Hi Miss Petite, I'm sending this hoping you will help me publish as soon as possible. My hands are trembling as I write this. I am the first and only daughter of my dad who is a well to do businessman in Abuja.As a matter of fact, I was adopted as a baby. My real mum was a house girl who got pregnant for a Dutch expatriate in PH.
My adopted parents never had children and they spoil me silly .If not for my colour no one will know they aren't my birth parents.
Because my mum was a traveling business woman so I spent more of my time with my dad . He would have me sit on his lap and sometimes bath with me till I was 10. I didn't see anything wrong with his touchy attitude till I turned 16 when he refused me from going to boarding school or a university in another state just so I could be close to him .He forbade me from having male friends and I obeyed him and never had sexual relations with a boy
I just turned 18 last week and he got me a car and he told me he was proud of me for being a virgin till now. He said I should keep it that way.I was a little uncomfortable and only said thank you dad. Then he started asking me about masturbation, and if I feel the urge to have sex, he would teach me ways to pleasure myself. I was speechless and shocked.
He then said he had other gifts for me but I must promise not to tell mum because she would be jealous. He said it's for my own good.
My dad went into his room and emerged with sex toys. He told me to go into my room, learn how to use them and if I didn't understand, he would teach me.
Please I don't know if this is normal? Should I tell my mum when she returns or just keep it to myself?
Plssss if u wnt d happiness of dat woman u call us mom pls tel her n shw her d toys
ReplyDeleteDead ass wrong!!!!
DeleteI've read all the advice on the blog and. I must say that none of those are practical. Dear poster. Walk up to your father and look him in the face. "Daddy im happy that you want me to be comfortable about my sexuality but these toys are inappropriate especially coming from you. I'd like for you to desist from buying them for me. Mom isn't gonna be comfortable either with this development so we must nip it in the bud."
DeleteMy dear young girl, your father is a sick pervert trying to prepare you for what he has been planning for a long time - make you his sex slave. I beg you in the name of God, run to your mother and TELL HER EVERYTHING & SHOW HER THE SEX TOYS. Don't listen to anyone who tells you otherwise. Your father is a disgusting pervert & a schemer and believe me, if you try to have a normal conversation with him about this, he will frame you and lie in your face to get out of it. I know these type of men too well. My father is one of them and he is unfortunately my biological father although I consider him to be worse than a dog.
DeleteHmmn tell your pastor.
ReplyDeleteMy dr, if u like urslf, dnt tell ur mum n dnt use d shit ur dad got u
ReplyDeletewhat is wrong with you you're sick person.
DeleteFashion police are u okay?,,hw can she keep sometin so delicate nd serious away from her mum?,m sorry to say dis poster ur dad myt be aving dat intent of laying with you,,oh yes it happens u are 18 nd u shud be conversant with stories wia some fathers take advantage of dia biological daughter much less an adopted 1,,listen up nw wen next he ask u abt d toys just tell him u're gettin used to it,if he says let him cme teach u,u tell him nicely no daddy ama use dem,,wen ur mum cmes bk mke sure u show her nd tell her all he said,,dnt let dat man deceieve u that ur mum wud be jealous,dats a big lie from d pit of hell,sooner or leta he'd stat crawling into ur room @ 9t,I knw dis tins dats hw it starts gradually,,wen going to bed mke sure u lock up room,wen in d bathroom lock it up too,#my two cents#
DeleteWell spoken. The man wants to fuck the girl !
DeleteDon't tell your mum and just keep them. I suggest you record the next conversation and keep. One day you will need it
ReplyDeleteYour dad isn't your dad. He is a perv. Tell your mum
ReplyDeleteTelling her mum might destroy the home. i dont think she should tell her mom. telling her mum, might make things bad for her in the house. she should just throw all the shit away and pray over it and probably go to boarding school or face the man or inviting a pastor to speak to the man. May God help you.
DeleteSam Jere , u speak in such a naive way ! She should not just tell her Mum .; she should SCREAM to her Mum . Things will never be the same in the home but it is unlikely to be destroyed . It is better than being raped which is what will eventually happen under hush-hush business .In addition , she should get the tape recordings bcos the man WILL deny and turn it against her !
