I'm 22 years old in a relationship with this guy who is 31,he was so inlove with me and proved it in many ways.He has also been responsible for my bills for the past 2 years now.He proposed 4 months ago and I agreed to marry him.
I've not been to his house since then but got there recently and saw so many evidence so show he has been cheating on me.
On my part, I have never cheated on him .He is so changed now,he used to be calm,tender,loving but now he is so mean .He used to be someone that couldnt sleep when I'm angry but ow he doesnt care .
Yesterday, we had an issue and i left his house.He asked me not to go but I didn't answer and he didn't call me.Usually he cant stay 3 hours without calling me but yesterday he stayed the whole day without calling .Miss Petite, though I am in a friend's house now, i'm feeling like no one else exists .The terrible truth is that everyother man irritates me except him.
Now I am so much inlove with him ,I cant picture my life without him .We planned on doing our introduction this year and for reasons i don't understand ,he is telling me he is not ready now or am I in a rush to get married?
I think he loves me but his family doesn't want him to marry me because we are not from the same state.I am from Enugu and he is from Delta.I am getting tired of life.
I think the major reason why I feel this much is because I have built my life around him .My dad is late and I don't collect money from my mum..He is my only means of survival and he has not failed.Even till now, he still takes care of my needs.
My friends advised me to focus on his cash and not allow his cheating bother me but I cant .I have fallen inlove with him that I don't care about money or anything .All I want is for us to be happy again like we used to. Now I left his house yesterday and some of my stuffs are still there so it means I'm definitely going back .Help me beg your readers to put me in their sister's shoes,they should help me out because I'm going insane.Please I beg you
WHEN I GO SHOULD I BEG HIM OR JUST PICKUP MY THINGS AND LEAVE (He has grown to know I love him and can't do without him..He is so used to my tears that it doesn't move him anymore)
Emeh the bitter truth is I want to have him back but I need advise on things to do(He complains that I have bad temper and i'm impatient)
This one pass me oh.You are already making excuses for the guy saying his family is the cause.I would say Dump him.That's if you will listen
ReplyDeletedump him and u will pay are bills abi, no mind him o, if u dump him an asewo job remain for jobless girls in 9ja o
DeleteMaybe you have shown him how dependant you are of him that he now feels you can't do without him, any man that makes an excuse that his family is the reason why he can't marry you isn't ready for marriage at all,or doesn't love you that much after all cause if he takes sides with his family even before marriage, he will never be the knight in shiny armor when you have any issue with them.. RUN.
DeleteI want to believe this guy thinks he solves all your problems like you said so he might have concluded you can live with whatever part of him he gives you.
Try alittle something, play mute, its a 2way thing you either lose him completely or you get the man in him back. I tell myself often its you and only you that can control what you want to affect you. And some guys know how to take advantage of it at any given chance. Don't nag him pls, and don't complain that he has changed,just pray often and try hard to go about your normal life. If he really is for you, the odds are that he will notice your distance and cover up. All the best!
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I want to express my past life to you on this site my name is Faith Hoel. i want in a relationship with Hoel i love him and we were very happy in our relationship shortly, will got wedded to each other after 2 months, i got pregnant for him and we were very much happy and my family love and like him because of his honest to me and i was so happy God have make my day bright more than before. one day, he was away from my country because will both lives in USA and i was thinking it was the say way will feel for each other not knowing that my husband have a lady in France and this is the lady that called him one day telling him when he's coming back to France i look i don't think he we be going to France and he cannot live me here and travel to France then i did not take it serious i over look him and i did not ask him anything about his last call one day, i was in the office with a friend not knowing my husband have left the house my greatest surprise, gotting home i found out his not in i call him on phone not reachable i don't no what to do i was so worried a day after he called me with another cell phone and say his out of USA then i ask him honey when are you coming back to USA? he said i don't no yet then he ended the call a week later, i was trying the number he called me with it was not reachable 2 weeks later, i try calling he a lady pick the call and said who are you? then i explain my self to her she said ok i should forget about my husband then i started crying and i said another woman have claim my husband the i don't no what to do i quickly call my friend tell her all that just happen both of us was looking for solution on how his going to come back to me so one day, i was doing some research on internet in there, i found a comment were some one give a testimony about this man called Dr.SAMURA how he was helped by him and his contact email and his number was there so i was so upset to contact this man so i inform my friend again she ask me to give a trier and Dr. SAMURA bring back my husband from France to me now am so happy with him and my family is very happy about his coming back to me so if you are in such pain, via email SAMURATELLERSPELL100@YAHOO.COM OR CALL +2347030410643
DeletePut everything in prayers, beg him when next u visit him, do not give up on him, its natural to ve differencies in a relationship. Seek positive advise my dear and use it as a medium to make ur relationship work.
