissolution of his 12-year-old marriage over threat to his life, arrogance and extravagant life style.
He described Modupe as a pompous, disrespectful and arrogant woman.
Femi accused his wife of living extravagantly, using any money she got to buy jewellery to the extent that she spent N250,000 meant for his children’s school fees.
He said that he would have divorced her two years ago, but he thought she would change and that they were living as enemies in the house as they had stopped talking to eachother since June, 2013.
In her defence, Mrs Modupe Ajayi, 40, businesswoman, told the court that her husband was a “womaniser” and had slept with her best friend.
Adeyeri ordered Modupe to write an undertaking that she would change her attitudes and admonished the couple to maintain the peace. (NAN)
The petitioner, Mr Femi Ajayi, 45, legal practitioner, had filed a suit seeking dissolution of his 12-year-old marriage over threat to his life, arrogance and extravagant life style.
He described Modupe as a pompous, disrespectful and arrogant woman.
“She is so full of herself and does not have respect for me despite all I have done for her, I bought her four cars within our 12 years of marriage, yet she does not have regard for me.She does thing without telling me; she travelled out of Nigeria without my consent”He said that his wife always threatened his life with dangerous weapons whenever they were fighting by picking a knife or other sharp objects to stab him.
Femi accused his wife of living extravagantly, using any money she got to buy jewellery to the extent that she spent N250,000 meant for his children’s school fees.
He said that he would have divorced her two years ago, but he thought she would change and that they were living as enemies in the house as they had stopped talking to eachother since June, 2013.
In her defence, Mrs Modupe Ajayi, 40, businesswoman, told the court that her husband was a “womaniser” and had slept with her best friend.
“My husband runs after anything in skirt; I caught him making love to my best friend in her house.I refused to employ any house help again as he has turned them into sex machines,” Modupe said.She said that she stopped having sex with her husband since September 2013 because she always had infection days after he made love to her.
“I stopped making love to him and I stopped washing his clothes when I discovered I always see and smell sperm on his boxers,” she said.The mother of three said that a day after their wedding, her husband abandoned her to stay with another woman and lied to her that he travelled to see his father in the village.
“I called his father when he did not show up for days, but he told me that he did not see my husband”.Modupe said that she later discovered the lady’s number on his phone and she called her to leave her husband alone.
“After I warned her on phone, my husband rushed home, dragged me out of the bathroom naked, beat me for calling his girl friend.It was my brother-in-law that ran out to cover my nakedness,”The Court President, Mr R.I Adeyeri, was able to reconcile the estranged couple thorough counselling.
Adeyeri ordered Modupe to write an undertaking that she would change her attitudes and admonished the couple to maintain the peace. (NAN)
Lol Abeg I no fit laff, every marriage had diff challenges, which ever one u find ur self in, it's ur cross to bear my bro n sis
ReplyDeleteWhy is it only the wife that will write undertaking, how about the husband writing an undertaking that he would stop battering his wife.
DeleteKai some women Dey see sha.
This marriage is officially dead
ReplyDeletea.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said...
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Foolish couple and things like this dey make me fear marriage i swear.....
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***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***
Serves the man right!
ReplyDeleteMarriage needs a lot of selflessness and patience. Above all , love endures all things.
ReplyDeleteOk! Steve happy birthday but u shud be ashamed of urself! So u are the one bullying me? At u age? With such maturity? Saying such fowl words on blogs when u are this old? Smh!! U must b very bitter! I have all d screenshots of horrible things u said about me on blogs! U shud be assumed of urself! Change ur ways and live up to ur age,gladly emeh's blog is changing ur nasty attitude, anyway, happy birthday
ReplyDeleteTypo errors,i was really irritated writing this
DeleteI use to think steve was probably a teenager going through puberty ,dats y he's very nasty nd a bully,not knowing he's a man!! A married one at that!! People will say to ur kids all d really nasty things u said about me!no be swear oo! Na karma! Change old man and stop behaving like a spoilt kid on blogs!
DeleteOld things have pass away.
DeleteShut up Onyx the gay maggot. So you leave Linda's blog to come and spy here.
