I've been dating my fiancee for 2 yrs and whenever I visit him,his phone is always on silent and he gets lots of missed calls, sometimes when the phone is not on silent,he rejects those calls, he hardly keeps his phone down,it is always with him,I've brought up this issue several times and he will cook up stories, I don't know what to do and I love him, the same way he loves me.
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ReplyDeleteBabes,RUN!!!! What did I say? I repeat,RUN as fast as your legs can carry you please. You sound like a good girl and I understand your feeling so well. Dude has other relationship and doesn't want you to know so that you won't leave him. If he isn't faithful with you now then there is no other time when he can be. And did you say fiancée? Hmmm...be very careful ooo! Look well before love blindfolds you into a marriage you will regret you never went into *my two cents*
ReplyDeleteMust it be related to cheating??? People always claim to be wise but in truth they are not! Just Bcoz he doesn't pick his calls in your presence doesn't mean he is cheating girl. Have you thought of the possibility that your guy might be doing some illegal business maybe 419, drugs or even stealing. You should be bothered but you have to confront him again and this time with more seriousness. Ask him why doesnt he pick up his calls? could it be trust issues. like he dpesnt trust you enough to answer call around you. Love comes with being comfortable around one another in all aspect and from what tou described, its a one way thing one way thing. when next his phone is rings in your presence, give the phone and ask him to answer it. If he doesn't answer, or says he is going to return the call later , insist and if he doesn't just leave his presence witout fighting or arguing. The thing is that, there is more to relationship that just love. Your safety, your comfort and other things matter. So it's either he is not comfortable around you and doesn't wish for you to know important things around me which in this case is not love OR he has a secret he is hiding OR he is cheating OR he has trust issues with people and such pple it usually takes them time and with patience , you will get there. So you really need to find out which b4 jumping into any conclusion.
DeleteSensible comment..It must be always cheating
DeleteThe best write up in this matter! Indeed very sensible!
Delete@mummy Dera! You have just shown maturity and good thinking. Some people are so immature in their statements and it just proves that is how shallow their minds are! And to think they wanna advice someone else is funny! Bravo to you ma
DeleteHe is cheating abegi.Thats the full stop
Delete@Debby..the babe should run go where na? This is one of the reasons why many over-sabi ladies are single and later run to church for deliverance. If he does that when both are married, then, it will be something to worry about but till then, no biggie.
DeleteThe guy is not it atall.If your boyfriend can't comfortably keep his phone down and even leave you with it, he is CHEATING. Not small cheating. As in the other chicks probably think he is going to marry them. Let him go
ReplyDeleteBabe ruuuuuuun, he is in anodda relationship,he is either cheatin on u wth smeone or cheating on smeone wth u and he does not want to drop u or d person so it's not love he feels for u its greed.
ReplyDeleteBabe ruuuuuuun, he is in anodda relationship,he is either cheatin on u wth smeone or cheating on smeone wth u and he does not want to drop u or d person so it's not love he feels for u its greed.
ReplyDeleteDatz hw yoruba people do, dey cheat, lie, steal and smell. My advice for u is to change ya tribe datz all. I'm sure d guy is yoruba.
ReplyDeleteVizzy hhahahaa Yoruba people are very very coney people you are right I hate them with passion
DeleteBe very worried, infact, run or have a plan B
ReplyDeletea.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said...
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First of all mrs madam the dude does not love yu so let that sink in ur brains and secondly i advice yu give him some space and see wether he really cares about yu ok....
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Even guys agree you should leave so leave
ReplyDeleteNiyi go n comment on ur failed page.wen u steal gist from here finish,u wan follow drive traffic?
ReplyDeleteHmmm...I dunno bout this....buh you may need to re-evaluate things..
ReplyDeleteLet him go.He is a chronic cheat
ReplyDeleteIt is clear , he has a secret which u can't withstand.. Personally I will advice u to make more time to discuss with him on that..I'm sure if he loves u he will explain to u why he does that .. Quiting d relationship will be option when after he must have explain and it is obvious he is cheating..
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Sorry sis.. Just leave him.. He's got a secret, I know it will be hard but do it.. When he realises he's mistake it will be too late
ReplyDeleteIbiara holidays? Nothing like plan B, is too early. Find your way out immediately!
ReplyDeleteIt may be difficult to let go after two years but you just may have to know for real if he loves you or not. Tell him straight up to give you his phone or keep it with you for an hour. If he really loved you, he should do that to prove it. If not, sorry he is two-timing you and may have another serious relationship .But if he is Yoruba, no need to ask,dump him now!
ReplyDeleteFind your square root
ReplyDeleteGosh I just visited this niyi or whatever he just copies and pastes from Miss Petite and Linda. Disgusting human being
ReplyDeleteFor the first time.....Truth is getting my attention. Go gal!
ReplyDeleteHahahahahhahhhahahahha...babes,im pleased to announce to you that you are dating yourself..buh then again,its none of my business. *straightface
ReplyDeletemy own guy also puts his phone on silence. i ve spyed on the phone without getting any evidence . he said he loves his phone being on silence. so I don't bother my self again.
ReplyDeleteFind out who calls him. Find out if there is a particular person who always calls. Even if it is a man's name, copy the number in your phone n dial it. Its likely to be a female caller who he is secretly dating . Instead of dealing with infidelity all your life, make a wise choice. I know good men are hard to find yet make a wise choice or else u will b crying yourself to sleep after marriage. Or get infected
ReplyDeleteTruth,I love you so much for this comment!
ReplyDeleteStupid tribalists. So ibo men n men from other tribes dnt cheat ba? Ignorance! Yorubas smell ba? I laff in chinese. All na beef fr the yoruba tribe.
ReplyDeleteEmeh, u and TON, who steals from whom?
ReplyDeleteHe might nt be cheat or into anything bad... the truth is ur guy is mentally unbalanced .. mental issues..with so many trash in his head.. does he smoke weed or crak? such guy can be very dangerous...
ReplyDeleteHe might nt be cheat or into anything bad... the truth is ur guy is mentally unbalanced .. mental issues..with so many trash in his head.. does he smoke weed or crak? such guy can be very dangerous...
ReplyDeleteGurl take dera's advice.
ReplyDeleteThhank u so much for all the comment, for dos asking if he smokes orr drink,he doesn't smoke or drink nd he works in a good place nd I am sure ddt he is nt in2 any illegai bizness, most calls he rejects are females nd he tells me dt sum of dem r his ex-gfs or girls dt hee had sumtin 2 do wit b4, everybdy around us knws ddt he loves me more dan I love him.
ReplyDeleteCome to think of it, did she refer to him as her 'fiancé'? In my little old-school dictionary, a fiancé is a male that a female is 'engaged' to be married to. At this stage of 'engaged-to-be-married', this kind of suspicion or lack of trust should have been discussed, thrashed and agreed upon. He is hiding something. My advice: Wrap up your body (all those body parts that he cherishes) as well as your purse (if you earn anything of your own) and demand an explanation. Otherwise, save yourself the future wahala because you will become a punching bag or a divorcee in some years to come when you will seek to assert yourself or you go just kukuma become his events partner for life or his housekeeper, O kpari! Sorry, but na true word a dey tell you so!
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