ReplyDeleteWhy are you wasting time with a Nigerian man.Contact me and i will give you an Italiano.But the only available one is 83 years old.I gave Genevieve and Omotola the last 2 young ones last week.If you have patience, you can join the waiting list with Rukky Sanda and Patience Jona
ReplyDeleteMy love pwetty....lol
DeletePwetty, u r just funny. I can't help but love you.
DeleteI so love to read from pwetty u are so stupid lol...tb
ReplyDeleteAs hard as this may be, ignore him for like 2weeks and see what happens, If he doesn't call to reconcile, u will have to move on with ur life, u r just 22, with time u will surely get over him. If u get married to that kind of man, u will be in a "for better for worse" situation and exit door may be too far to reach
ReplyDeleteTrue talk.....
DeleteAgree wit u 100%. http://inspireoma.blogspot.com for ur inspirational stories.
DeleteI totally agree with you. My dear,I've been in worse situations. Twice I was turned down by guys who already proposed marriage(not with ring though but plans and talks) but twice they walked away and married the girls they dated before me. Same story,different guys. My temper and impatience contributed a whole lot to the disappointments too but today my darling,the story is different,not only did God work on my temper but I'm getting married to my best friend that had always been there for me even when the both of them walked away,but he's the cutest,richest,from a notable family and best of all,Gods choice for me. I remember how suicidal I almost was but today,if you put the 3 guys together,I would choose my husband to be over and over again. In all this sweetie,I've learnt to trust God and I've truly come to the understanding that everything works together for our good and that every disappointment is a blessing. Pray to God darling,because nobody loves you like he does. If this guy isn't for you,let him go,no matter how painful. Just let things play but do not force anything or manipulate him back into your life. Kg he isn't the one,trust God because he's got someone waaaaaaay better for u. Tk dear. Xoxo...
DeleteMy first advice is get a job so you wont depend on him.2nd advice is you are too young to be in a relationship let alone marriage.You have alot to experience.
ReplyDelete22 too young? What cave did u craw out from
DeleteThese are just some of the stupid comments i am talking about. How can someone say 22 is too young for relationship? No mental stimulation from the comments one gets to read. If mr anonymous leaves na stupid people for emeh blog pursue me.
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If he's cheating now, he will surely when u get married, if it doesn't bother u he's cheating, go on with the wedding. Put on a show and ignore him if he doesn't come back, its not meant to be. Ur financial future is not tied to him, if he goes, another person will take it up
ReplyDeletePls dear, I knw ow u feel my advice 4 u s to ignore him 4 sumtym, if he really loves u, he'll cum bk and a situation where s family doesn't want u,it s akward babe, pray to God or leave him and pls get a job stop dependn on him,stop seeing him as god, u v ur life bbe.
ReplyDeletelike odas advice u,stay away for sometime and if doesnt come back dat means he is not gud for u,,he his just usin u and paying u,a guy can take u to his parent and not marry u
ReplyDeleteDear pwetty, stop acting like you ddnt send this letter in. Just own up at once and get good advice.
ReplyDeleteSince your italino is messing up, my advice will be for u to start a relationship with your yoruba shoe cleaner.
Also, since u said in the last post that u will be meeting with davido's dad, u can plead with him for assistance so u can start a new life with your new love.
You are welcome.
Lol.... My pwetty is too big for dat....where will she put er italiano??
DeleteU are a nincompoop 17:55,you don't know who I am and i'm coming for you.CRIPPL,E FOWL
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DeleteI honestly think he has taken you for granted,he obviously knows you wld cry your eyes out.My dear,send him a msg or call because communication is important and tell him how u feel and that if he doesn't change or feel remorse you are gonna walk out.And make up your mind to if he's acting non challant.Such is life,people come and go.You may think u have met d best man in the world until u meet anoda.Biko,let him also know u a strong woman who can exist very well without him.God bless you.
