On why he can't be faithful to one woman..
It Looks like you sacrificed all when Funke was with You?
Femi Kuti told The Sun
"Yes. I grew up in a polygamous home. I grew up wanting to be like my father. I grew up wanting to have many women; that was my training. I will not tell you it is right or wrong. Because of the way I was brought up, there is no way I can be faithful to a woman. I will not even try it. I wasn’t trained to do so. I didn’t grow up with that attitude. I grew up in the real house of Kalakuta where there were women and I loved it. So, I wanted the same thing for myself. Now, I don’t have the life of Kalakuta but I know that I can’t leave that dream and say I want to be faithful to one woman. I will rather be by myself; truth, I love my freedom. I don’t love the part that I owe anybody anything. Even the people with me know that I love my freedom. I like to sleep when I want to sleep, if I want to go out I love to enter my car and go on my own; I love my independence. I was brought up with total independence.
It Looks like you sacrificed all when Funke was with You?
No, I didn’t. When we got married she was pregnant and I knew it was a boy. I didn’t know how I knew but I just knew. I told her ‘we will get married, but I will never be faithful to you’. She knew one of my dancers then was my girlfriend. I have been dating her long before I met Funke.. Funke’s mother and I are not good friends. When she (Funke’s mother) came back into her life, we started having problems. I don’t know if that is part of the problem or if it is Funke who is bored with the marriage or her friends were talking to her, whatever the reason, I tried my best to bring her back.
I tried to even change my ways. Many things went on, those that are close to me know that I went out of my way, when I saw that I was wasting too much energy, I had to relax. Funke and I didn’t talk for a long time. It took us years to understand that there is a son in our midst. I didn’t want to open the can of worms because we have settled all these. It is something that we have left behind. I have forgiven her and I will not tell you that I was totally right, but was I sincere in my marriage? Yes be rest assured that I was. I wasn’t doing anything that she wasn’t warned of before. That I won’t have girlfriends? She knew that I was a very humble polygamist. I tried to be as discreet as possible but you know the more you are getting popular, the more people are taking your tales to your wife. She might find condoms in my car that I forgot to hide very well, who knows?Does it mean you and Funke may come back as husband and wife?
I doubt it. But you never know. You never know what God has in plan for you. What if you say never and something just happens? If they told me she would leave my house one day, I would have said it is impossible. So, if she comes back one day, you never know what can happen. One sickness can hook you down and she might be the person by your bedside, what would happen? I don’t pray for it but you never know what God has in plan for you. So, I am not the one that tempts fate. Right now, I am content, I am happy, we are friendly and my children are also happy.
Femi Kuti told The Sun
Endtimes man
ReplyDeleteLmao!....I love this man.....na real Endtimes!..hehehe..
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What a stupid, sick orientation to grow up with.... He can tell the truth about not being faithful to one woman... Can he tell the truth about how he will take it when it is the woman doing the cheating.... What do these magazines, Newspapers ask? Smh
ReplyDeleteI can bet my life that, if you cheat on people with sick mentality like this, they will go bunkers
He wants the women in his to understand and accept that he will cheat, will he ever understand and accept if it is the woman letting him know she wouldn't be faithful
DeleteHe was fair enough to let her know that he will cheats on her.She also accept the offer too.It's not like you girls that keeps multiple bfs and still be accusing guyz of cheatings to cover your arses.
DeleteRubbish!
ReplyDeleteMad dog.I hope he told his wife she too can cheat
ReplyDeleteI didn't grow up in a polygamous family, and I'm a woman, but his philosophy is exactly mine. I usually want to be alone, and I may want to be monogamous for one month, or ten years, but I could never ever swear that I will not hook up with another person forever. Who knows life will bring?
ReplyDeleteI know that marriage makes sense to a lot of people, but to me, it's ridiculous. Love is good, it's the greatest thing, marriage is sorta daft, it's all about fear and jealousy and possessiveness. The reality is that nobody owns anybody or at least nobody should want to own another person.
PS when I'm with a dude, I tell him if I'm also seeing another. I don't lie and hide and all that nonsense.
I prefer this man than the pretenders out there. Atleast you know what you are getting into
ReplyDeleteI blame the Funke who agreed to such trash. No man dare look at another bitch whole with me. I'm too pretty for that
ReplyDeleteI used to like this man till all these his foolish egocentric statements
ReplyDeleteWhat a stupid, ugly and dirty orientation *sighs
ReplyDelete#Zimama
Truth u mean 2 say While he is wit u?who wld even date a croacroach lyk u
ReplyDeleteIf i want to woo a girl if she tells me she already has a bf,she is trying to let me know if i can cope with her.Femi point is clear.will she cope?I cant share a girl with another guy because if she get pregnant there will be problem.she can impose the pregnancy upon me for accepting her promiscuous attitude.
ReplyDeleteThis man has verbal diarrhea. Leaking basket mouth. And he's an elderly man oh. Who takes their family story to the marketplace like this please??
ReplyDeleteInfact I don't know wat to say, hw can an educated modern age human talk like dt? All d so called freedom wat has he gained from it? Men lik tis die alone on their sick bed. When u don't sacrifice anytin who will sacrifice their time for u @ old age ? Fools out there don't go n copy him oh! I knw most of u guys like talk like tis. Its not a decent n sensible lige to live. Femi shld be ashamed of himsef n not boost in his weaknesses. Its a pity!
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