Please an ardent blog reader needs our advice...
Emeh,good morning,please I need advice from the blog readers. I met this guy,he's well to do ,he attends to my needs and we've been dating for only 3 weeks ,he has met my mum and he likes my family,just this morning ,he said he's horny,what do you think I should do,don't you think it's too early?
My dear, it's too early to have sex with someone you just met 3 weeks ago. I will advise you don't give in to his request until after you are certain where the relationship is headed. Pls visit www.alabekee.blogspot.com
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Deletereally? too early in this age n time? and who even asks such? re u 17? if the feeling is mutual y not? you can have sex on the first date n the relationship would lead to d altar while u might delay a year tryna form a good gurl n it leads nowhr eventually.
Deletemy advice for u is this: if you like him enuf to then do it. for u to ask this means u not sure you even wanna go into a relationship with him cos as long as u guys ve agreed to date theres not a "too early" time for sex. arrggh
Lmao Girl next door. I like your realness
DeleteWicked girl, he attends to your needs and you refuse to attend to his needs. Don't you think 3 weeks is too early for you to accept things from him? Stupid Ashawo, it's only fair that u give the man what he wants or tell him it's too early for him to attend to your needs.
DeleteALABEKEE29 October 2014 09:39____You will advise what??????? shut up alreadyyyyyy! Did you advise her when she was collecting for her needs and her family? Too early????? Too early for what? Please please you people should stop all these pretenses, um also a lady but there's no need for all this rubbish. If you are planning to have sex before marriage then whats the difference if you do it now or in years time?
DeleteAlabekee!..1965 called, they want you back!...She said they've ben dating for 3 weeks not that they've known for three weeks. Meanwhile, he has been attending to all her needs..and the first time he says hes horny hes satan abi. If she wants to do it she should biko. Theres nothing there. Even if she dosnt want to have sex, there are many other things she can do to please the guy. Its not when she continues starving the man and he cheats, she will start forming victim.
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DeleteToo early. If he loves you, let him wait for at least 3 months
ReplyDeleteIf u like u do the 90 days rule before u give him the sex. If u like sef u can give him the 'snake in the monkey shadow' style on bed now.....my dear, if no be u, then e no be u
DeleteAnonymous29 October 2014 10:17 I LIKE YOU! ON POINT! YOU JUST MADE ME LAUGH LIKE A MAD WOMAN.
DeleteAnon 12:17....TEEELLL THEEEMM!!!!!
DeleteMy dear give him wat he needs, abi na statue he be? D dude gat blood running his veins. He wants sex doesn't min he's leaving u. U didn't complain itz too early wen he was attending to ur needs abi.. there's God ooo
ReplyDeleteOde. Don't give in.Meeting your mum means nothing. I know men who will introduce you to their families and dump you after sleeping with you. Build a solid foundation first
DeleteWhat will happen will Happen. Follow your heart. 3weeks, five months. What will happen will happen.
DeleteAbi oo Maryam, sum gurls will give in dat very day. Babe tink twice ooo or beter stil ask question abt him on yy he left his ex
DeleteI beg u in the name of God,don't even have sex at all with him. Wait till u are married!
ReplyDeleteGod bless you! Please what happened to the bible's standard of "NO SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE?" Y'all can come here to cuss me out *nobody holy pass*but I won't see the truth and call it a lie (and vice versa). Sis,meeting your fam doesn't mean nothing. What will be will be! With or without sex. But from what you sent,I see you're pitying him already cos he attends yo your daily needs and all you have in your power to reward him with is SEX. My point is,maybe if you don't collect things from him no more,you'll have the effrontery to say "NO" and stand by your word but as long as he gives you gifts and money and you collect,you don't have a point. #NothingGoesForNothing
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He can meet ur mum and like ur family as well, if u are not the one, u are not the one. He can even go to the extent of introducing you to his family just to get what he wants. I'll advice u get to know him more first and his intention b4 any other thing.
ReplyDeleteIn as much as sex is vital in any relationship, but I think It's a bit early to ask for sex from you. Nevertheless you can talk it over with him and see his reaction, the way he responds will let you in on the next decision, but then it's not worth it loosing him either way coz of sex. But wait ooo, Is he still horny as at the time u sent in this report? Hahahahahahahah!!!