ReplyDeleteYou you say call him. African daisy says ignore him. You see how too many cooks spoil the soup. Ladies if you keep taking ur homefront affairs to ur inlaws, friends, pastors, co workers, immediate family members and blog readers. You are tearing down ur home with ur own hands. Listen to ur own heart in a quite moment. The answer to your problem will come to you. Its a still small voice. But its a powerful voice. People will twist and confuse you cause they dont know the whole story. Im not in support of going outside one's home for advice or bringing people into one's home to advise you on domestic issues. They will wreck your home and rob you of ur happiness. Be wise.
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Hang on a bit before you let go... good men are hard to find,find out if there is anything you have done to trigger this and don't be scared to ask him what he wants out of the relationship if this behavior continues. Give him a little space, if he doesn't call, call him and ask questions...
ReplyDeleteps:Don't start your conversation with "can we talk " .if this attitude persists after the talk,kindly walk away
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Pwetty's stupid and funny comment has made me forget abt wat i wanted to say... Pwetty u r indeed a character, i tink Emeh shuld give u an award here
ReplyDeleteYou guys have over run me with your fuschia pink blog way of life. Im really surprised to see that you love pweety's comments and her likes. In fact im humbled. Now i feel like a fish outta water. So therefore, mr anonymous is considering calling it quits on commenting. I stir up controversies too much. So enjoy ur pweety and co ( stupidity at its worse ) To my sweet M. I will miss you. A fuschia pink blog is no place for mr anonymous. So u guys enjoy. Happy to have been part of class of 2013 miss petit nigeria.
ReplyDeleteMr anonymous ( the curvy bumbum lover ) ( class of 2013 Miss petit nigeria )
To be compared and put in the same category as pweety. I will rather put an end to commenting on this blog. In all of my life i have never being compared to a stupid being such as the pweety. That got to me. If that is the mentality of people on this blog not to know the difference between mr anonymous and pweety. Then i dont belong to the miss petit or is it miss pweety family. I hate stupidity in its entirety. To be compared to a dafty such as pweety. Now thats the straw that has broken the camels back. I cant stand stupid females. I never have and never will be able to stand empty vessel females. I can excuse the stupidity of guys. But a daft female? Train a woman and you have trained a village. Have a stupid woman as the head of the home and you are destroying the society. It shows the power and importance of women.
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Mr anonymous u must be stupid to type dat rubbish or where u high.... I guess u don't hv a moda, a sis or a gf...... Instead of u to say u want to sell ur nokia phone so u can be able to eat 2square meal u come dey talk rubbish...... Or beta stil u can use d money from d phone to marry Pweety..... Two useless people dat makes Emeh blog boring
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DeleteIt's so obvious that the dude doesn't 'love' you anymore. If I were you, I would run because the handwriting on the wall is crystal clear!
ReplyDeleteYou are still very young dear. don't be in a hurry..it's better to leave now and trust me, you can do without him too.. You do not need anybody too complete you ;)
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U hav not been noticin beta guys cos dis one has blocked d way for dem. Dis guy has simply made u handicapped so u wont find it easy if u leave him. If u go and beg him, he will accept u back, and he may even marry u immediately, and dump u in d house as a domestic housewife, while continue his wayward lifestyle to ur face, and dis tym around u may not hav an exit door. God made u discover his cheatin ways now as a warnin to u. Start up sometin, a bizness, or even get a job. Its not gonna be easy at first, buh u just hav to persevere. Concentrate on ur career dear, and wen d tym comes, a beta man will come. As for ur stuffs still in his place, go wit 2 of ur frnds to pick dem, and as u walk out d door, don't look back, definately he's gonna run back and beg after sometime, cos he will miss u, buh dearie wen he comes back, giv him ur new rules. Make him understand dat u hav changed, infact as difficult as it may sound, stop accpetin assistance frm him all d tym, dnt always be available. And wit tym he will not just love u, he will also respect u and value u.and dnt forget to always talk to God in prayer
ReplyDelete@Faith Ofuji U̶̲̥̅̊ v said it all how can one say U̶̲̥̅̊ cnt live wtout someone and ow can one depend solely on anoda for everything financially when †ђǝ person is not handicapped? A word is enof for †ђǝ wise its beta †☺ have a broken relationship now dn a broken marriage or managing ur marriage bc hell is beta dn a bad marriage am telling U̶̲̥̅̊ .
