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Saturday, 2 May 2015

Female reader who's slept with 12 men needs your advice

Hello Miss Petite family, I have something which have been bothering me, I don't know who to confide in because I feel I might look too bad to them. I'm coming under anonymous to confess my sins and allow you guys judge me. I am a girl of 26, have been through ups and downs like others in a relationship and have slept 12 different guys.

I'm not a runs girl and I always want a serious relationship but it doesn't always work out. The fact that I have slept with this number (12) of men disturbs me psychologically knowing I'm not yet married. Am I a bad person? Please I want to stop this, I feel bad whenever I remember it. I feel like a prostitute already (I guess I am).

 Please judge me, tell me your mind, I'm happy I have revealed this to people who do not know me. I really want to know what you think about my situation. Your comment will b appreciated. 
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59 comments:

  1. Unknown2 May 2015 at 14:54

    You need God in your life.



    #GodblessNigeria

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    1. Unknown2 May 2015 at 15:48

      May God guide you to the right path!!!

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    2. keisha2 May 2015 at 15:50

      @Emeh.... Thank you . God bless you

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    3. Unknown2 May 2015 at 17:19

      It's not too late to start afresh dear. U av to be committed firstly to ursef. When u find ursef in a new relationship, take ur time to study the person. Don't give in too cheaply. Ur past might be filled with so many mistakes but ur future is still spotless. May God help u dear...:)

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    4. Unknown3 May 2015 at 08:07

      My dear it's not your fault. Must men in Naija just want to do n go. Men lie and skim Just to get in that panties. Your Eyes are open now, study a guy properly before sleeping with him. At list 3months of dating. No less than 7 dates

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    5. Steve3 May 2015 at 15:58

      My dear,you're not a bad person. None of us here can claim to be holier than you. All you have to do is to study a man and at the same time be submissive. Being in a relationship has rules. You can obey all but leave the sex out a bit. A man that just wants only sex can't pretend for long. But above all,be prayerful. Seek first the wisdom of God and everything else shall follow.

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    6. DNB Stories3 May 2015 at 22:23

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  2. Unknown2 May 2015 at 14:54

    You need God in your life.



    #GodblessNigeria

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    1. @MEETD®EALEVANS™2 May 2015 at 17:10

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      Dear poster, am dumbfounded, u mean u feeling remorse over just 12 Guys? Whoa, I know of girls who are not runs girls and av dated more Dan a football team with all substitute in it... Ex girlfrnd from 2007 hope u reading this.... Bottom line is Dear Poster, I pray and hope u find some1 who u want to f**k only him, u find him someday, trust me

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    2. Jeni_zee 2 May 2015 at 18:01

      Lots of girls have slept with 200 men, 12 is still honourable lol

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    3. Unknown2 May 2015 at 18:18

      Lmao stupid comment Evans.

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    4. Unknown2 May 2015 at 19:47

      @jenny zee. Really?

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  3. Brown sugar2 May 2015 at 14:59

    You are not a bad person!
    There is nothing wrong with you!
    Some girls and guys have even lost count...
    May God guve all of US to GRACE to live above sin!
    So go and sin no more!

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  4. Steveosky 4 Real.2 May 2015 at 15:01

    First of all you have to take away the notion you are a bad person....Life is like a mixture of success and failure. People who are really successful in life, also have experienced their share of failures. It is just that instead of remembering the failed times, they just concentrate on their success. It is important to learn from your failures and move on. Goodluck 2 u..!!!

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    1. Brown sugar2 May 2015 at 15:07

      I don't even know the adjective to qualify your person!
      You are just too much uncle Steve.
      Respect!

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    2. Steveosky 4 Real.2 May 2015 at 15:19

      Brown Sugar darling thanks... Are you done with exams now? How about your hubby Pastor Chekeleke.. Hehehe. Have a great weekend...!!!

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    3. Brown sugar2 May 2015 at 15:30

      Uwc Boss!
      Exams have not started yet ...
      Hmmmm as for Pastor Chekeleke he has gone on exile! Lol

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    4. Unknown2 May 2015 at 16:04

      Mpn family thank you so very much my baby is getting better and I also did what SVC told me I took her 2 d church..Good bless you all for your help and support

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    5. BeeVee2 May 2015 at 16:41

      So happy 2 hear the good news @ Rose.

