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Tuesday, 1 October 2013

I'm in love with my pastor,we've made out & I'm scared of Losing him (Must Read)

I just got this mail from a female reader who is inlove with her pastor and needs your advise.Anyway read and help if you can...

 Whatever will be will be,yeah
Have never believed in those words,but now I do believe,I just understood that if someone will be urs forever,even if it takes both of you,days/years/hours/seconds to fall in love,it doesn't matter,both of you will definitely be together.



I fell in love with my pastor a month ago,I don't know if there is anything as falling in love too quickly,but this isn't infatuation or lust,we both fall in love with each other for different reasons,he
said I am  calm,intelligent,and smart,and I said he is calm,trustworthy,likeable,and he listens.

Its already a month,since we started talking and now I feel more connected to him than before,yes I have seen his elder brother,I have been to his house,he introduces me as his lady to everyone around,except church,cos we haven't prayed about us,and my parents don't know I am dating yet.

I have already, I spoke to a spiritual pastor and he said d relationship was Godly and this made me love him more,giving the fact dat I have never achieved anything before in my life,and he is the
best thing to have happened to me in a month.

I have been to his place twice,we have made out and oooooh,it was wonderful,he says I am so sweet,he says he has never felt the way he feels when he talks to me,stays with me,touches me,before.

He said he loves me,and he calls me his wife,calls his family my family,loves my family,he is just perfect.

He is blunt,but I love that about him,cos with him you don't have to hide nothing or pretend about anything,he says it as it is,and I am a counsellor ,and a great listener,and ooh I love the fact that he talks.

Now,his pastor called(spiritual father)and he asked him to pray concerning his marital life,and I am scared,what if he prays and I am not God's purpose for him,what if he prays and I am God's purpose for
him.

What do I do?
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39 comments:

  1. Believer30 September 2013 at 19:38

    Endtimes

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    1. Unknown30 September 2013 at 20:18

      Firstly thanks for speaking out, if you ask me my opinion would be that you end it, before it gets out of hand. Please no body should Judge her, you nor holy pass>>>>

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    2. Vivian Love30 September 2013 at 20:38

      We have made out, it was wonderful, he says I am sweet.. Bla bla bla. Young lady stop deceiving yourself bcos he won't marry u! And stop calling him a pastor bcos he's not.

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    3. Anonymous30 September 2013 at 20:39

      End time kill you... Wetin "Consign" Endtime with this story now?

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    4. flayvour30 September 2013 at 23:12

      I Cant stop laughing...Lmao ...''he says he has never felt the way he feels when he talks to me,stays with me,'touches me',before''.
      www.flayvour360.com

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    5. Mimi Ubini1 October 2013 at 00:13

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  2. Unknown30 September 2013 at 19:43

    First of all my dear, u r a very stupid lady. U n ur pastor r d ones giving christians a bad name. Th bible clearly states God command against fornication. I pray that when ur fake pastor prays to his fake god, he will not see u in d fake vision. Stupid lady, stupid pastor n stupid spiritual father. All of u will receive d wrath of God for desecrating His Holy name n leading His ppl to sin.
    Bunch of bloody, unrepentant n reprobate sinners!!!.
    Emeh I beg no dey post dis kinda rubbish again, e dey make me vex wella.

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    1. Imported Suzzy Lalaagbon30 September 2013 at 20:08

      Thank u ojare! Whateva what went wrong wt fornication!
      Na so una dey do for una church:/ bunch of wankers!

      This is so lame n immature!

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  3. Anonymous30 September 2013 at 19:49

    Emeh Achanga, respect ur self ooh. Stop posting all these stupid and useless stories on our blog. What kind of nonsense story is this na?

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    1. Anonymous30 September 2013 at 20:43

      Best comment so far. The man is single so is d girl, so what is her problem? I don't get what the story's about. Keep posting usless stories and comments, u'll loose your readers as quickly as u got them. Is this a high school blog? If we want stories like these, we'll buy "hints" magazine.

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    2. Darkchildlovethyhair1 October 2013 at 22:43

      Lol @ hints magazine.brought back some funny memories :-)

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  4. Anonymous30 September 2013 at 19:53

    This girl must be mad. I'll send her recommendation letter to Yabaleft

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  5. Anonymous30 September 2013 at 19:55

    You are living in fools paradise.....mtcheew

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  6. Anonymous30 September 2013 at 19:58

    Lmaooo!!! The lady is this post sounds very immature

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  7. Anonymous30 September 2013 at 20:05

    Hahahaha wonders shall neva end . He said Ūя̲̅ sweet? Ūя̲̅ a big h*** by fluntin Ūя̲̅ self on a man °ƒ God there by stainin a God choosen one. Hell awaits Ɣ☺ΰ .stcheeeeeew

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  8. Imported Suzzy Lalaagbon30 September 2013 at 20:10

    For ur info, I'm 100% sure that pastor is making out wt so many girls in that church of urs if he is a pastor n he fornicates! You are def nt the only one he's fuckn! Dumb ass! Inlove my bounty ass!

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    1. Gloria30 September 2013 at 20:25

      I just said my mind. For a pastor to be fornicating with you? He is with everybody. He probably told you the story about going to see his spiritual father to advise him on his future partner. Guess what he will say when he gets back? My spiritual father says ur not the one for me. He will dump you neatly and u will feel its coz of his spiritual father. Repent now

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  9. Anonymous30 September 2013 at 20:11

    Fornicating with a pastor n u need advice?

