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Wednesday, 12 March 2014

Help!!! Am I a bad friend for asking for appreciation


Pls hlp me emeh,am seriously In need of an advise
   She is my vry gud frnd and my departmental girl too..we did our 1yr I.T last year and we are suppose to resume ds year. But becos she lied to her boss dat she will b through with her I.T this coming september instead of last year in order to get d job,her boss didn't allow her to cum bk to school this session..so being her frnd and in d same department,she asked me to hlp her find sum1 dt will take care of her school runs for d whole session. Being her frnd,I told her I will do it for her,bt atleast she should find a little way to appreciate me..
      she hv not completed her clearance,she hv not evn started her screening,I will b d one to pay her school fees for her in d bank(omo come see crowd for bank),go to d cyber and still feel it online with d crowd that will b there(if u no poly system,u will understnd better)..I will go from office to office to change her teller to receipt..and while am doing all dat,lectures will b going on and I will still miss some lectures..even after d clearance and screening,will do her texts,assignment and so on at d same time am doing mine.

    When I told her to at least appreciate my efforts....



she told me she will gv me 15k,I asked her if it s for d semester(just a harmless question),she told me she will add it 5k making it 20,so I told her if das wat u want to appreciate me wit,no problem..after our discussion,d next day,she pinged and told me dat people are branding me a bad person cus I asked for appreciation and dt she agree with wat they are saying,dat am not supposed to collect anytin frm her,dat I should do it free becos she s my frnd(but she is in abj making her money,50k a month)

..pls my fellow readers,wat should I do?did I do anything wrong? She asked me to find someone she will pay to do it for her,but I offered to help..I jus askd for appreciation bt she branded me a bad frnd. Assuming she is sick and asked ᵐᵉ to help her out,yet I collected money from her,then am not worthy to b called a frnd..but this is a case of making money,she is making her cash in Abj...Please I need ur sincere opinion...thanks

38 comments:

  1. Don't feel guilty dear,wat u're doing no be beans nd u require compensation even without u asking,dats wat she shud do shikina

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    2. BLOG ANALYSER: yes! A very big monetary appreciation, she thinks it is easy!

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    3. i beg poster drop her yeye runs and le her come do it herself
      she must be an igbo girl
      they come greedy and useless users
      curse me e go back to ur forefathers

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  2. Don't feel guilty dear,wat u're doing no be beans nd u require compensation even without u asking,dats wat she shud do shikina

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  3. I don't think you are wrong afterall she is making her money.Let her pay.

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  4. U made a mistake by askin first,she has a coinscience naw,bt I wunt ask for anytin for whom I call my frd specially my bestie.

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  5. The problem is you asking from the start.But you have every right to collect the money.It's not an easy job

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  6. Dear poster, 4rm ur mail, all I can c is dat u r interested in what u stand 2 gain financially 4rm it. Have u really tot abt wat ll happen if u get caught? Hw do u even intend 2 write all her tests n assignments 4 her? Will d tests n assignments be a case of the same contents but different names and do u even knw she might accuse u of intentionally making her fail if her grades are poor. I knw tymz are hard, but av u really considered if 20k is worth the stress and if it wi'll solve ur problem if u eventually get in2 trouble. And lastly, u are nt a bad friend, she's is playing u psychologically 2 make u feel guilty which u r feeling ryt nw.

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  7. abeg u guys should stop bringing unnecessary and irrelevant issues like dis up here. am sure someone will ask how t use a pad soon n emeh too will post.

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    1. Must u comment? Virus.. Mtchewww!

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    2. re u sure u aint the one who gave emeh dt post? becos shes right, its irrelevant and not worth ppls while fool

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    3. This virus girl is very stupid

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  8. If she got another person she will pay more,so you are not a bad friend jare

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  9. I know this mail is from a yoruba girl.Greedy as usual and they can't even write well.Are you in Ibadan University or Lasu? I have no advice for you because I schooled at Oxford

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    1. It's no more harvard it now oxford...don't worRy soon it gon be ibadan-polythenic...u know

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  10. Endtimes appreciation

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  11. why then do we hav google?...well Let me just pretend i didnt read this and move on 2 d next post...bye.

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  12. one word... mumu..Keep jeopardizing your morals for a fool

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  13. If truly she's your friend you shouldn't have ask, for money. A friend in need is a friend in deed.

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    1. My dear not in situations like this......If you believe in that in every situation......am sorry to say this you are not on the success lane.....

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  14. Their's noting worth seeking advise for here.......lemme save the stress of typing..

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  15. U nor get sense?Dem job u period

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  16. Na wa for you,whr is ur morals for hw much.

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  17. Don't collect the money and stop doing the runs for her. Let her find someone else and see if she won't pay extra. You missed lectures and the stress you went through.

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  18. Nigerians have lost all sense of morality and credibility. So, it's now OK to write another person's test and exams even if you were paid 1 million naira? Stupid half baked graduates. Education without morality and character. Hiss.

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  19. Poster your English is bad. How do you guys pass sef?

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  20. Both of you should be arrested

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  21. Vanity on high level with exams specialist,and soon vanity 'll link 2 endtimes,bcus dey share som tings in comon.go and read ur bible

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  22. Don't collect the money and stop doing the runs for her. Let her find someone else and see if she won't pay extra. You missed lectures and the stress you went through.

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  23. Onto the next one....
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    ***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***

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  24. My dear jst "jejely'" find sm1 4 her since she cn pay d person n nt pay u,cos I cn imagine d stress u will go tru,my dear dnt dull oo.

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  25. Am I the only person seeing how wrong this whole situation is? Doing tests and exams for your friend, when you get caught you will be expelled, then we will see where even the 20k will take you.

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  26. Am I the only person seeing how wrong this whole situation is? Doing tests and exams for your friend, when you get caught you will be expelled, then we will see where even the 20k will take you.

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  27. Stop dat runs as fast as u started

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  28. its very unfair for you to ask for money from someone u call your very good friend, very very wrong. u should ve allowed her use her initiative. money isnt everything you know

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  29. My dear u r a bad frnd, I did dat to ma frnd wen I was schooling in d U.K witawt askin for for a dime, though he paid me handsomely wen d deal was done (20,000 Euro). Dnt worry I'll connect u to a beta person dat can settle u afta business. *vizzy*

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  30. 1) dont collect any money
    2) dont do anything for her
    3) tel her your friends have labeled her a selfish person and a fraud and you don't want to be considered a fraud as well.

    4) have you even considered what will harken to you if you are found out? Or you are not thinking ahead?

    5) she is making money &she wants you running around for her without offering you an incentive?

    You better face your Studies and work on your grammar. You never settle yourself, you want to arrange someone else

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