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Thursday 10 October 2013

l'm 25years old & don't enjoy sex


Hello Emeh,
          Please I need an advice or suggestions from your readers for a problem I am currently experiencing in my relationship.
          I am a 25yrs old lady in a relationship for about 5years.its a going pretty great I must say except our sexual experiences.
I don't enjoy sex! I never get to orgasm! I can't do doggy! Its hurt like I can feel his D in my stomach! I love him so the only pleasure I get is the fact that I am intimate with someone I love and when I see him climax. We have talked about it, and he is trying to see what works, so far, nothing!
     I am worried, I don't know if this will be an issue for him or me in future, he has said he noticed I don't connect naturally during sex and I on the other hand desire to have a happy sexual life.we do orals and all.
And we don't have sex often because of the distance, so my P is in a good shape. Kindly advice. Miss B
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45 comments:

  1. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 15:07

    Ask google

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  2. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 15:08

    cum 2 me ur guy no no how to do it PHOTO AND VIDEO Genevieve Nnaji Caught In
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  3. Unknown10 October 2013 at 15:11

    your guy no sabi at all

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  4. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 15:22

    Use 2 candles. Light one and pour olive oil on the other. That should work

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  5. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 15:33

    Hello Miss B, to reach orgasm (apart from having a great sex partner) you need to be relaxed, let go and just flow with the act. From what you describe you do not get relaxed during sex. You remain conscious of all that's going on. A lot of people who experience this find the problem rooted in some traumatic sex-related problem of the past. Try to find out if there was anything that happened in your past that could have deterred you from sex.
    Another thing is to find out how comfortable you get with your partner just before sex. If you find yourself thinking too much about the act, that's not a good thing. Do stuff that could take your mind off the subject just before n during the foreplay: talk, watch ur fave romantic movies, have a candlelight evening, have a drink...just do anything you need to do to take ur mind off the act. Tell this to ur partner so he helps you relax. It's really important.
    Last, you said when you do the doggy you feel his D in ur stomach. That could happen if his D is longer than the distance btw ur V-point n ur innards. All he needs to do is take it slow and gently...and not do a full penetration.
    Babygirl it's gon b ok. I know coz i had this prob till i was abt 26. Just take a look @ ur past n do ur best to relax b4 d act, even if it means takin a few sips of wine.

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    1. Oil Sheikh.11 October 2013 at 09:03

      Great advice! Just to add that some little wine before sex could in relaxing her in a formal setting. Otherwise take a tour, get away from that formal setting, do something different, relax and fantasize you guys doing something crazy! Just go out there and have fun, relax and have great sex. Dont forget to have condom close by always just incase you want to do it wild. Wine is a great tonic for relaxing. Beer is not good.

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  6. Chinedu10 October 2013 at 15:43

    He should finger u well well... If u don't reach orgasm or don't enjoy it, then u need deliverance

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    1. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 15:53

      Lol deliverance indeed. She. Needs a real man like me

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  7. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 15:47

    You guys! Be serious and mature for once.
    Someone needs some serious advice!

    Miss B, you might probably have Endometriosis, the medical issue Nike Oshinowo (Ex-Beauty Queen) is suffering from cos she admitted how painful sex is...

    It could also be that you were circumcised when you were little, cos' most females that were circumcised don't enjoy sex.

    So many reasons could cause why you don't enjoy sex, do well to consult a medical doctor, cos sex is meant to be enjoyed! Goodluck.

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    1. Anonymous11 October 2013 at 07:57

      I agree wiv u. I was circumcised nd since I started aving sex,I've neva enjoyed it. Feels lyk my fiance's D is choking me. I don't even try doggy @ all.

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  8. JimCaddy's Blog10 October 2013 at 15:53

    Come to think of it, there are actually some girls I know, who do not like sex. They are beautiful, but they don't just like the pain and discomfort associated with it. It is not a question of whether the guy doesn't know how to do it. There can be several reasons why that is so, maybe we need a doctor here to throw more light on why some girls see sex as a torrid experience. Some girls can push you off them or bite you during sex when they feel so much pain. Any doctor in the house?

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  9. Unknown10 October 2013 at 16:03

    kindly see a doctor for a good advice so you can keep your guy,God created sex so that it will be enjoyed not being pained.

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  10. Unknown10 October 2013 at 16:12




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  11. mademoiselle10 October 2013 at 16:15

    Here 2AD2AA25, dr tango will b of great help to u,u'll b fine dear.

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  12. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 16:59

    jeeeeez...okay log on to this and throw away sorrows www.nichenaija.blogspot.com

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  13. t10 October 2013 at 16:59

    It happens. I'm not a doctor, but try hydrating (drink a lot of water) and exercise. Also, try doing it more often so you guys can get in tune and do it more for fun less towards the goal of bangin' to infinty and beyond. Also, maybe you don't like sex thaaat much, which is sort of like me. I like all the foreplay, the actual thing is usually anything from ok to nice to painful. As for painful, mostly with people who are either big or really believe in going hard (sort of a Nigerian thing.)
    Also, try other guys lol.