ReplyDeleteROTFL@ If he is still horny as at d time u sent in this report.
DeleteAre u a virgin? If yes then no, if you are not, end of story.
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DeleteFunny responses I no fit hold myself, girl follow ur heart n do wat u think is right.
DeleteLol@ anon10:32 ..so if not a virgin she should continue with the free offering and sharing
DeleteB4 nko?shud she now get divirgined becos of lil favours hez offered her? 2get disvirgined is so painful and its better u do it with someone ur heart is at peace with
DeleteMy dear,this guy is faster than ferrari sha,barely a month and he's wanting a taste of your cookie jar. Yes he's allowed to feel horny but he should also know that its too early to start pressuring you for sex. Let me tell you something,sometimes getting advice from us doesn't really work,it all boils down to how you feel deep inside, do you go for it or nay is the question so sit down and think,if its worth it then fine,from the way you sound you should be old and matured enough to know what's good for you or not. If you too feel some sort of sexual attration to him then go for it,shikena! I drop my pen now! hehe
ReplyDeleteWat is d meanin of too early in a relationship? If u like a girl n she ask u 4 financial assistance dat same day u met her, won't u help her? Is dat nt still too early? D decision depends on her, if she believes in d guy n love him aswell, she should surrender her pussy. Better sex wit d obukoko style (latest style) Dats wats up
DeleteMy frıend go to his house and gıve hım sex öf lıfe.. The guy no be ısraelıte wey still dey waıt for Jesus is coming soon Till now. He has met ur needs so ıts ur turn now to gıve hım throwıng style(My latest style).. IT İŞ WELL
DeleteWow!did Emeka just make sense?for the first time ever.though in a weird and wacky way
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You Better Get Up And Cure Him From KONJI less he moves UNTO DA NEXT ONE... Remember He Meets Your Needs And Well To Do.. You Don't Wana Loose Him, Do You??
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Give him if u want no time is too early or too late ...You dnt need any advice be an ardent giver ..#myOp
ReplyDeleteThree is long enough, have sex with him (and not like you're giving him as you both will enjoy it equally) or someone else will. The era of no sex before marriage or its too early has long gone hun, this is the 21st century
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DeleteIf u like u do the 90 days rule before u give him the sex. If u like sef u can give him the 'snake in the monkey shadow' style on bed now.....my dear, if no be u, then e no be u
ReplyDeletewhatever rocks yur boat girlfriend..yu re free to do any sh*t.
ReplyDeleteAbeg give him the sex already, let us hear word!! What I the difference between having sex 3 weeks and 3 months later! The main thing is that it is sex,first day or 100 days later!!
ReplyDeleteThank you! whats all this? SEX is SEX whether 365 days or half day.
DeleteI laugh o! Wait first, When you collected all those powerful gifts, Did you ask us to advise you?
DeleteNow, you don see the one wen pass you, you con dey shout.
please, return everything he gave you and Stay away from sex. Mumu.
smiles of course you would ask if its too early, but u did admit he takes care of ALL YOUR NEEDS, which is what a husband does for his wife, you allowed yourself to become a responsibility for him, so now he feels like you owe him sex, for if u feel like u are not ready for sex, don't let him do so much for you, that way he wouldn't have to ask u to bed just a few days later, but again determine his kinda person as some men have first class in pretence, he can wait ten years after sex he walks away, again u should know , if I say no to sex and he says he's cool with it, is he actually waiting while waiting? so its a lot of things, but if u decide to have sex with him be sure to go for medical tests first as one can't be too careful, but at the end of the day different things keep different relationships depending on those involved , so discuss with your man and both of u should decide, my opinion? its too early cos sex has a way to preventing u from swing what is wrong abt your relationship, if you are having good sex, it can also destroy it, wen its not good.