DeleteWhen u live with a guy b4 marriage, this is what happens ...
ReplyDeleteU hav not been noticin beta guys cos dis one has blocked d way for dem. Dis guy has simply made u handicapped so u wont find it easy if u leave him. If u go and beg him, he will accept u back, and he may even marry u immediately, and dump u in d house as a domestic housewife, while continue his wayward lifestyle to ur face, and dis tym around u may not hav an exit door. God made u discover his cheatin ways now as a warnin to u. Start up sometin, a bizness, or even get a job. Its not gonna be easy at first, buh u just hav to persevere. Concentrate on ur career dear, and wen d tym comes, a beta man will come. As for ur stuffs still in his place, go wit 2 of ur frnds to pick dem, and as u walk out d door, don't look back, definately he's gonna run back and beg after sometime, cos he will miss u, buh dearie wen he comes back, giv him ur new rules. Make him understand dat u hav changed, infact as difficult as it may sound, stop accpetin assistance frm him all d tym, dnt always be available. And wit tym he will not just love u, he will also respect u and value u.and dnt forget to always talk to God in prayer
ReplyDeleteYea a bit of independence will help
DeleteThis happens when you place man above God. He is a jealous God. Put your eyes on God and he will come back begging
ReplyDeleteJust poison him the way emeh did to his dad! Shikena
ReplyDeleteNow I know ur problem JOAN, u have a rotten cunt and therefore a hopeless life. Suicide is a quicker and better solution 4 u.
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ReplyDeleteGirl u re sleepin wake up, hw can u tel the whole world that without this guy u cant survive! U ve made him ur god and he knows without him u ll die, hw can u defend him when he has bn cheating on u.girl u know what 2 do.u either take a decision now or regret later
ReplyDeleteMy fnd I surely know u can survive with or without this guy. I belive if a man wants u,nothing can kip him away. If he doesn't want u,nothing can make him stay,stop making excuses 4 a man and his behaviour.
ReplyDeleteI would av loved for you to give us d lady's name (not full names tho) at least... Girls like this are the reasons marriages these days never last, they put all their life hopes & problems on the man. This in turn makes the man feel like he's a demigod & that without him the lady is nothing... The guy in question is acting the same way bcos he knows without him u're close to useless. Over reliance on any human being will just leave you depressed and out-of-sort.
ReplyDeleteFrom your story, its obvious that u don't even love urself as much as u luv this guy just bcos of a mere financial assistance? Btw every human has both bad temper & impatience we just learn to curtail it so stop helping him with that excuse... You didn't say anything about urself whether u're a student or not. At 22, you should av better plans for urself & not just making urself a liability to any man.
Forget about his parent's approval (wetin be Enugu wetin be Delta?), he himself doesn't want u, he probably proposed to u so as to tie u down & make u his back-up in case any of his GFs leave him.
This is 2013, learn to be self dependent even though u av someone to depend on.
He's been helping u financially for d past couple of years bcos God approves of it, I feel God has a greater plan for you that's why He's sending someone better to you.
DONT BEG HIM!!! Let him go! When he sees you happy without him, he'll come begging but then you should be long gone.
NOTE: Even if he comes begging u accompanied by Bill Gates, Never ever accept him ever again, he doesn't deserve a diamond like u.
Free your mind bcos a better person is on his way already.
~~~LuxieSays~~~
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ReplyDeleteget a job ni!..you re just 22..btw,did i just read he's 31?wow!..Girlfriend go get a job and move on with ur lyf shikenah!
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ReplyDeleteshe making excuses for the guy already. when we give advice, will you listen. you're still young. you've got a whole lot of years ahead of u. think my sis. don't let him kill u slowly or demoralize u. some other guy will treat u better
ReplyDeleteThe whole story is fictional. By the way, she should go and talk out their differences but she must try every thing within her means to be financially independent of this guy before marriage because as it is now the guy need her body and she need the guy's money.
ReplyDeleteMy dear am currently in your shoe, I do love him so much and he is acting up but guess what I took it to God in prayer and he did turn tins around, though its gradually but am sure seeing a change, jst keep praying
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