Now, he says we should go to another hospital because according to him, he had made a girl pregnant before he met me so he can't understand why it's taking too long.He loves children so much and always prays and begs God to give us one.
I don't know how to avoid it because I have been told i can never get pregnant after so many abortions when I was much younger.Should I pretend to be pregnant and later say I had a miscarriage like many other women do?Please what do I do ? No insults please
Endtimes devil wife
ReplyDeleteEndtime he goat.
DeleteAt some point you are going to have to come clean to him. You can't hide your secret forever. I'll advice sooner than later though. Or you can go for the tests, when the results are out, don't lie about the abortions when you are confronted though. You can say you never knew it was the cause of your infertility. Either way your marriage is likely to end since you say he really wants kids unless he opts for an assistant wife if you can live with that. It'll be most unfair not to tell him though.
DeleteLet's talk about sex-Early sex education for children, yay or nay? Click my name to find out more.
go 2 isiala mbano in imo state,ask 4 obinwanne family.dere dicks cn got eny wman pregnant,even if the doctors confirm ur womb is no more.go and com bck to thank me later*rawbone*
ReplyDeleteDere dicks can got u? Seriously? In dis modern world people still speak dis kin english....
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DeleteU dey sharp.....
Ur own done meet you be that.. 5 abortions????? 1, 2, 3, 4, 5.. Ure a killer. No advise for you. No excuse for abortion. Expect for complications and/or rape. Just confess.
ReplyDeleteJudgemental human...ar u sure u can read? Did she say she aborted 5 times or she has been married for 5 yrs...if u have no advise for her, y not shut up...and to think dat u don't have a child either n u ar here running ur mouth.....as for d poster...kindly confess to ur husband.
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DeleteTell him in an open space where you can easily run Incase he tries to give you the beating of your life
ReplyDeleteTell him, go 2 MFM,there is nottin God cannot do
ReplyDeleteYou are a fool
ReplyDeleteSo the men u did abortions for why u no marry them? No hate but my chick go born first before we tie the knot we go pray for forgiveness of sin later. Much better than being married to a witch. Its. Bad enough that u can't have children what's worse you want to prevent someone else from having kids! U want advice shey pls kill yourself so your husband can progress.
ReplyDeleteGod punish you self righteous Mofo. Read again,even her husband has gotten someone pregnant b4 marriage and I'm sure it was abborted. You're mentioning suicide like you wud wish it for any of ur family members. What if she has been forgiven by God?who are you to judge her? All she needs to do is tell her husband the truth and I hope he's reasonable enougt to forgive her. They can addopt babies and be happy. My husband was addopted and you will never know if no one tells you,his parents av been together for over 35yrs and he's all they have and they are happy. All that is in her past,judge her and God will judge you.
Delete@Bare faced...don't mind d mofo...maybe he didn't understand d part where d man also aborted his child...d man is also a wizard, karma is just catching up on both of dem
Delete@kingsley leopard,becos that is wat I will call u.Why do u always comment like a fool?If u don't av any solution for her,don't even type bother urself@ poster,tell ur hubby the truth and go on ur kneels,tell God to forgive.This year shall never pass u by.U will hear the sound of a baby in ur home by his grace.
DeleteHave you tried Tuface Idibia?
ReplyDelete@maryam olaide,u r an ugly clown cos ur yash neva open ba,we go soon hear ur own.as 4 u d victim just ask God 4 forgiveness and pray,there is nothing He cannot do
ReplyDeletePoor you! Just tell him you cn not have kids and then set him free by giving him a divorce. You confess to God and adopt a child and live your life. You do not need. Marriage to be happy and you certainly do not need to be tied to a man who wants kids when you can not have kids...... Slymm
ReplyDeleteWonderful advice...@poster, listen to dis anon...just set ursef free frm guilt and worry
DeleteBLOG ANALYSER: Go to God, he will answer your prayers. There is nothing impossible for him to do.