DeleteOld things don't just pass away!he's here forming saint after all his wicked comments on LIB!he called me homelss,lifeless,poor kid in penury,gay and HIV/AIDS PATIENT!, so u want me to bliv he's changed abi? I havw screenshots of all d nasty things he said to me! To bliv he is a man is disgraceful!! I'm soooo angry! Pple will say to ur kids worse things dan wat u said to me Steve! Karma!
DeleteSteve also told me he will kill me anytime he See's me and wishes me death!! Haaa! I initially thought he was just one of the confused pple on d internet,not knowing he's a married man!!! Jesus!
DeleteOnyx but ur gay nah? Shooo
DeleteDon't say I'm gay if u are talking base on assumptions! Cos I'm effeminate doesn't mean I'm gay!be enlightened!
DeleteOnyx just say you want your own airtime. Stop long story. You were disrespectful to Stevosky and he put you in his place. Now he left LIB for you and you are still chasing him down here
DeleteLol Stevo la la is my guy o Abeg forgive am onyx, na ur isoko sis de beg u
DeleteDisrespectful to him after he started saying awful things to me! And @anon 15:48 i will rant cos he's a pretender !he's here forming saint forgetting all d horrible things he said on LIB is still dere!! All i know is that PEOPLE WILL SAY TO UR KIDS DOUBLE OF D HORRIBLE THINGS AND WISHES U SAID TO ME!its karma! I've said my mind... Emeh sorry 4 delaying, but just know steve is a bully and double faced!! Good day
DeleteTypo error! Anger! I meant derailing**
Delete@Onyınyechı Godwın, We the MPN famıly has offıcıally welcome steveosky here with our open arms.. If u are really Angry becos öf what Steve, told u ön LIB, please waıt for hım dia Till he return.. I know cypron, is not that expensıve now in market, so büy öne and have a good sleep okay.. My advıce for you now.. IT İŞ WELL
DeleteLmao! Wicked SVC. Cypron ke? Pls Onyx don't try Cypron ooo...it will make you STUPID after sleeping for donkey hours. But I feel you should forgive him cos its his birthday not curse him,u hear? Biko nu. Happy birthday Steveosky(sorry its coming this late)
DeleteI don't blame @SVC,u are probably one of d numerous online bullies, just tell ur steve to change his wicked ways,wishing somebody he never met death,calling me AIDS,suffering in penury ! All i knw is karma is a bitch,pple will tell his kids worse,yes,i once drank d cypron,its amazing for my health! Now swerve
DeleteSteve if you really said those words to him then it's very bad of you. This boy could be ur son, is this how u curse ur children. I don't care whatever he is but those words re mean and Shouldn't be coming from a grown ass father. Ushpuld apologise to him cos it's now his fault he got feminine feature. I'm not him but I can feel his pain. It's not fair. U sent recharge card an want birthday wishes but u should wish people good too and help them grow. How can u even tell him to die. That's mean; I'm disgusted.
DeleteHer allegation that she always see sperm on her hubby boxers might be a wet dream.Men dont release sperm on their boxers when they want to jerk off.They can pour it on their partners body or on the bedsheet.
ReplyDeleteHanhan! Why spread their dirty linen outside,they need Christ in their home........that's all
ReplyDeletemarriage brouhaha
ReplyDeleteDarlwyn
The two of them are disasters.nonsensical beings
ReplyDeleteNa today
ReplyDeleteI don't know whose story to agree with, husband or wife. The truth is they both have their shortcomings therefore they should go and work on it. Its really terrible they have been 'Managing' instead of 'Marrying' or 'Mariaging' for twelve years. Damn it must have been horrible. News like this scares young ladies like us but the Lord is our strength.
ReplyDelete#Zimama#
Patience n understanding is d key, but after 12yrs d madam suppose knw all dis na.
ReplyDelete@ Onyx Godwin: I will pretend I didn't see you or read your comments on this blog. You are welcome if you want to be part of us. But may I inform you that this is not a place for ranting...its where where love, laughter and Ideas are shared. Thank you
ReplyDeleteNB: I don't know you neither do I know Steveosky and am not trying to take it personal but am just trying to share the reality with you. Let bygone be bygone, welcome to a new dawn.
#Zimama#
There are worst cases of marriage sef,am glad they agreed to go for counseling.
