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Tuesday, 14 May 2013

(MUST READ)- My bestfriend's husband wants to kill her

I receive countless emails asking me to share real life experiences of people in dilemmas with you my readers. I've been hesitant because I somehow feel getting a hundred different responses to an issue might confuse the person in need of that advice.
 However, I received an email I couldn't ignore. The story is shocking and I'm going to summarize it below as it was really long and detailed (I removed the personal info there )

I'm in a situation which involves life or death. My best friend who is from a very wealthy background got married last week, to a cool dude she has been dating for over a year. They weren't supposed to get married but she got pregnant and he surprised her by proposing. I have been so envious of their love and eventhough he isn't as rich as she is, he spoils her with gifts when he can.



On Saturday which was the wedding,  during  the reception which held at her dad's hotel,  I rushed to the restroom to ease myself but it was all occupied, so I ran to the back, where there was a dark corner and bent to pee. I was about to stand when I heard footsteps,so I was scared of being caught urinating outside and hid behind a car.  Then I heard giggles, it looked like a man and woman making out. I then raised my head to see who they were when I saw my beloved bestfriend,s husband and a lady he had. Introduced to her on many occasions as a colleague

They were kissing so passionately and he said and I quote "I love you.It's only a matter of time and this will be over ". Then she reminded him he had said that before.  He told her this time was different and they needed this marriage to make some cool money. ..when she asked him what he would do if my friend refused to give him a divorce, He said "There is always POISON. She giggled, they kissed and he ran off to join his wife,she followed seconds later.

My first thought was to go and call my friend aside and tell her what I just heard.  However, when I got there she was happily dancing with her man and she looked so happy and inlove. He saw me and said am I not the luckiest man alive. At that moment,  I grew cold. I couldn't say a word.

It has been 2days since they got married and since I heard that. They are going on their honeymoon by weekend. I want to tell my friend but I'm scared of the consequences as she is pregnant and I have no proof except our friendship.

Please I need genuine advice . Should I tell her and damn the consequences? Or should believe he was just being a man and was joking about the poison part?

64 comments:

  1. Hnmmm,this one pass person thinking.

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  2. Nawa o,she should go and seek help from a prophet
    Better yet prophet TB Joshua. At least he would decipher what he asshole of a husband is really thinking.

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    1. Are you just really dumb or just very stupid

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    2. Na u dey craze. I suggested TB Joshua suggest ur own ewu

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  3. if she is a true friend, she would tell her friend why on earth would she even think of keeping that to herself.

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  4. Tell her parents, they would know how to apply wisdom!

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    1. Exactly my thoughts! Its better to tell her parents cos they will be more rational about the situation than her!

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    2. YES. TELL HER PARENTS

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    3. I agree tell the parents and leave it to them

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    4. i also agree to tell her parents and also for them to be on the watch for the guy.

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  5. Ok, i need my thinking cap on for this. This is a no joke situation. *wipes sweat off *

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  6. First of all, I wanna know what tribe the man is from. Is he igbo,yoruba,or hausa.
    If he is igbo, he is surely going to poison her because igbo like money
    If he is yoruba, na empty mouth he dey make. No power
    If na Hausa, hope she is still alive as we speak because no long tin for those ones to kill
    Good luck

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    1. Thunder fire you shape fool. What has tribe got to do with this? Carry your drunken self and stupid comments out of this blog

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    2. Lmao shepe master is right though

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    3. Shepe master however does it feel replying your own comment by yourself. You are even more pathetic than your name.

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  7. Just kill the mudafucka before he poisons your friend. What are assassins for?

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    1. Stupid dumb answer as dumb as your name

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    2. If dem leave u now u make sense abi?

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  8. Send her and her family letter and explain how u bump into him and the lady. U don't have to put your name.

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  9. Shepe Master, this should be constructive, you should have respect for others, if you cant help, dont aggravate things. an individuals actions are solely actions of that mind not as a result of his tribe, if an igbo man dashes you money would you refuse it? if an hausa man went into business with you which resulted in billons, would your opinion not vary. my advise however is to pray, notify the family and possibly the pastor of her church as the case may be, with God, wisdom and guidance all will be well.

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  10. Men are dogs treat them like dogs

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    1. How does this answer the question?

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  11. Your friend will never believe you,you hv to tell her parents.

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  12. What's it with tell her parents tell her parents.dont you guys know the parent may be more irrational. And make a more disastrous move?

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    1. So who do you suggest they tell?? The lady? Abi the man? Use your brain Linda!

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  13. The earlier you do that, the better for your friend, cos she might be poisoned during their honeymoon who knows.

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  14. Ok i can't believe how some pple reason.there's obviously a serious matter here and all some of you do is answer stupidly.nigerians just shut up if you have nothing useful to offer

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  15. Don't tell her parents oh. I once told the parents of a friend that his wife was cheating on him and they turned against me. They just called him there and then and said ..can u imagine what ur stupid friend is saying!we have warned you. Black black black since then I don't say anything

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  16. Talk to her parents first.from there they'll know how to approach it.infact, the guy should sign that if the girl as much as has a headache he will be accountable.Rubbish!
    Princess

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  17. Linda why cant u suggest your own nawww, constructive criticism is what they call it.u di blast but nothing dey ya own head for help da girl.anuofia.
    Princess

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  18. Pray and fast

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    1. ode! looool ontop her friend's matter? olodo!!!