DeleteDon't tell your mum. Talk to him and let him know you can't use them. His reaction should determine the next step
ReplyDeleteWhat nonsense? Tell your mom
ReplyDeleteDon't tell your mum yet. Record the conversations. Have like 3 or 4 different recordings and of Cos. Don't use them. In the conversations you are recording, make sure you express your dislike about it. And also tell him to stop. That you would rather learn sec education with ur mum.
ReplyDeleteIf he continues to talk, take the recordings to ur mum. Don't even say a word. Just give her the recording and the sex toys.
The reason I said don't tell your mum without evidence is because women can be unpredictable. (More so she dint give birth to you, so she doesn't have that natural motherly instinct towards u) she might turn and say u want to break her home if u confront her without evidence.
DeleteIt saddens me that nobody can give this young girl constructive advice. Is nobody understand that she is being sexually exploited by her own father?? The only man she's known to be her dad. He's meant to protect her! Not make inappropriate sexually gesture. Babe, my advice is as follows...
ReplyDelete1. Keep those gifts and show your mum when she gets home
2. Talk to your mum about your future and explain you want to go to boarding school
3. Keep notes/records of any inappropriate thing your dad says
4. Make friends outside so you can get an understanding of normal and abnormal behaviour
5. SPEAK OUT. Never keep quiet about corruption or things that make you uncomfortable. They will haunt you later in life
6. Seek professional help like a therapist.
Wish you all the best. Please don't suffer in silence. There's no excuse
Telling her mum is out of it for now. That's not her biological mum. I suggest professional help.If anything goes wrong, they may kick her out with nowhere to go and no future. She should secure her future first
DeleteI agree with Breanna, that is not normal and there should be no reason why you should be silent about it. What your father is trying to do is manipulate you giving you those toys. Sometimes we forget that we also have feelings and try to keep things secret or quiet based on what others might think or the reactions without even thinking about us in the long run. What if you where to get play it off what would your father do next and that reaction on you. These have be taken into consideration.
Deletethank you for giving up constructive advice advice that makes sense. never keep quiet,you're keeping his secret. do not be put in the dark let it come to the light.tell your mother ,pastor.expose the bastard do not keep it a secret. stay as far away from him and do not be alone in the house with him.
DeleteDon't dare tell mum.Go to your pastor
ReplyDelete4rm d look of tins, d father is tryiing 2 protect her 4rm haaving sex in an early age, bt he is too strict wiit her,he wants her to kip her virginity 2 wen she is married, nd d father knws dt body no b firewood nd he knws dt she wil start havin d urge 2 ve sex, dt is why he bought doz sex toys 4 her.
ReplyDeleteAnon 16:53 big lie.
DeleteWether or not it's her biological mother.. They adopted her from birth and it's their job to love and protect her and insure she's loved and cared for. If her mother doesn't understand then there's no way God will neglect her but she shouldn't keep quite. That's self destruction and sabotage. Too many men have perverted minds and it needs to be stopped
ReplyDeleteMy sentiments exactly,dat man has an ulterior motive,he's realy a pervert,wat kinda father gets a sex toy for his teenage daughter nd equally tellin her he wud teach to use it? Hw insane,dis is a very serious ish,there is no such tin as her mother wud turn dis around her,,she raised u up from lil,she shud be able to tell wen u're lyin or not,,am stressin dis out cus I knw dat man's intent aint pure @ all,record a convo btween u two if u can,nd if u can't TELL HER in capital letters I stress,cus I forsee tins oh,to avoid stories dat touch,#okay bye
DeleteThank you Breanna and Val. I don't know what is wrong with people, I really don't!! She shouldn't tell her mom??!! A PAEDOPHILE and PERVERT is and has been grooming her for sex, and she's supposed to just ignore it, abi? And bear with it? And pray as well??? SMDH!!!!