ReplyDeleteIt's not too early to collect with your long throat. When he was taking care of your needs did you ask us if you should collect? Now you are asking. As for me, I slept with my bestfriend's husband on the first day and he dumped her for me. We are still happy. So don't ask childish questions
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Deleteheheheh@Truth dis is a long epistle from u
DeleteFollow your heart............who knows he might just be kidding to see far you can go just to keep him
ReplyDeleteYou think it's too early to give him sex but definitely not too early for him to meet your needs...this post is just a propaganda....you know what you wanna do...do it or lose him...gbam!
ReplyDeleteThe bottom line is this He does not love you.
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ReplyDeleteMe I just don't know y my pussy is not sweet. Men don't enjoy me. Please help
ReplyDelete@anon 10:57, I fink dats as a result of ghonrea, siphillis n staphillococcus mixed 2geda. U nid medical n herbal treatment 2geda,wit immediate effect or else u'll spend ur 2015 in hell
Delete@anon 10:57, since ur PuSsy is no sweet. My advıce is for you to go and büy st.louıs sugar and Insert it. I Thınk dat will help. Ör Maybe you pussy mıleage Oil is no more flowıng. If the pussy Oil is coming out why won't u pussy be sweet.. My Frıend you need Jesus. IT İŞ WELL
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Three weeks and he has not yet taste the food of life, he is definately getting it some place else no doubt.....
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Which one is too early???????? attending to you needs abi? Ok oo, mine got horney on day 1 and struggle, fought and nothing, day 2 same thing, but all that struggle was for what?????? he finally got what he wanted i think in the 3rd week or so um not even sure and it is the best! I am enjoying it everytime we are together. So please stop all that rubbish, if you know what you will engage in sex before marriage then what is stopping you now? Or just wait till you get married.
ReplyDeleteGod have Mercy on us. Ladies use ur heads o! U don't need any advice deep down, u know wat is right. You know wat ur mum will be proud of. U know that ur pride and a lot is at stake so advise ur self well. Don't just think of now, think of 2moro. Think of the adverse effect of this, and think of the positive effect too. Sex is not food. It's not enough to keep a man that does not want to stay. Your life, happiness and future should be ur priority now. Use your head. A man that's in a hurry and can not wait for u does not belong to you. So let them be. BE CAREFUL!
ReplyDeletepls sister put the cookies in the cookies jah, God really frowns at premarital sex, if he can't wait to have u then he should quickly put the ring on ur finger....
ReplyDeleteHahahhahahhha, pls Emeh wia did u pick dis sick child Truth from?
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Theris God o
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Na wah ooh... The kind of posts we read on Emehs blog these days.
ReplyDeleteBia this poster, when u were busy collecting his money, you didn't ask if it's too early. If you don't want to give in to anything with a man, don't Allow him to supply your needs. Wetin you dey form sef? Person never enter there for little or nothing? Taa... Three weeks is too early for sex. Isn't three weeks early for him to turn need supplier. All these girls that act like they are holy when deep down they are as rotten as bad egg.
If you don't want to have sex with him after three weeks, please return his supplied needs. Stop collecting and look for a pretender like you so u pple can wait till marriage before sex. Nonsense.
He meets your needs but you don't want to meet his needs after three weeks. oloshi... Na kamalu go settle your case. Agbaya
Emeh stop posting some childish stories on this our beloved blog.
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Delete"meeting ur needs"and going to ur parents does not mean he loves u,it just shows he's a good player at getting what he wants!and u should know that men with money are even more confident to meet ur whole family b'cus he knows he will be accepted b'cus of his financial standing since he knows most families are hungry!so my dear use ur head! he has been playing the game u're not the first!have sex if u want to and not b'cus u want him to stay!him no send u!
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I personally don't see Anytin wrong with tht..when I was younger I prolly hv sex with u s same day u say YES to my advances ..at most d first visit to my house...I'm married nw and sis the same to my wife when we met..sometimes u never knw..some of us also hv a very high sex drive.
ReplyDeleteAs e come to sex matter everybody wan comment.hehehe...
ReplyDeleteE no matter, abeg do it cos you r not asking if sex b4 marriage is ok you r only worried abt the timing. Timing no matter.
