Halima Abubakar-I won't kill myself over marriage,I have nine years before reaching menopause | This Is Miss Petite Nigeria Blog

Sunday 31 July 2016

Halima Abubakar-I won't kill myself over marriage,I have nine years before reaching menopause


Following the controversy which trailed her online ‘revelation’ that she was looking forward to losing her ‘virginity’ and having kids, Nollywood actress, Halima Abubakar, has lashed out at what she calls the negative stereotype of women in the make-believe industry.
In a chat with Punch(Sunday Scoop), Abubakar  was unapologetic about her hugely controversial claim of being ‘a virgin’ and took a swipe at doubting Thomases.
“Why would people become annoyed because I said I am a virgin? Just because I’m in the industry does not mean I am badly behaved. Not everyone is sexually active. You can have a boyfriend and not be sexually active. The reaction I got shows the mentality of the people. If I say I’m a virgin, I am and if I say I am not, then I am not. They tell me to go get married, should I go after  someone else’s  husband?,” she said.
 Abubakar added,

“Everybody thinks one should get married from age 18. A lot of marriages are complicated. Marriage will come when it will come, one doesnt need to force it. People are getting divorced with pregnancies because they got married under pressure. We should let people be. People are saying if you are not getting married, go and get kids because menopause is approaching. What kind of thing is that? Is it your menopause?  I still have about nine years before I hit menopause all things being equal. I am not one of those people that will kill themselves because of marriage. I can’t have kids outside marriage.”

12 comments:

  1. Marriage is not an achievement,I don't know why our society is making single ladies act desperate as if marriage will take someone to heaven,mtweeeee

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  2. So people now reach menopause at age 39?lol she forgot she claimed 30 at her last birthday ����

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  3. Everytime I read about this girl, is always about marriage, I don't know whether na she dey bring am up abi na the interviewer. Nawao! Baba God please pick up her call for marriage biko.

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  5. She's talking too much lately!

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  6. She's being too hard on herself

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  7. Lol. Halima Don'ttake it personal Huh! He is definitely coming for you. [The prince in an armour tank]. Lol

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