I received this mail from a worried reader last night ..Kindly offer her advice if you can..
Hello admin God bless you for your good works .please help me post this because I need advice. 8 months back I met a guy through face book he lives in Holland, he showed interested nd we chatted and called each other everyday, I liked him. 3 months later I got a Facebook request when I added the lady who send me request in the pic I say the guy in the pic holding a boy of about 3 yrs old .
I called him and asked him if he has a son and if he is married , he said the girl used to be his girlfriend that they are no longer together . I checked the girls page I say pics of another kid a girl of about 1yr he told me the girl is not his daughter that he baby girl belongs to his baby mama's mum. He said I should come over to Holland that he wants to introduce me to his family . So we kept chatting and calling my feelings for him grew stronger and stronger,he calls me at the middle of the night , early hours of the morning so I doubt if he was living with his baby mama, he was talking About introduction and whrere we will live after marriage .
2 weeks later I called him at night the lady picked up the phone and she was like don't allow him deceive you that he is asleep so I hung up.the next morning he called me I asked him why he did not pick up his fone he said he was asleep in his brothers house .I told him he was lying that his baby mama or whatever picked up the fone and told me stuffs. He said he went to visit his son when he was about leaving he boy was crying, that was why he slept over . We kept chatting and talking he invited me to Holland to meet his family but I refused to go. We found out that I have dated a guy he used to know. Out of a sudden he started acting strange does not really call me nor chat up with me , I told him to come to nigeria to see me he was light what is he coming to do, that he has wasted his time to nigeria before because of a girl and it did not work out and all that, so I chilled a bit he has been acting funny for time now , I don't know if it's because I dated a guy he used to know before now .I really like him he is cool and handsome .I checked his FB page few weeks back and I saw the 2 kids the boy and the gal in his page . Please I need advice thanks
HnNmmm,young lady without been told abeg wrap up ur feelings for him and forget him,even if u are tinking if it is bc of d guy u dated b4, is there a person without a past,he is nt mearnt for u,wit all d babies and d babymama just forget about him and move on abeg.
ReplyDeleteSmh ... It's obvious you are being played.
ReplyDeleteWere you just wasting your time and resources talking to a married man?
has he been performing the duties of a boyfriend?
Are you fat?
Poster pls don't ever put ur eggs in one basket! Have plenty of them to avoid any further heartbreak.
Advice on what exactly?Am confused, engage urself with a real relationship this is child's play.
ReplyDeleteNa really child's play!
DeleteThank you Atinuke! Poster the answers u seek are already in ur post. You can choose to live above mediocrity or u can choose to bask in low self worth. The choice is always ours. All day er'day.
DeleteThank you Atinuke! Poster the answers u seek are already in ur post. You can choose to live above mediocrity or u can choose to bask in low self worth. The choice is always ours. All day er'day.
DeleteMadam how old are you for a man to be dancing skwlewu with your future.Na wah o.Be there wasting time on one woman foolish husband
DeleteJust have a mature relationship in your own reach and move on
ReplyDeleteMy dear, dat guy is obviously playing with ur feelings.. it's better to be single and hope for d best than to be in a relationship and still feel single at the same time!
ReplyDeleteGo to school and learn how to speak/ write good English.
ReplyDeleteWho English don epp???
DeleteLolz Paulo you're wicked. Maybe she wasn't in a good state of mind. Back to the matter. Why are girls always fall cheaply for guyz that's abroad? Even when it's obvious that the Bobo is playing Piano on ur head. Nawao.
DeleteLolz Paulo you're wicked. Maybe she wasn't in a good state of mind. Back to the matter. Why are girls always fall cheaply for guyz that's abroad? Even when it's obvious that the Bobo is playing Piano on ur head. Nawao.
DeleteWho English epppp
DeleteDear poster a word is enough for the wise, a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage that your Holland Bobo is married oh can't you see it or do you need a prophet to tell you to end that relationship my dear are you falling for him because he is based in holland? It doesn't matter if he knew the guy you have dated before that's not the reason. His love for you is not genuine when a man loves you he can go to any length to make you his wife,calm down relax be prayerful your rightful man will locate you......
ReplyDeleteBlind date ...Social media shit #NextStory
ReplyDeleteMumu is your last name
ReplyDeleteTo bad girl, HE IS MARRIED. His wife or baby mama is even kind enough to warn you still u wan die for d idiot matter.
ReplyDeleteIf the guy ain't fron America,london or Paris then it ain't worth being talked about. Who Holland help?
ReplyDeleteI wonder the kind of advise u want again.. don't allow urself be played. Close that chapter as soon as possible & cut all communication with him. Who fine face Don epp???
ReplyDeleteI can't stop laughing! 😂😂😂 you've got all the advice you need ma'am.
ReplyDeletemtchew! I think say na better thing she wan make we advice her.. IT IS WELL
ReplyDeleteI don't knw why pple always need relationship advice and not how to make their lives better! From Ur narrative it shows u re lacking! U can't even construct a sound chronicle! Odiegwu really
ReplyDeleteI don't knw why pple always need relationship advice and not how to make their lives better! From Ur narrative it shows u re lacking! U can't even construct a sound chronicle! Odiegwu really
ReplyDeleteYou know what to do. The only thing u need now is COMMON SENSE!
ReplyDeleteYou know what to do. The only thing u need now is COMMON SENSE!
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