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    6. Unknown2 May 2015 at 22:05

      Well said steve...hmmm i love d part where u said "life is a mixture of success and failure

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  5. Unknown2 May 2015 at 15:01

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    1. Brown sugar2 May 2015 at 15:04

      Taa! Carry your judgemental mouth and get outta here!
      You talk like you are better than her!
      Askor!

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    2. Anonymous2 May 2015 at 15:08

      Na wa dey way people advice what has placenta got to do with this???? Dear is good you air your mind soon you not disturbed psychologically anymore! You are not bad person as long as you have learnt your mistake..

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  6. Olusoji2 May 2015 at 15:04

    Who says you are a prostitute? Sorry dear, you are just a victim of circumstances, but having realised your wrong you need to retrace your foot step.

    Why rush? Still young though. Pls take your time to screen men that may come your way. Take your time and this time no to sex until your wedding night? God honours this.

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    1. Brown sugar2 May 2015 at 15:11

      Nice words!
      Can you say no to sex until your wedding night?

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    2. Olusoji2 May 2015 at 15:18

      It is hard but possible. His grace is sufficient..

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    3. Mystique2 May 2015 at 15:53

      Brown Sugar nothing is impossible with God. He is faithful that promised

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    4. Flamente Savvy Interiors2 May 2015 at 17:55

      @brown sugar be cracking me up since 1990. Dear poster u aren't bad at all, just find happiness in yourself, you can't get what you don't have. So Go Girl take charge . All the best

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  7. Unknown2 May 2015 at 15:09

    Aunty brown sorry o! My hand no dey again!

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  8. Anonymous2 May 2015 at 15:11

    My dear, u r nt a bad person. Those who claim 2 b good r even badder than d devil. If I c a guy dt I like nd I want 2 ve sex wit that person,i do it nd move on, no regret. Life is to short 2 b tinking if u r a good or bad person,jst have a good character, fear of God nd dress decent.

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  9. Unknown2 May 2015 at 15:16

    My dear we've all been der n done dat, d worse u can do to ursef is continuous condemnation n regret. Move on girl, let d past b in d past n if it makes u feel better, then close ur legs henceforth til u meet d right guy.

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    1. Unknown2 May 2015 at 17:08

      Madam U are correct ma.....The devil is a beast trying to make her feel guilty.....@In christ JESUS we are new creature old things are passed away behold all things are now new

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  10. Bello2 May 2015 at 15:25

    honestly ds steve guys makes mature comments@brown sugar ur a gud observer. And 2 u gal, der is stl room 2 correct ur mistakes.

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  11. Olayemi2 May 2015 at 15:40

    Pls move on and frgt d past,nd pls dnt sleep wt any othr guy...unless u ar sure,it's leading to marraige...inshrt always pray 4 God's guidance.

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    1. Mystique2 May 2015 at 15:52

      Don't sleep at all before marriage!

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    2. BeeVee2 May 2015 at 16:50

      @Mystique I hope u read the post a few days back where a man divorced his wife coz she had no vagina.

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  12. Mystique2 May 2015 at 15:51

    Hmm...my dear I think you need to go to God and ask for forgiveness and repent and pray Him to give you the strength. I know its not easy and temptations will come. God loves you and wants to have a relationship with you. Trust Him to make all things beautiful in His time. You don't need to have sex to show a man you love him. Pray and meditate on God's Word and ask for the grace to help you Stans strong. That been said, you may have unknowingly entered into some covenants o, because one you sleep with someone you take a little piece of them with you. Maybe you should go for prayers to break every yoke. Take care, dearie. Remember you are beautiful and amazing. You don't need to define your self worth to anyone by sleeping with them. You're worth more than gold. God loves you. Try and read some self-confidence books and hold your head up high. You're a princess cos your Father is the King of kings!

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  13. Anonymous2 May 2015 at 16:03

    It's good to know u've still got a conscience. Don't let ur mistakes bring u down. Move past it and learn from ur shortcomings. Above all ask for God's guidance

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    1. Unknown2 May 2015 at 16:08

      Azzzz in some people don't have conscience at all. I'm sure you'll be relieved after sharing this, trust me you're still better than some people. Go and Sin no more.

