I'm sending this mail so your readers can give me some advice regarding it.
I've been in a relationship for a year and still on. I've also had previous relationships. The issue here is I always find myself getting bored and uninterested after a while. Have no doubts the guys are good and caring but there's just nothing for me. I feel horrible because I always break up for no reason and they beg and we get back together out of sympathy and pity. Already I've broken up with this guy and taken him back and I'm still thinking of something to accuse him of. I need advice on how to handle this,am I normal?I'm yet to find fulfilment in any guy even when they are faithful and good. I'm getting bothered coz it may seem I'm letting go of good men but I'm just "cold" inside...
Hmmmn sister go consult your village oracle because e be like na from village dem do you
ReplyDeleteVillage oracle for wht na? My dear pry to God and just work on yourself in terms of likes.
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It happened †☺ me even when I ws in school my friends both boys and girls used †☺ ask me whether av bn jilted or raped b4 but it ws nt dt, I ws just nt interested ai cd nt explain it even no relationship appealed †o me I was nt in love wt guy like pple wd cry dia heart out when they v problem wt dia boyfriends i was so indifferent. I am married now but b4 I got married it ws †ђǝ same thing wt ds my hubby then but thank God everything is ok nw. Pls take note of ur dreams cos it may be wt they called spirit husband, then pray very well and all will be well
DeleteLol spirit husband ke?
DeleteHmmmn sister go consult your village oracle because e be like na from village dem do you
ReplyDeleteIt's a mind thing. Maybe someone broke your heart before.You got to let go of your past and embrace your future. You are not getting younger
ReplyDeleteWell sisi, its quite psychological, I shd strongly guess; its either U from a broken home or sm pips hv suffered sumfing terrible from guys but U jst need to work deeper inwardly and try to believe real hard that there's sumfing that can work out 4 good wif U and any good guy. Geo 444
ReplyDeleteBe focus and know what you want. Believe me it will work for you.it has been tested and proven.
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DeleteBabe go consult Okija Juju joor. Btw, Speaking of the new year, Did you know that some irish folks Bang bread on the wall just to mark the new year?
ReplyDeleteDon't worry, when you are 40 single and lonely ask us again?
ReplyDeleteI felt like insulting you, but I gave it an afterthought because it is a sensitive issue.
ReplyDeleteI want u to know that love is beyond just mere feelings, love is a choice to serious commitment. Sometimes, I don't have those romantic feelings for my boo, infact I may feel like hitting her cos I'm so mad @ her at a moment (I have never hit her). But I would not say I'm leaving her because I am feeling cold towards her.
Just try and focus on the good attributes of this guy. Don't push away someone who truly loves u. I guess in the future, you may not afford such luxury.
Shrek
I felt like insulting you, but I gave it an afterthought because it is a sensitive issue.
DeleteI want u to know that love is beyond just mere feelings, love is a choice to serious commitment. Sometimes, I don't have those romantic feelings for my boo, infact I may feel like hitting her cos I'm so mad @ her at a moment (I have never hit her). But I would not say I'm leaving her because I am feeling cold towards her.
Just try and focus on the good attributes of this guy. Don't push away someone who truly loves u. I guess in the future, you may not be able afford such luxury.
Shrek
Shrek get girlfriend? Me get hope then
DeleteYou sound exactly like my ex, like anon 9.48 said it probably cos of a broken home. My ex had father issues, the man rejected her at birth and she hasn't gotten over it. I was her 7th boyfriend and after me in d space of 9 months, she has dated 2 other guys
ReplyDeleteSee a shrink, and get all the anger you have in you out
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ReplyDeleteI have this same problem....but I've learnt thaT love is beyond feelings.Its a choice :)
ReplyDeleteLet go of the fear u have,let God into ur relationship because perfect love casts out fear :)
The Fashion Engineer
Go to church
ReplyDeleteYou no normal. Kindly consult Ifa.
ReplyDeleteMcAfeezEnt, u must be very very stupid. Calling u stupid is even a shame to stupid people. Ur not even funny
DeleteWhen you meet the right man, you won't say this. You will fall
ReplyDeletei think you are a lesbian
ReplyDeleteYou are 100 percent normal..forget all ds pple asking u to go to village bla bla bla
All u need to do,,is tell it to JESUS
@Galore
Well, you just chill, the right man will come and you would fall hopelessly
ReplyDeleteI guess you get someone crazy, a joke, someone interesting not a calm person
ReplyDeleteMy dear its normal it actually happened to me before not becos I had family issues or sometin but becos I was not welling to open my heart den but I actually did which landed me to another heart break its just tym n u will be fyn kk
ReplyDeleteBe a lesbian like me.shikena
ReplyDeleteOnly God can soften ur heart oh
ReplyDeleteLol Emeh the pic u used is funny
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U r possess with evil sprit... u have sprit husband... I presume u have sex while asleep.. Oya confess and run to SCOAN
ReplyDeleteU r possess with evil sprit... u have sprit husband... I presume u have sex while asleep.. Oya confess and run to SCOAN
ReplyDeleteBroke ass girl, u want a rich guy dats y ur breaking up with the poor ones dat come ur way.
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