ReplyDeleteThere's virtually nothg impossible only if u go on ur knees,HE's d physician of all physicians...but u must confess to ur husband firstly..Cheers
ReplyDeleteMy dear have a talk with your husband and call onto God he can give u a child
ReplyDeleteU are a wicked and heartless soul, how could u keep such an abominable act from Ur husband for 5 good yrs. I think u should commit suicide b4 he finds out the truth.
ReplyDeleteNeed the suicide more than she does. You're such a bitter soul. How dare you talk about suicide so cheaply like it's a good thing. Knowing fully well she will read all these comments. Some murder with weapons,some with their tongues and now we have people like you who murder via keypads. Hell is your destination if you don't repent.
Delete@ Cherry, did u honestly say she should commit suicide? Jeez! Dats a demonic thing to say cos suicide is of d devil and u have d guts to call her a wicked n heartless soul? Hmm, talk about he who has no sin casting d first stone, sure she has done wrong in d past but cut out with harsh judgement like u don't have skeletons of ur own and don't ever tell any1 to commit suicide cos that's how d devil whispers it to all his victims, except ofcourse u r d devil or one of his demons!
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DeleteAll these self righteous pharasees who are asking this woman to commit suicide or kill herself are blood thirsty demons from d darkest and deepest part of hell..they sound so much like the devil cos only he spurs people to suicide! Go and check dia lives and u'll be shocked at d extent of rot but because no one knows them, only God who covers the sins of all, they come here with their garment of self rightheousness, its sad!
ReplyDeleteIf she commited abortion even if it is 10 abortions, can't u just say what u want to say to her without been so judgemental, especially d suicide advocates? If this woman commits suicide, those of u asking herself to kill herself or commit suicide will have blood on your heads and u will answer to God someday!!!
U are a very wicked soul i cant imagine wat women of this days are turning into they just act like untrained dogs i am sure ur parents gave u good morals but u chose d oda side of table all because of money and God knows else. U evn had d bad ass mind to cage a man 4 five years and lie to him(u must b an asshole fool) u tink after marriage u can enjoy fruit of d womb after killing five beautiful souls(u a murderer with no concience). Av u 4goten dat after ur escapades that U would KARMA. So wat do u expect us to do just tell d good man u held hostage d truth and free him and if u lie to him wen he finds out u are a dead meat. U posted dis question and told us no insults do u tink we are cold blooded murderers like u are just a Bitch confess b4 it z too late. Am so angry at u now to even giv u an advice pack ur baggages and leave ur hubbys house so amore decent girl can come and giv d guy children and peace of mind and stop acting like a Glorified Gorilla. Mtcccchhhheeeeewwwwww.
ReplyDeleteFoolish chicken,girls had abortions for her husband too. It's karma knocking on both their doors. What is good for the goose is good for the gander,how dare you call him a 'gOod' man. You want her to leave her home so an Idiot husband snactcher like you can step in."marriage is till death do you part" deal with it. Being with someone else while the one u first married is alive is fornication.
Deletepls contact 2face,if he cn deliver anie then urs is a small case.
ReplyDeleteAnd they say we shouldn't ask our fiancee if she ever had an abortion
ReplyDeletePlease enough of it. Don't deceive the poor man with a pretentious pregnancy. Tell him the truth, confess your sins to God, so that Yu can have peace of mind. Also trust God because nothing is IMPOSSIBLE for him.
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Both fools are guilty. The man aborted and the woman. So don't care about this fools
ReplyDeleteMy dear, the first thing u need 2 do is 2 honestly go 2 God in prayers asking him to 4give u 4 the abortions. The decision to tell ur husband the truth is entirely up 2 u, but 2 keep deceiving him by pretending to be pregnant will only worsen the situation. Ask God 4 direction and do the right thing. He will definitely be hurt but he can also stick with you to find solution. wish u the best
ReplyDeleteHow long will u continue to bribe Dr n am shocked d so called Dr took d money dammmmmm.