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  14. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 17:20

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  15. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 17:48

    I have the same problem, I don't like sex, I see it as a chore. My boifrnd says it's a psychological thing cos he says nuttin is wrong wit me physically. Sometimes I tink it's d guilt of hvin pre marital sex, mayb when I get married, I'll enjoy sex.

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    1. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 20:29

      its good for people like u open up and talking maturely. am i having the same problem

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  16. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 18:03

    as in?

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  17. Iya10 October 2013 at 18:09

    Ending times.people talking about premarital sexing

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    1. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 18:53

      so you think you are funny?dumb ass iys

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  18. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 18:11

    you want someone to pay you 1500 for application form. you wan hammer abi? Come and take 1500

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  19. Dee Tee10 October 2013 at 19:22

    Go see a doctor that specializes in sex matters. Goodluck - NEWSBLIST

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  20. Unknown10 October 2013 at 19:31

    Hmmm!!!...ah wonder how all these laucy advises from these funny nigz would be of help!

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  21. @edDREAMZ10 October 2013 at 21:24

    Like seriously, dis is not gud.... But i will advise u to stick to the styles dat sought u...

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  22. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 21:25

    Just try masturbation nd see if u enjoy that,if u reali enjoy masturbating,den figure out y u enjoyed it nd tel ur partner.Dis might be of help

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  23. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 21:52

    Use canesten as a lubricant..thank me later


    click here

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  24. Pwetty10 October 2013 at 21:53

    Dump the nigga and get an Italiano

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    1. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 22:05

      U must be mad ooooo... Dis ur Italiano rubbish is no longer funny... Someone needs ur help,if u don't hv anytin to say beta shut it n sell ur pepper in afipko market.....

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  25. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 22:00

    Stop sex with a man Who is not ur husband Ashawo

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  26. All things Prints 11 October 2013 at 00:33

    this is 4 all of u dats having dis same issue try nd see pastor biodun of Coza, im sure he will conduct deliverance 4 all of u. Thank me later.

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  27. Anonymous11 October 2013 at 01:47

    Try exploring ur sexuality more, start wit watching different time of porn(don't jst limit urself to gal on guy), if u enjoy it den try masturbating. Den wateva d outcome is try talkin wit ur Bf... Mayb u r into bdsm, or oda type of sexual act...

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  28. Anonymous11 October 2013 at 01:48

    Try exploring ur sexuality more, start wit watching different time of porn(don't jst limit urself to gal on guy), if u enjoy it den try masturbating. Den wateva d outcome is try talkin wit ur Bf... Mayb u r into bdsm, or oda type of sexual act...

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  29. Anonymous11 October 2013 at 04:30

    It might be an infection. I used to feel pains during sex as well and when I cldnt hold it again, I went for check up. And it was an infection.

    The eaelier u get it sorted, the better.

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  30. rebel11 October 2013 at 06:25

    Well Miss B, I feel for you. I ain't a pastor, but I feel the guilt of premarital sex is weighing u down. Sex is best when ur emotional wellbeign is in tandem wit ur physical well being. Try engaging in some work out regimen. Eat healthy, and get adequate rest hours.
    Then to the act proper, u guys should try prolonged foreplay. Most men are in a hurry to get in there, even when the "Big V" isn't ready yet (lubrication-wise). There are also many over the counter lubricants u can buy at a drug dispensary, but make sure they are compatible with the condoms u use.
    Studies have shown that most women have orgasms with clittoral stimulation (90% for that matter) , than with vaginal pentration. Ur clittoris is ur G spot, so teach him hw to fiddle with it.
    Lastly, pls practice safe sex with this slogan, " No erection without protection". Good luck

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  31. t11 October 2013 at 09:00

    I found this really funny: http://www.theonion.com/articles/michelle-obama-opens-up-in-marie-claire-our-sex-li,34160/ a parody article on Michelle Obama getting her groove back with Barack. It's on The Onion, so it's not true o, just a joke. I didn't want to share it on my facebook in case some people don't feel like reading about sex lives this Friday morning but I shared it here for you sexy fellas.

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  32. Anonymous11 October 2013 at 13:39

    I believe you are not married to this man. Then, stop engaging in premarital sex, its sinful. Someone said that its the guilt that is affecting you and I think so.

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    1. Anonymous11 October 2013 at 13:43

      For married people having this problem, these comments will not offer any help. It will rather confuse you the more, see a specialist.

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  33. Unknown11 October 2013 at 14:08

    my dear, i think you should try saying out of sex for sometime becos most times, you get tired of repeating same thing allover. a friend actually confided in me and told me same thing but her's is worst, she doesn't even get went or moved, i told her to take some time off from sex, she did and it worked for her. may be you should try it also.

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  34. Anonymous12 October 2013 at 11:40

    My bf has a very small penis and when he is on top of me I feel bored I no pleasure at all bt whn I am ontop its so great that I would never even try going for a man who has bigger than his. My advice is find a way u can mke it enjoyable for ur self

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  35. Anonymous13 October 2013 at 15:35

    I feel when u finally meet the one u love, u will enjoy sex... I was like dat at a time but now, I enjoy sex wit him and only him.... Every other guy irritates me

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