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  10. anchor30 September 2013 at 20:20

    U go soon die

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  11. xtinexxx30 September 2013 at 20:28

    My own opinion about it is dat am nt sure dat pastor is for u...y sleep wit a pastor when u aint married yet...dnt be fooled lady coz ure nt d only one he's sliping with in dat church...dere is notin serious about d relationship coz praying should be d first tin 2 u b4 jumping into his bed.

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  12. yourstrulyblogposts.blogspot.com30 September 2013 at 21:09

    Ridiculous if you ask me

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  13. Anonymous30 September 2013 at 21:17

    Made out asin sex? N ur lyk it ws so wondaful, criously? I no we r nt perfect bt datz FORNICATION

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  14. Anonymous30 September 2013 at 21:39

    First go and ask God for forgiveness bc U̶̲̥̅̊ and ur so called pastor v commited fornication its so sad dt evn after †ђǝ pastor ws nt sober did nt say U̶̲̥̅̊ both shd nt v done dt instead he said U̶̲̥̅̊ are swt, has neva felt lik dt b4 dt means he is seeing some other girls I pity una both . He is nw saying he wants †☺ pray for his marital life wt he is supposed †☺ v done in †ђǝ first place so will he nw come bak and say U̶̲̥̅̊ are †ђǝ one OYO U̶̲̥̅̊ v sold ursef cheap. YK

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  15. miss nigeria 202030 September 2013 at 22:07

    Height of immaturity.

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  16. Unknown30 September 2013 at 22:35

    I guess whom so ever sent this story is still a teenager. I can categorically tell U dis relationship isn't godly. U both need 2 retrace ur steps.
    www.kaylachanai.blogspot.com

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  17. Anonymous30 September 2013 at 23:14

    Just watched an episode of Geordie, now am so horny!!! Miss my boifrnd, miss sex so much. Sobbin

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    1. Anonymous30 September 2013 at 23:18

      Geordie shore I meant. Can't even type straight

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    2. Psychotic bitch1 October 2013 at 00:23

      Really! Of all the shows to make u horny. Who's making u horny Gaz,Charlotte,holly and the rest of the dumb fucks. U must be a whore. Miss him while he fucks a real woman

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  18. miss nigeria 20201 October 2013 at 05:47

    Making out does not neccesarily mean sex. It can mean kissing. Let her tell us the real deal. N let's not stay 4rm afar 2 judge their relationship. There is what is called "against all odds". Thirdly, when it comes 2 marriage no man should tell u who 2 marry. Pray urself n u will know who 2 marry. The bible says we r priest n kings. There is no priest that we should go 2 2 intercede 4 us like in the old testament days. Men of God have been working on the mind of people cus they don't want 2 use there head. Fourtly, men of God have 2 right 2 date. They r humans like us but sex is not allowed that's when controling the flesh comes in. If they don't date but pick random chick as a wife they will b in disaster.
    Pls, its not everytime people jump in2 conclusion 2 judge. Making out means kissing. That's what I know it as. Even me that isn't a pastor or a huge member in church know the implication of fornication so I don't do it talk more of some1 who is a pastor. That will b bad. If the making out means fornicating, that's bad of him.
    Pls honey, he is a pastor he is suppose 2 know his stand with u. Pray 2 the same God his spiritual head praise to. Pls don't b deceive under the disguise of religion. Many have gone that path.
    What do u want in a guy? Write it down. If his character matches what u want go ahead. If it doesn't leave him. Don't b blinded by love.

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    1. Anonymous5 October 2013 at 12:24

      My sister...I fear fear o. I thought making out means kissing. Abi its like how Naija people have turned the term Double Dating to mean cheating as opposed to two couples going on a date. The only issue with this letter is her immaturity. The comments are so judgmental. Meanwhile half of the women(cause you know it is women condemning her) commenting are either scheming to steal someone's husband or presently being used as a mistress. Some are sleeping with their men, committing the same sin of fornication o.

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  19. Unknown1 October 2013 at 06:20

    Nonsense post.making out b4 marriage with ur pastor.fornicators.go ask God 4 4giveness b4 he can open ur eyes 2 see ur husband or else........

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  20. Anonymous1 October 2013 at 13:38

    One word, OUT...he ain't no good!

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    1. Anonymous13 April 2014 at 01:54

      I agree, What kind of shepherd would risk his sheep salvation? u feeling, he saying, your spiritual father agreeing . . . all that is man FLESH! its real simple WHAT DOES GOD SAY? don't sound like any of u know GOD?

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  21. Anonymous1 October 2013 at 21:24

    A real pst will not sleep wit u before marriage be wise

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  22. All things Prints 2 October 2013 at 12:45

    so Whats d problem, if u'er nt d 1 4 him, then go ur seperate ways nah... i wonder y she nid an advice.

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  23. All things Prints 2 October 2013 at 12:46

    so Whats d problem, if u'er nt d 1 4 him, then go ur seperate ways nah... i wonder y she nid an advice ova dis little issue.

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  24. Anonymous3 October 2013 at 16:26

    Men of God ds days, hmmmm God knows who are His.

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  25. Anonymous11 April 2014 at 18:44

    You sound real stupid and immature. Are there no other men in your church or in your town? Both you and he and anyone who condones it will burn in hell especially if he is already married. He has turned you in to nothing more than a temple whore. Does that sound ooooooh so wonderful to you, woman of God? Hypocrites!

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