DeleteMy dear poster, please tell your mum. Tell her, show her the toys,and even show her the message you have sent to this blog. That man is NOT a father to you. Reading between the lines and from the little you have written, he has been molesting you in one way or another for a long time now. He has also been actively grooming you. Google the meaning if you don't know what this is. NO SANE father, I repeat, NO SANE father will give his daughter sex toys AND offer to teach her how to use them!! NO SANE father will ask his daughter about masturbation, and offer to show her how to pleasure herself!! NO SANE father will bathe WITH his daughter till she was 10 Years old!!! All the above are not only terribly wrong, abnormal and abhorrent, BUT a clear sign that your so called father is nothing but a PERVERTED SICKO, who regards you as an object of pleasure and NOT, I repeat, NOT a daughter!!! A sane father will be happy his daughter never grows up and discovers boys or sex!!! PERIOD!!! This one has seen you as easy pickings. PLEASE,PLEASE tell your mother!! If as people are saying they reject you because you do, THANK GOD!!! As painful as it will be, it means HE has delivered you from a worse fate at the hands of these people.
Sometimes what we humans see as adversity and suffering, is just Almighty God securing the great destiny HE has ahead for us. HE will take you through WHATEVER is ahead. Trust HIM! The same way these people came and were parents to you till now, HE will raise help up for you. Do not stay silent and be ravaged by this wolf in fathers clothing, because you want to try and secure your future. Your future is not in your hands. By what you have written, you have realised that this man's behaviour was NOT right, and has NOT been for a long time, if not you'll not be here asking. And such a fellow will most probably be doing the same to any and every vulnerable young girl he comes across as well, this is the nature of the PAEDOPHILE.
As regards you, free yourself, for a REAL father will want to secure and ensure the physical, psychological, spiritual and emotional well being of his daughter, and will NEVER want to put her in jeopardy in anyway shape or form to the best of his ability. This one you call father is only concerned with your sexuality!!! This one my dear, is NOT and has NEVER been your father. I am sorry. I wish you all the best.
Eme, why do u have to use Obama's picture with the daughter to sell your story.
ReplyDeleteDs's serious. Speechless
ReplyDeleteEme, this isn't the right pics for this post! don't forget some people only read headlines....pls be professional, we dont want you to b sued
ReplyDeletePlease forget telling your mum please. Tell an elder and record your conversation
ReplyDeletePls pray let God guide you. I have no words
ReplyDeleteCall me
ReplyDeleteMost of you are ignorant. The dad is giving her sex toys so she won't have sex with other men outside. It's just like a father buying condoms for his children because they know nor matter what you do or say, children will have sex.
ReplyDeleteKeep your mind off the gutter
You are either an ignoramus or a paedophile yourself!!! A so called father given his daughter SEX TOYS AND offering to SHOW her how to use them,is in your mind the same as a parent given his children condoms to keep safe from disease of unwanted pregnancy??!!! Really???
DeleteMiss petite did u get scared,how dare u use obama n his daughter pic 4 dis stupid post
ReplyDeleteMy dear the best thing to do is when your parents are together walk into the room and say mummy please can you teach me how to use these toys daddy bought for me? Then your mama go handle am from there. Whay are you recording anything yet? The man has not made any direct sexual advancemeent to her, he wants to protect his daughter from men like him. He knows what he does to girls outside , so he does not want that faith to befall his daughter. Which one be pastor again? My dear, only you know the bond you have with your parents so just be wise, don't be sneaky about anything.
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ReplyDeleteBabygirl my advice 2u is,d@ u shuld show ur mum de toys ur dad bought 4u,cos if u didnt u will regret it wen ur dad will start crawling in ur rum@nyt.*deraa
ReplyDeleteBabygirl my advice 2u is,d@ u shuld show ur mum de toys ur dad bought 4u,cos if u didnt u will regret it wen ur dad will start crawling in ur rum@nyt.*deraa
ReplyDeleteMy sister abeg be carefull tell your mother shap becourse your father is sick that your mother can help your father to get sens. again it is Not Good atall abeg be carefull. I pray for you please take good care of you.
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