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Saturday, 24 October 2015

Jeremiah Ogbodo slams African men who hate black women

 Celebrity stylist Jeremiah Ogbodo wrote this article eye-opening article for the brothers out there  ..Read below

It's crazy that many people with Afro hair, think the hair that they were born with is unpresentable...Social conditioning is a real problem..Whoever you are, however you were born... You were born beautiful.
Brothers stop hating women that look like you!
Why is it whenever we get a bit of money, we forget where we came from and our whole circle becomes lighter.
If you hate the sisters... You hate yourself.
Many men are looking for lighter women, not because lighter women are more beautiful, but because they are trying to align themselves with European standards of beauty.The need for white validation is a really sad state of affairs.
It's not necessary, because even though there are still existing systems that support structure, based on white supremacy, things are different now.We can communicate to anybody anywhere in the world.
Use the resources you have to look at other ethnic groups and look at how they treat their women.
They don't penalise them because of their shade of skin... Or because their hair grows naturally straight, or curly or whatever.

Fellas stop watching porn and expecting women to live up to your fantasies.Porn isn't real, women are equal human beings and every woman you meet isn't going to have a perfect body, hair to the floor and want to be tied up every night... If you want a pornstar, marry a pornstar and you will realise that many pornstars have been abused, are depressed, and have a drug/alcohol problem.
Many don't, some just like sex but don't judge all women by a fantasy role that men created. Some women like to watch porn.
Many women don't, the women that I know tell me that sex is more mental and less visual for them.
For many men it's the other way around... A lot of that has to do with social conditioning.
Imagine if all women expected all men to have perfect physiques, massive penises, have sex for hours and have to cook everyday... Many men would end up feeling worthless and useless when they don't live up to unrealistic expectations.
I would never expect all that if I couldn't deliver that.
Sisters keep loving yourselves, your natural beauty is all that naturally beautiful men want to see.

13 comments:

  1. Because I love sex, that is why I am stuck with my ashawo gf.. There is no style on earth she doesn't know including the throwing style.. IT IS WELL

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    1. SVC all this ur mouth seef,nah ur type nah in dey turn strong pastor wey go dey even do deliverance and see vision,don't worry when that word CHANGE enter u ehnnnnn u will know

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  2. Oh I just fell in love with this guy, he said it allll.. Nigerian men n their inferiority complex, they wna marry light women but still dey fear bcos they know she go cheat, they r d reason most Nigerian women have bleached their intestines out, d only way to catch n marry a big boy, weaves on endless nko, wen our natural braid n cornrows r so naturally beautiful. God help our superficial society.

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  3. Word on point. All our actresses both don turn white all in d name of fame/popularity.Resppect to Funke Akindele,Mercy Okojie,Ini Edo and few odas who love dier God given skin

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  4. Very well said!! Jeremiah just conveyed a pressing matter that has been lingering for decades. It's no surprise that some men AND women behave this way. I included women because surprisingly enough, they too discriminate against their natural counter parts, all in the name of seeking validation from white people. Africans and those of the diaspora need to wake up if they haven't already. Love, appreciate and invest in your own. As for the men - or more specifically some African men as he asserted, do trample on their own women once they climb up the social latter. It's sad! Anyone should be with whom they want, but don't try to shame black women for how they look or act now that you have become the white masters "yes puppet". Black men are the ONLY race of men that typically date/marry outside their race because many of them are so colour struck. It's definitely a complex to think so low of your own, whilst uplifting a mixed race or entirely race of woman. Self hate at its finest.

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  5. Yea unrealistic expectations my brother, n it's seriously getting out of hand. I juz wish women will learn to live, luv dem selves more n Pay less attention to any body's opinion.

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  6. Saying GBAM to this would be an understatement. I'm still searching for the right word(s).

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  7. Well I'm extremely picky and don't date Nig guys so all those their rubbish doesn't apply to me.I even hold dating interviews and exams before I can even manage a date with any of them.Useless sets of imbeciles

    No shaking

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