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  14. Unknown2 May 2015 at 16:10

    a.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said...
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    Sorry gal but is gud yu are nw a chnged person no doubt....
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    ***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***

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  15. Unknown2 May 2015 at 16:10

    MR EDDY said this heat wan kill person o

    My dear poster please don't waste time grieving over past mistakes. Learn from them and move on..
    ^
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    ^™THAT EDO BOY.COM~

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  16. SVC2 May 2015 at 16:10

    My dear, you are not a bad person nor a prostitute. Becos you have slept with 12 men, how does that reduce your pride? some ladies cannot even count how many guys they have slept with. You just need to retrace your step and seek the face of the Most high(GOD). It will surely end in praise.. IT IS WELL

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  17. ᶜᵃˡˡ ᵐᵉ Chimbu2 May 2015 at 16:32

    My dear,yu aint a bad person @all. Worthy of note is †ђξ fact dat yu've realised yo mistakes nw,yu jst need God's abundant GRACE in yo life. Goodluck n stay positive!

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  18. Unknown2 May 2015 at 16:34

    That you acknowledge your weaknesses, weakpoints and lapses shows you have a positive self-esteem. You are not the first to experience this and you will not be the last. It is very difficult to predict the outcome of a relationship. Fine, prayers are good but what is more important is to examine your values. What have you compromised to please your partner? Why did you compromise those value? If you have positive values, you don't need to compromise it no matter how strong the love is. positive values are good. Any man that respect your value is your true love. The one that threatens you in the name of breaking-up or just to submit to societal practices is not firm. Such men can walk away anytime and if they get married to you, faithfulness will be very scarce like fuel in such relationship. You can still have a good relationship and happy marriage. Just hold ton to your value system and try abstinence. It may be difficult but very possible for those with self-control

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  19. BeeVee2 May 2015 at 16:39

    Confess your sins unto the Lord and ask 4 his forgiveness. Believe that he has forgiven you, get committed in your local church, serve God whole heartedly, dont be in any church looking for any man...just be yourself and move on with your life.
    Liv a happy life!!!!!!!

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  20. Arike2 May 2015 at 16:51

    Shit happens dear,stop dwelling on ur past,no one is holy,commit ur ways unto the lord nd he wil direct ur path

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  21. Unknown2 May 2015 at 16:59

    Leave the past and face a new beginning! God has already forgiven you even before you asked for his forgiveness! Live a godly life worthy of emulation and you'll be blessed with your own man! It's well

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  22. Anonymous2 May 2015 at 17:13

    Am lost here! Only 12 guys? How many of you here, have not had more than 12 sexual partners @ 26. Am referring to both guys and ladies! Please play another track jare!!!

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    1. BeeVee2 May 2015 at 17:22

      Anon stop it, she's too young for that and thank God she wants a better life coz she knows what she did was bad. Your comment makes it sounds as if its normal n a right thing 2 have loads of men at that young age.

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    2. Anonymous2 May 2015 at 17:43

      Maybe I live in another planet! With Internet and social media? The world has changed, so just deal with it. She's got morals to feel this way cos people don't care!!!

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  23. Unknown2 May 2015 at 17:23

    You have heard it all,turn to God as he is the author and finisher of our faith,talk to him,by strength shall no man prevail. Finally Isaiah 43 ;18-19. U can't believe who u will become and ur gift of a man will manifest IJN

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  24. Gift Amadi2 May 2015 at 17:26

    My dear, it's always nice to free urself of wat bothers u, most pple have done worse dan dis and dey dnt even regret, dey r even moving on and on with guys, just pray to God for a good man who will see more than having sex wit u and remain wit u. It's nt easy to see a guy who will stay committed in a relationship without sex. U aint a bad person, there r worse girls out dia. Dnt kill urself over ur past, try and put dem behind u and move on

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  25. Unknown2 May 2015 at 19:40


    Family has said it all.

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  26. Anonymous2 May 2015 at 21:35

    What is the wahala? I beg! I know some runs girls in Lagos that sleep with that many men in a month. Are you serious?

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  27. Effiezy.com2 May 2015 at 23:49

    12 is not bad considering you are only 26, Just make sure you are protected, So many of us have bigger fault than you. Please stay positive and enjoy your life and you will find true love.

    Please visit www.effiezy.com


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