ReplyDeleteI refuse t judge u cos d bible says We all(n not only those who committed abortion) hav sinned n com short of God's glory. In spite of our sins, God is so merciful; his arms r wide open waiting f u n ur hubby.
ReplyDeleteRun t God today
Disregard d report of d Doctors cos they dnt have d final say
Be truly sorry f ur sins
Give ur life whole heartedly t Christ not bcos u nid a child but bcos salvation of our soul is paramount in all of d things we desire on earth
Trust God, he will answer u wen d time comes
Cheers!
Guess what? You can't pretend forever. He will find out. Why were u not using protection in d past? Now you want to burden us with your problems....mtcheww
ReplyDeleteNa wa o. Both of una hand no clean, True. But Madam yours is worse because you are thinking of adding more deception on top of deception! True, ; GOD will forgive, but only on one condition - REPENTANCE. But here you are, after bribing doctor, you are busy planning the next deception as in 'should I pretend bla bla bla...?' Simply goes to show that your heart is still black - whether you and your many advisers accept it or not,; my dear!:Turn from your wickedness and this GOD you call will show you mercy. Until then... you are simply using the law of marriage to 'make mischief' (see Psalm 94), and HE is NOT on the side of those who do so! Marriage was ordained to fulfil the Love OF GOD, not to perpetuate bondage. If you carry on like this, you will see that this same GOD, will $ set the LAWFUL Captive free' from your deception (Isaiah 49), for HE is also a GOD of Judgement. This is my twopence, but please feel free to do as you like. Time will ALWAYS tell the Truth.
ReplyDeleteYou know he loves kids and you went ahead to marry him, after destroying your chances of conceiving. Pls tell him d truth. There are many ways out. Try IVF or surrogacy.
ReplyDeleteAunty dat needs help, u did not see ur pastor or marriage counsellor to talk to about ur marital problems, its on a public social blog u came to find help, u neva start. You asking pple who most of dem I'm sure arent married, wat to do in ur marriage? U need to grow d hell up, which kan smll pikin tin be dis? Giving pple who most likely have done worse to feel all self righteous and call u names. Kmt.... Day neva break for ur side, wait let ur husband find out, na gutter u go find urself or worse you go dey house another woman go come join you. Better Gaan tlk to someone who would give u tangible advice and or solution, I mean, ur pastor, marriage counsellor, mother and of course God. Good luck.
ReplyDeleteI faked my pregnancy. ..I later adopted when my hubby traveled to London. I was left alone, I just lied to him that am 2months pregnant when he left.
ReplyDeleteI later adopted a baby girl without his knowledge but today am a mother of 4 children plus my adopted one making it 5..till now my hubby doesn't know about my secret, he loved my adopted daughter more than his real children but am not going to tell him .
But my own case was not as yours bc I don't have any complications, just ovulation disorder.
Good luck dear. ...life goes on
Mrs Kate
I still stand by my words! Yall support this cos its your habbit get pregnant and abort like its using airtime. Simply because your husband was adopted doesn't mean we should all become murderers! Even after this she still wants to lie abt it. There is a big difference between being willing to confess and being determined to cover up your acts. The man was open enough to tell her he's gotten a chick pregnant before so y couldn't she open up? You can defend her all you want, barefaced and the other creature. I doubt if your both not into same biz. God is God no doubt but shall we continue in sin that grace may abound? Or you think if he finds out he forgives her, u fink he would forget? Or he would trust her again? Live your life responsibly is not too much to ask! And save us all the stress of trying to fix your mistake. What is the essence of marriage? Sorry abt saying u should kill yourself.
ReplyDeleteKingsley. I repeat.
ReplyDeleteY dyu look scared?
Mumu mofo!
See ur mouth like "u must get a girl pregnant first".
I just feel like slapping you.
fornicator!
Eve.
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ReplyDeleteYawns @ Eve u finally got a chance to talk to me. #congratsdearie
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