of ur blog and i read about pple posting things like this on ur blog but i didn't know it wud happen to me please post this i need help.as am typing this my fingers are shaking and am cryin uncontrollably. I met this guy and fell in love,he loves me but the problem is with my parents,they wouldn't accept the guy cos hes from obowo in imo state,their reason is that pple from that place are thieves and that they abandon their women and that they have bad character,my mum is all about that i want to kill her et all,i tried explaining to them that its not based on village but its based on d family background of the person,my mum said that thev bewitched me that i cant think clearly,they are rily breaking my heart,as am typin this am coiled on d floor crying they said i shud let it go as if it was that easy,
i cant think of it cos its not an option to me,pls i want u guys to tell me whats wrong with obowo pple
Not al dat sims right is always right me dear. .....with calmness, one will c d depth of d ocean!!!
ReplyDeleteGod bless u sexyboocalher for dis comment...@poster, calm down, listen to ur parent and try to relate with them
DeletePoint of correctn poster,its nt even based on family background either,its based on personality,oya start ur fastin nd prayer o,if no gud tin hapen after dat plz listen 2 ur parents
DeleteAnon 9:47 you are so right. He should be rated as an individual... I hope the poster is ok o.
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DeleteYour parents may be talking based on the tribe but inthe long run they may be saving you.So analyse this deeply.Is this really the man you want?If yes keep making them see reasons.Ask him to come and explain to them how much he loves you.You shouldn't do the fighting alone
ReplyDeleteEndtimes Obowo
ReplyDeleteLol,u're as jobless as hell everytin is 'endtmes'
Deletehello my dear, right now you are in the center of a t-point. the only thing that will restore your happiness is your personal WILL.
Delete1. had your parents found someone that will marry you?
2. are they to find someone for you?
3. whom do they think should be the best for you?
in a city of thieves, i believe that there should be non thieves there as well.
generally people should stop seeing the weakness of others because none is upright!
marital decision is whether good or bad but believe it will be good. no marriage is hundred percent sure.
obey your parents so that your days will be long and not that your marriage will be smooth.
God Himself made this clear that whosoever has a wife/husband found a good thing and obtain favour in His sight.
today is never the day God choose husbands or wives for people, meaning none should do so either for you rather you has your final say.
Consult your passport
ReplyDeleteI'v told u wat I knw abt dem. All d same pray more nd cry less.
ReplyDeletePoster must be known to you, NMaa. Must you tell the whole world? Immaturity at its peak. Hiss,
DeleteR u 4m dia? Y pained?
DeletePoster indicate if u knw nmaa. Idiot anonymous 13:43. Sowy if u'r 4m dia cos dat's hw u guys behave. Yes I'll tel d whole world just lyk aluu knw d whole world.
DeleteIf yu really love this guy, i suggest yu find away..... Stupid, nonsense or call what ever yu like, yu just gat to make ur parent understand that yu love this guy......
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ReplyDeleteSorry dear.
ReplyDeleteFirtstly...why is their courtship before marriage...any decerning woman should be able to differenciate between a man who have her intersest and that of her unbornchildren at hand.....at this stage you should be able to tell what and which kind of a man he is......maybe a man who can tolerate your indulgience,a man who doesn't believe in tribal inequality,a man who is easy going and can't even kill or hurt a fly or a cockroach,or a man who is capable of using ones head for rituals when the time arrives or calls for,ect ....this are the things courtship reveals to oneself before jumping into any form of marriage....to know the deepest part of him and to what he can tolerate and his limitations towards things....
ReplyDeleteSecondly......are your parent graduates??if no?I would say you shouldn't listen to your parents..cos some parents can be so epic and still believes in tribial segregation...because somtimes the likelihood of their believe and it happning is slim.....like I said initially it depends on you
The truth is your parents need enlightenment just because they feel people from that particular village have traces of bad attitude and character doesn't mean the family you are getting married to will be of the same behavioral background.Get elderly people that can convince your parents to accept your hubby.
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Never go against ur parents in matters of love. Yes agreed our parents are not God, so they may not be right all d time. But I hv seen too many cases of kids goin against their parents in marriage and regrettin it later in life. Ur parents hv lived longer than u and can see life beta than u do. If talkinin is not workin, try to move on. Don't do sumtin u'll regret.
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ReplyDeleteWhat has witchcraft got to do with this...must you comment?..if you don't have anything reasonable to say then hold your piece...wth
DeleteWitchcraft again
DeleteLolzzzz@witchcraft again!...LMfaooo...
DeleteSo what should we advice you to do now?abeg.
ReplyDeleteThe time you used to type this rubbish would have been used to say kind words.Dont you think?
DeleteGod does not allow anything to happen to any1 without a warning signal, do not ignorE the warning signal. I can't categorically tell u if ur parents are doing the right thing or not. I will advise u to allow the word of God to be ur guide. Proverbs 3:5-6
ReplyDeletethanks,but still am looking for an obowian,if ur from obowo please i beg you,indicate
ReplyDeleteDearie please seek the face of the Lord.
ReplyDeleteDo you have siblings? Maybe you wanna confide in them and they too could reason with all the parties. This I go die if I no marry is funny except your life depended on it.
ReplyDeleteMy advice will be for you to turn to God at this time because He knows best. He will give you comfort and lead you on the right path. Also, don't forget that what will be, will be, no matter what anybody says. Be strong.
ReplyDeleteMaybe your parents have other reasons why they don't want you to marry the guy. I'm from Imo State and Obowu L.G.A is close to mine. I had a good laugh when I saw the bad generalization of Obowu people. I categorically tell you that the story about the town is a pure lie. What is more important is the lifestyle of the guy and his own family background. If you doubt, look for an Imo indigene who grew up there and ask him.
ReplyDeleteListen and reason with your parent dear, I had the same experience. My parent and close relatives warned me not to marry the man I fell in love with because people from his place are known for abandoning their wives. I insisted and married him. In less than 3 years of the marriage he abandoned me & two children. A bitter experience for me. In as much as not all the people from that community are bad, I will still advice you to check his family background, make more research and pray. A broken relationship is better than broken marriage.
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