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  19. This as to be done with wisdom oooo.

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  20. Send the guy an anonymous letter stating that his plans to eliminate the girl is known and if anything happens to his wife, he'll surely pay with his own life. Shikena.

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  21. This is serious
    if u dnt make any move and your friend dies,u will never forgive yourself.
    send d guy an anonymous message,threaten him if you can.
    or contact your friend in confidence and ask her to divorce the guy bf its late.
    dis is evil

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  22. she needs to go to her pastor for guidance and pray that God open the friend's eyes and reveal the guy's intention coz it's a dicey and tough decison

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  23. abeg,pls tell her parents. they will definatly listen to you. plsss, her live is in ur hands

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  24. wow...some MEN sha

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  25. Tell her jor

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  26. See this goes a long way to show how we take priorities,the simplest thing you could have don was to start screaming and shouting that moment,but you wanted to save her wedding instead of saving her marriage and life,shout scream hold the lady dnt let her leave,but you didn't and its over cos nobody will believe you,my advice is Fø̲̣̣я̅ you to confide in their wedding priest,tell him then make a formal complaint to police,let it be filled....then go ur own way dnt tell ur friend or her family,you will turn enemy and target

    Sommie

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  27. No be small matter just call her with unknown and tell her her hubby is dating so so so..and take it from there. Depending on her reaction, u can tell if to tell her face to face

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  28. this is a very difficult situation

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  29. Very complicated since it is a fresh marriage but I suggest she sends an anonymous text message with details. If she confides in you about the message, u can tell her what u saw

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  31. Tell her parents and also go with them in company of maybe your Church leaders to your friend and her so called husband's house. And make sure you repeat exactly what you heard in their presence. It's not going to be easy but what you heard is serious as Fuck!!!

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    1. This is not a good idea. The friend will be dead in a matter of days and before that, the guy will deny ever saying anything like that and make everybody turn against the friend.

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    2. Naahhh abeg don't try this advice if u don't want to end up dead

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  32. Tell her pastor and her parent but be careful..

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  35. Please tell her parents please, as a good friend you need to save your friends life.

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  36. Invite ur friend, & the church Priest/Pastor as the case may be to her parents house & tell them. With the presence of a Priest/Pastor, I believe they will take it serious & know u're not lying. Be honest & say things exactly the way u heard them. Pray fervently before u do so, the Holy Spirit will minister to them in the most positive way. By his grace wisdom will take over. But in worst case scenario, be prepared to lose her as ur friend, if they happen not to believe u. But atleast before God & man u've spoken for peace. Just do the right thing by confiding in someone.

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  37. GO TO THE NEAREST POLICE STATION AND MAKE AN OFFICIAL REPORT/STATEMENT.

    THEY WILL CALL HIM IN FOR QUESTIONING AND HOPEFULLY HAVE HIM SIGN AN UNDERTAKING THAT SAYS IF ANYTHING SHOULD HAPPEN TO HER HE AND HIS GIRLFRIEND ALONE WILL BE HELD ACCOUNTABLE.
    IT'S ONE THING TO TELL HER PARENTS, PASTORS, RELATIVES ETC BUT REPORT TO THE POLICE... IN YOUR STATEMENT, GIVE A DETAILED ACCOUNT OF HOW YOU OVERHEARD HIS CONVERSATION WITH A CERTAIN LADY... GOOD YOU KNOW HER ALREADY SO YOU CAN ALWAYS IDENTIFY HER. YOUR FRIEND HAS BEEN JAZZED. NO MATTER WHAT YOU TELL HER SHE WON'T HEAR YOU OR LISTEN.

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  38. Send the guy anonymous messages that u know he wants to kill his wife. It will scare him and he won't do shit

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  39. I am the guy you a have been talking about. I don't care what anyone says, I will still go ahead with my plans ASAP . You all don't know what it means to be poor.

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    1. Mista,impersonator guess the best thing is for you to but the poison already.why on earth are you here wasting the precious time you see supposed to be making cool cash for yourself Explaining is to use get going already and do it.IDIAT as in idiot.

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  40. Who says people are not cruel in this world.i bet even the devil is scared of this dude.

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  41. Write a letter to your friend's husband in the name of the girlfriend asking why he is delaying in your plan to kill his wife and going on about how you re missing him and need him by your side all night. And how without him your bed is cold every night. Also that if the bitch of a wife is not transfering her wealth to him, he should force her to do it and kill her or else you will kill her herself. Now ensure the letter gets into your friend's hands by mailing it directly to her and sending a copy to her parents. Ensure you cannot be traced in all these and play along when the bubble burst. Else, you ll be dead in a heart beat. Good luck.

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  42. Hmmmmn z serious. Pray

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  43. i dey see danger

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  44. wow this is tough!!! i say tell ur friend and her parents!

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