ReplyDeleteGod help us...staying married ain't easy,it takes two patient peeps and the grace of God...
ReplyDeleteMarriage is a life institution without graduation... u can only graduate as a dead body..this people took vow in church in the presence of igwe mmadu to love each other for better for worse ...Pls let them deal with their issue joor..clear road..another news?
ReplyDeleteMeanwhile onyx Godwin your heart is so bitter. Are u a Christian?don't u know what is forgiveness abi Steve spoil ur carrier with his write ups....bro chill..that fight na for LIB not our sweet MPN blog..Pls go pick ur trouser where u keep am...
DeleteSo cos I'm venting means I'm bitter?? Enlighten urself b4 spewing trash,only bitter pple knw bitter pple... Ignorance
DeleteBia, this Alika 7up. Y r u constituting nuisance on this blog. Fly away from here dis fag
DeleteAint constituting any nuisance, I'm just saying all wat ur "saint steve" did..and i ain't leaving no blog, come pursue me na,na ur papa property!
DeleteY'll should please be truthful. He sent recharge card; good but call him out if he needs to be called out. How can u say such words to a kid knowing that u are also a father. He's done n
Deleteonyxx post the screen shots let US see including what you said that made him attack you. were are waiting to judge the matter.
ReplyDeleteNo where to post d screen shot! Go to LIB ,steve terrible wicked comments are still there, somebody dat wished me death? *spits*
DeleteLittle boy. Not everyone likes gays. He probably hate gays. So give it up already. Better still amend ur ways.
DeleteAnd who told you he is gay ?
DeleteSo you have being doing things up his ass for you to know who is who ?
AND WHAT DOES THAT MAKE YOU IF I MAY ASK ? !
Go ahead and insult him because you are not the one in his shoe
Onyx I have being observing your rants and possible vents on the accused Mr Steve.I remember asking u a certain time ago u came here to attack Steve that u should wait for him on Linda Ikeji since that's where u guys brouhaha started.Well as provost of this peaceful blog,I am now asking u to drop your accusations and give it a rest.He has migrated here in order for u to have peace so enjoy LIB in peace.I want order to be restored on this blog..btwn u have a way of being really annoying sha.It has do
DeleteNo shaking
Hian! whish one be effeminate man.... wonders shall never cease. endtime tinz.
ReplyDeleteWhich one is end time?, pple are just shallow o. Please enlighten yourself before coming here to show off your ignorance..
DeleteIts unfortunate they washed their dirty linen in public domain.
ReplyDeleteHowever glad to see them agreeing to reconcile. We boast
we are married but its NEVER a bed of roses.
Onyx those words weren't directed to me but I deeply feel ur pain but just let it go. Y'll readers if someone needs to be called out; call them out. We claim to be family but it's not nice bullying people. I understand the normal criticism but telling some1 to die and wishing them bad is not good. Steve please stop bullying people, u too grown for pills like that and u should apologise to him cos U've got kids and I don't think u want to hear some1 tell them such things. #justsaying.
ReplyDelete*clears throat* onyx dear please kindly take deep breaths. From the way you sound I can tell whatever steve did really cut deep,I understand but you've got to admit that you did something to make him go that far,you pushed his buttons and he did the same to yours. The short while I've known steve,I can say he's a nice man not a lunatic that goes about wishing people "dead" but onyx don't you think keeping stuffs like this in your mind aint healthy for a young lass like you,just act matured and let it go coz trust me steve has a lot he's thinking of(his unborn babe for example) than to start keeping you in mind. I wasn't there when all these happened so I can't take sides,I'll stop here,my thunbs hurting already biko.on behalf of myself(emeh's PA) ,steve,and the rest of the MPN clan I say a big SORRY to you onyxx and we wish you alive rather than dead,jah bless you dear
DeleteThey made the woman sign an undertaking. Lord have mercy! Women will continue to be abused in Nigeria if the truth is not told. This unrepentant man got away with murder while the woman was the only one reprimanded. Africa, the continent where women are treated like dust. God dey!
ReplyDeleteOnyx is ok dr, somedays r lik dat, can say i knw how u felt, bt all i can say is dis, u will laff last,steve i hope u don change truly eh,is well sha, how r my people is lizzy in building
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