In a age and time, feminism movement preach the message that any man that cheats or has a mistress outside his matrimonial home should be kicked out , it is heartwarming to see Annie Idibia standing tall and cozying up to her husband on a live TV inspite of his horrendous past For those who dont know, Tuface has 7 kids from three women and this not withstanding, Annie is Tuface's Rock Of Gibraltar and first love. She is still with him and will be forever.I used to work for an PR organization that has Annie Idibia as a client so I know some of her stories with Tuface but she ignored all that, chose to stand with her man no matter what the world thinks of her The lesson is simple:
Don't allow society, feminist movement or social media dictates to you how to run your marriage. Choose what makes you happy and run with it as a lady. Though there is a limit you can tolerate from your man but dont be influenced by feminism movement , society and what you read on social media I dont think I will cheat on my wife, not because I wont want to but I believe in monogamy, that is the way I saw myself, Im wired like that but for those men who choose to keep mistress outside their home, I will never judge them Annie Idibia story with Tuface is a study in perseverance, seeing her watching her husband performs on TV with this proud look written all over her face just made my night A person that will accept you for all your flaws and love you regardless. Such people exist, Annie is an example....
Yes Annie! Go Annie!
ReplyDeleteJust one question dear writer, do you want your daughter to be this true woman? Don't get me wrong, just tired of people shoving it down our throats like tuface is an award which Annie has won. What makes you think she might have not seen anyone better? When last has he gone on a vacation with her (has he ever done?), what extraordinary thing has he done that has qualified him the best choice Annie made or do we judge marriage with professional achievements? .
DeleteWell, I admire Annie as a lady but she didn't do anything beyond ordinary. While some look at it as true love, others look at it as a case of emotional abuse (which is worse than physical abuse). And since Noone is encouraged to stay in a physical abused relationship even if u hope he will change, others don't want to stay in an emotional abused relationship. I was once like Annie, in a relationship the world termed perfect but in the real sense, I was being disrespected. While we looked happy outside, I cried out of thoughts at night. While we looked awesome, I died in insecurity. While the world was happy for us, I felt disrespected somewhere within. I seemed to be forgiving but in the real sense, I had lost myself and was afraid to start all over. I felt he was too good to be lost. It never got to kids outside but one day I rediscovered myself and I'm relaxed and most happy. Not always expecting an apology. I lost my standards but today, I'm back on track.
In a nut shell, if u can endure, it's OK but if u can't, doesn't make u less than a true woman. Ignore what you see on screen. If it was so, Annie wud never have exchanged words with the other baby mama's. Do what ever pleases u if u are genuinely happy. Marriage is a two way thing not an award for one.
Thank u anonymous above, whoever d idiot is that wrote this is obviously a true idiot! Emotional abuse is worse, and they can act all happy as they want but it's obvious Annie has lost herself in this man. Put a woman in ur shoes tuface, u would murder her! Now bk to u mr writer, u choose to be monogamous in ur relationship but ure applauding another woman's disguised pain as 'womanly' tofiakua!
DeleteA thousand kisses for you anonymous 22:09
DeleteAnnie dearieeeeee God bless u
ReplyDeleteMa babe has done more beta dan her.
ReplyDeleteYaaaaaay! Nice piece...Annie, my lady! love her much!
ReplyDeleteLMAO!! WHO IS FOOLING WHO? IF TUFACE IS A LOCAL MAN DO YOU THINK SHE WILL MARRY HIM. NIGERIAN GIRLS CAN MARRY A PIG AS LONG AS THAT PIG GET MONEY FOR POCKET. GET OUT OF HERE WITH THIS WRITE UP.
ReplyDeleteI'm sure their relationship would have ended a long time ago if social media were serious business as it is now. These days, social media adds pepper and salt to injury and makes people less tolerant of one another.
ReplyDeleteWell I wish dem more blissful years together, in good health n understanding.
ReplyDeleteUseless write up from a mad man about two Foolish pple.Annie is zero role model and shouldn't be given any dirty credit.Teaching girls to stick with a cheat and serial baby daddy all in the name of bin wived by a yeyebrity.Shes more or less a desperate cheap girl with zero self worth and self esteem.She can stand tall on his head or nose but truth is,they ain't worthy of emulation.I'll pass on this one cos I can't ever stand a male whore and any girl that wants them can have them all.Tanx but no Tanx
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No shaking,... Abeg take 1 shake for this 1! U hit d nail right on this head! Shebi that wiz kid babe tania too done dry follow am learn, useless role model. Ladies, it is NOT OK!
DeleteShe stood by him a true woman she is.
ReplyDeleteTrue woman?,where?,I'm sorry. All I see is a weak women..dozens of heartbroken women r out there. Theyre not stopping low to beg a man that hurt them. They have plenty kids from the guy and limited chance of finding new love but they're surviving. THOSE are the real women. THOSE are the strong women. I hate to disrespect Annie like this cus she seems nice but it had to be said..please we shouldn't get this idea of men being allowed to cheat in our heads. Its bad enough that men think they run the world.
DeleteI totally disagree with the write up... It is NOT Ok to tolerate Disrespect from a man who claims to love you..i still don't get how some women put up with a cheating man.. any ways all u can say is that most women who put up with cheating disrespectful men are women who depends on the man for their source of lively hood..
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ReplyDeleteRole model my foot....write up from a jobless fellow
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