ReplyDeleteNaija and dere mentality...if u love him oya do d tin e no get meter
ReplyDeletethe guy na mumu o...waiting him con they do since 3weeks? We dem boyz sha.*oke*
ReplyDelete3 weeks??? Wow, the guy is a gentleman. As for me, I have sex on the first date. I can't wait 3 days not to talk of 3 weeks.
ReplyDeleteBOTH OF YOU REALLY NEED TO SLOW HERE(NOT THE SEX THING).
ReplyDelete3 weeks and he FOLLOWED YOU HOME TO YOUR PARENTS
Hmm...Cinderella girl,I beg book your appointment together with him and get your HIV test.If you love after that,go ahead and please yourself .DON'T FOLLOW ANYBODY'S ADVICE/DIRECTION BECAUSE IS YOU AND NOT MPN VISITORS THAT'S IN THE RELATIONSHIP .
Follow your heart.REMEMBER IT TAKES 2 TO TANGLE,LOVE SHOULD NEVER BE SELFISH OR PICK TABS IF IS TRULY LOVE !
MEANT TO SAY LOVE SHOULD NEVER BE DIPLOMATIC.
DeleteOn the other hand sweetie,xmas and election is just around the corner.May sure your chopping is ready for whatever that comes with it whether marriage o o or tears WHICH I PRAY TO NEVER BE YOURS IN THIS ISSUE.
BY THE WAY YOU FORGET TO STATE HOW OLD YOU ARE AND HIM AS WEL.just to know where he might be coming from.There is never a time when one should break the bed in relationship,unless you are not very sure of the partner or health wise.
wot hapend 2 self respect nd dignity,ar peeps rily advicin her 2 hav sex just 3wks all in d name of "even if u do it nw nd den no difference" nd u tink d guy wil respect u?i hav 7 brothers nd de have numerous frnds,its my ouse dats deir meetin point,d kind of tins i hear ehn,gush,leme tel u guys love stress,suffer,de love girls dat suffers dem ooooo,de respect dem alot,i beg u my advice myt hav come late bt plz dnt do it o.leme just let u knw dis,if dis boy leaves u after havin sex wit u nd u come here cryin dat u had sex wit a boyf of just 3wks relatnship,dis pple advicin u dat u shud hav sex wil stil b d one 2 first say:can u imagin,just 3wks u alredy had sex wit him,olosho,ashawo,horny bitch,hoe,whore,de wil call u all sorts of names,av seen ur case in d oder way round plenty times nd dats alwayz insult de give 2 dem,hypocrites everywhere,mind u girls ar enemies of demselves,de alwayz want deir fellow girl 2 b in same bad situations wit dem,gudluck o,
ReplyDeletewot hapend 2 self respect nd dignity,ar peeps rily advicin her 2 hav sex just 3wks all in d name of "even if u do it nw nd den no difference" nd u tink d guy wil respect u?i hav 7 brothers nd de have numerous frnds,its my ouse dats deir meetin point,d kind of tins i hear ehn,gush,leme tel u guys love stress,suffer,de love girls dat suffers dem ooooo,de respect dem alot,i beg u my advice myt hav come late bt plz dnt do it o.leme just let u knw dis,if dis boy leaves u after havin sex wit u nd u come here cryin dat u had sex wit a boyf of just 3wks relatnship,dis pple advicin u dat u shud hav sex wil stil b d one 2 first say:can u imagin,just 3wks u alredy had sex wit him,olosho,ashawo,horny bitch,hoe,whore,de wil call u all sorts of names,av seen ur case in d oder way round plenty times nd dats alwayz insult de give 2 dem,hypocrites everywhere,mind u girls ar enemies of demselves,de alwayz want deir fellow girl 2 b in same bad situations wit dem,gudluck o,
ReplyDeleteYou girls always thinks you are wise.Why didnt you say it was early when he bought those gifts for you?Now that he want sex you say it's early,rather you give it to fred,your neighbour,free of charge when you are horny.Learn to always turn down a toaster's gift when you have not known each other well,so that when he want sex you can be bold enough to turn him down.Or else,i go rape you.
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ReplyDeleteGod Help us
You think having sex now is too early, but giving your bills to a stranger is not early. Must relationship ends with marriage? Maybe daz what will even hook him to you. So grow up
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