When asked by Punch why she gave OJB,her husband of 20 years her kidney, his first wife Mabel said
Mabel:
I did not even think twice about it, I had it and I gave it to him. He is my husband, the father of our children and I love him. This is somebody I have been with all my life. I did not tell anybody before I decided to, not even my parents because I had foreseen their reaction. There was no reason to inform them. When I married him, I told God I wanted the both of us to grow old together and live to see many generations. I am sure God knew this situation before he brought us together because not only am I a match for him, we are the same blood group and we are both stubborn.OJB replies below
OJB:
A major illness can break a home. Sometimes, instead of one partner seeing the other through the period of sickness, they would rather walk away. It could be draining them psychologically, financially or both. When you talk more as a couple, you create that atmosphere where you can actually share what you feel about the situation. I did not want anybody to donate an organ for me and I was very stubborn about it. I thought I was going to come out of the situation without a transplant. I was ready to go through any other route to make it happen. Above every other thing, I have always believed in the God factor and that is what has kept us going because Nigerians are very sceptical
What are your pet names for each other?
OJB:
I call her Mama J and she calls me Jigga my Nigga.
Thank God 4 ur life ojb.....face ur life nd STFU
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DeleteShe's too good a wife codd I wonder whr d other two dey.. Men should pray for a woman like ds I swr cos me no go gree stau after 2more wives. God make me ds strong n helpful to mmy man when he needs me most.
ReplyDeleteThat's a lesson learned.
ReplyDeletewow! such a lovely woman.
ReplyDeleteIf she give am kidney, e mean say change still dey that money oh
ReplyDeleteYou call her mama J, she calls you jigga ma nigga still yet you married 2 other women after her and have 8kids to show? I hope this changes you and you treat this woman like a queen
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Those other two wives, dem be longer throat,wetin dem find go there,dem no see say ojb get wife nii!! And as for the ojb you keep marrying does women under the pretense of what? U had a problem now it's still ur first wife that donated her kidney for,so did u need the other women for? And this goes for the other women it's in the bible any woman that marries another woman's husband is a thief! I really want to thank mama j for her courage and standing by her man, she deserve to be called good woman and wife.
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ReplyDeleteMama j, God bless you, as for me I can never do that maybe in my next life, after marrying other women behind me ever!!! This ojb of a guy sef na wa for you oh! You pack women for haus like sandine, hope u know wives can never love each other they can only pretend and na that pretense them go use destroy you slowly ( talking from xpirence) be careful.
ReplyDeleteI can never do this for my husband. Rubbish
ReplyDeletehahahaha same here
DeleteGood good loving...
ReplyDeleteNice woman God will bless u mama. J,no mind men with dere wahala were dose other mugu wives dem dey now.
ReplyDeletemany ladies commentin are lyin dey cant do it
ReplyDeleteShe is beautiful inside out. It is obvious he takes care of all of them, they all look happy. Better than men who mistreat their solo wives.
ReplyDeleteGod bless her soul, not easy @ all not wen he married two wifes after her.
ReplyDelete: True friendship isn't being inseparable.. Its being separated and nothing changes.
Wow never giving my kidney to no man.Not even blood transfusion
ReplyDeleteIf it were Mama J dat needed a transplant, OJB wud nt even donate his kidney t her. #myopinion. Anyways she is really a rare breed. God bless Mama J big time. She is an epitome of true luv.
ReplyDeleteAww thats so touching...needs a heart to do that
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U'r just luckyshe stil loves u. If na me I no giv after having 2odas.is either u die Dia or collect 4m d oda wives.
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