Please I need your advice..am in a serious relationship with my guy and we re doing pretty well but d problem is that I want to get pregnant for him but he's so bent at me finishing my education b4 anything am in my final year second semester if not for d strike would have been a graduate now,he uses a condom and even when he don't he withdraws..
am 24yrs n he's over 30 and financially stable.he's so bent on me finishing school that am beginning to get suspicious,he's not married that am so sure of.he's own is that he doesn't want me to get pregnant out of wedlock that he wants to get married first..I love him so much..please does he love me or is he just using me?and if he loves me why don't he want me pregnant?
Any advice for her?
U dey mad no be only pregnant na preggo
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DeleteU sound so desperate on getting pregnant! What made u so sure that he will even marry u? Be wise, read the writting on the wall & don't do something you will forever regret.
You are VERY desperate cos u don't want to lose him to another girl, and if you continue like this, he will dump you. Finish your school and get pregnant at the right time. There's no honour in pregnancy out of wedlock
ReplyDeleteThe reason he doesn't want you to get pregnant is because he LOVES you, if I were your BF, I'd dump you if u keep pestering me to get pregnant
ReplyDeleteGuys stop laying to her and face facts. The guy doesn't love her that's why he is so scared of getting her pregnant. It's a good thing he doesn't want her to get pregnant till she finishes school but it is all a front .So babe, find your way
ReplyDeleteSo having a baby 4 some 1 is now love now abi.@poster sex will not make him love u n a baby will not make him stay.
DeleteHmm, a lot of reasons for his action, both positive and negative, but hope he's not a Muslim o, if he his a Muslim don't try it, because your child will remain a bastard, whether he marries you now or later! Be sensible and wise dear.
ReplyDeleteAs for me d guy is responsible take it frm me, a guy can get u pregnant n not marry u. i dnt tink he's a bad person jst keep doin ur tin and act well,it well even b worse if u get pregnant n he ask u to abort it.jst chill
ReplyDeleteU r just a fool biatch!
ReplyDeleteI told him to nt impregnate u..
Becos u need to grow up.
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Deletefinish ur education girlfriend before you get pregnant..you kynda sound desperate.I don't think you need an advice because anybody with a well functioning brain will know what to do.
ReplyDeleteYou shouldn't be having sex in the first place
ReplyDelete@M u dey mad well well,re u a virgin?GOD ABEGO!al dis holy holy eh God is watchn
ReplyDelete@anon 20:54 u nid Jesus in ur life..M said d truth n u re insultin him Smh for u.
ReplyDeleteSmh. I don't even know what to say. What happened to self esteem? Is getting pregnant a ticket for getting married or something?
ReplyDeleteYou r very stupid. How can u want to get pregnant for a guy u r not yet married to?
ReplyDeleteHi,
ReplyDeleteIt might be a difficult to give advice because we do not know the entirety of the situation. I will not take sides but i agree that you should wait till marriage.
Having a child is no small feat. It is expensive, and it changes the course of your life, unless you are ready. I have a feeling you are a beautiful, intelligent young woman and you should worry about being in good educational and financial standing, then you can be proud of the woman that you have become.
Please reconsider and take baby steps such as education, marriage then starting your family, rather than bringing a child into the world at this state.
xoxo
A friendly adviser.
@pweetys protege... U re so dry+boring.. Leave it 4 pwetty ok...
ReplyDeletemehn...am so speechless, how old did u say u are sef.....nd u ar in ur finals....u stil nid some growing up to do!!!! its nt only pregnant....mtchewww
ReplyDeleteIs she ok? Abi wt kind of question is dt dull head U̶̲̥̅̊ want †☺ get preg U̶̲̥̅̊ must be insane.
ReplyDeleteConcentrate of ur education 1st I dey beg u plssss
ReplyDeletePweety pretge ot wateva u call urself, u are so irritating, na coy copy go kill. U. Then bak 2d issue in d house, trouble dey sleep yangan go wake, wetin e dey fine? Palavah he dey find palavah he get,
ReplyDeleteSmh
ReplyDeleteFinish the school first and see what happens
ReplyDeleteEndtimes
ReplyDeleteReal Endtimes! Wat is wrong with young girls of nowadays?
DeleteWen our so called role models ar baby mamas wot do u expect ? But as for me I prefare to rock my weeding dress wit my shape intact first befor pregnancy all dis shit I hear about pregnancy? How difficult it is and blah blah one is pleading to rush in it witout proper procedure ! If na my papa be ur papa u go hear am ,#oma#
ReplyDeletey not finish the school first abi dem dey follow you from house mtweeeeeeeeeeew.
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pls am pregnant for a guy we jus two months old in d relatnshp n he luvs me bt am stil tryin to love him n now am pregnant.am so confused.i dnt want an abortion n i dnt want to hv dis baby out of wedlock..pls advice me .thnks
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