On my birthday which was the 12th ,my husband traveled to England for what he called an urgent business deal leaving his friend and I.I didn't plan on celebrating it but he forced me to go out to dinner.He said his girlfriend was going to be there.We went to the venue and he started telling me about their escapades in the University .I was cool with it till he said my husband had a girl he wanted to marry but he couldn't because she was Igbo .My hubby and I are yoruba. When I asked where she is now, he said she lives in London and has remained single since then.
I was heartbroken because I know my husband has been visiting the UK a lot and he never told me about her.He said I was his first love.I believed because we got married 8 months after we met .
I didn't know when I started crying and we went home.I don't know what happened but we slept together and it was after it was over I realized I made a big mistake and confronted him.
He laughed and said it was ok and told me it was a mistake and he would never ever tell anyone.
My husband came back 4 days ago and I just couldn't confront him and ask about his first love since I know what I did with his friend.
I was starting to push my fling to the back of my mind last week my hubby's friend asked to borrow some money from me. I told him I didn't have the money he was asking for which was 500k. He said it wasn't a loan, he said it's either I give him or he tells my husband what we did.He said I didn't deserve his fiend anyway and called me cheap.
I'm confused and can't tell any of my friends because I don't trust them. I also don't know if to confess to my husband first before he black mails me. Knowing my husband, it will be over and since I don't have a kid ,there is nothing tying him to me.Also I am not from a rich home though my husband spoils me alot
Should u just pay his friend or tell my husband first? Please don't judge me
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ReplyDeleteYou a whore. I got no advice for you bitch
ReplyDeleteYuck who is this bitch trying to be me? I'm here battling with Wizkid and Davido and don't have time for women who follow Nigerianos. I always say look for an Italiano and life will be easier. Yuck yuc
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DeleteI'm a man, so I find it difficult to digest this post, but I will advise you not to tell your man and @ the same time don't give him the money(your husband friend). don't worry he is just trying to scare you he can't tell your husband about the sex escapade. I will just advice you to ask for forgiveness from God. Happy weekend
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Hoe! U can't close ur legs ..... Never ever confess such... Ur husband will never forgive you.
ReplyDeleteMschewww!
ReplyDeleteProstitute did you ask for advice when sleeping with your husband's bestfriend? I don't understand all these yoruba women and prostitution! Hisss
ReplyDelete@ truth why are U̶̲̥̅̊ talking like a saint it ws a mistake dt she later realized and she felt bad, mind U̶̲̥̅̊ it cn happen †☺ anybody I say anybody including U̶̲̥̅̊ though we know it is a real shameful act but sometimes we find ourseves in situations dt we evn ourselves find difficult †☺ believe let who is not a sinner cast †ђǝ first stone.and Thank God for who he is. MƔ advise fast for 3days and ask God †☺ forgiveand show U̶̲̥̅̊ mercy. Dontgive dt guy †ђǝ money as he will use †ђǝ opportunity †☺ kip asking for more shun him he cnt tell ur husband he wnt want †☺ destroy his friendship wt ur hubby and as for telling ur husband hmmmm that will be serious oh I honestly dnt knw wt †☺ tell U̶̲̥̅̊ but normally U̶̲̥̅̊ shd confess †☺ him but am afraid dt may cause ur home †☺ break U̶̲̥̅̊ know ur husband beta but I beieve thru Gods intervention evrythin will be well. But ur husband need †☺ knw dt his so called best friend is dangerous †☺ his health.
DeleteDon't mind the mumu truth
DeleteFirstly......you disappointed ur self for sleeping with him....
ReplyDeleteSecondly.......dint you knw he was broke ass nigaa b4 sleeping with him?
Thirdly.....if truely he his your hubby best freind...I bet on my Dogs life he wud neva tell him..bt @ the same time u jst av to let ur husband knw b4 sombody else does...cos no man wud tak it easy on his wife if he finds out his wife deepest secret frm anoda man
Pray well and confess to your husband so as to let him know who he calls his bestfriend.....confess to your husband before he did
ReplyDeleteMy dear! Get depressed for a long time. Let everyone see u r ill and depressed. Until ur husband forces u to tell him what's wrong. Tell him his friend told ur abt the girl in London and while u cried he gave u something to drink and drugged u. In the morning he showed u pics that u guys had sex together and is now blackmailing u for 500k. Be the victim girl ! Show him u r smarter...
ReplyDeleteKai see tif. Your husband go suffer. Poster take this advice tho
DeleteDear poster take this advice
DeleteShai women and tricks .....
Deleteyou have got to take this advice!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
DeleteThis is the best advice of all times.Woman grab this and play the card and you going to be winning but you are stupid for putting this on a blog someone who knows someone will tell someone and it will get to your husband
DeleteI love your reply. Play the victim
DeleteI love your reply. Play the victim
DeleteHe's bluffing, if he's truly your husband's best friend, he won't say jack. Keep stalling him and don't give in to his threats. Know that blackmailers will always ask for more
ReplyDeleteI feel for you dear, well my advice is to tell your husband the truth. The truth is always the best way because hes gonna find out someday, so why dont you make it on your terms. The result might not be pleasant though but no son of a bitch can blackmail you again. Goodluck
ReplyDeleteHe's bluffing, if he's truly your husband's best friend, he won't say jack. Keep stalling him and don't give in to his threats. Know that blackmailers will always ask for more
ReplyDeletepay ur tithe naa ....#bitchy
ReplyDeleteHe cannever blackmail you ma dear, NEVER. dem no born an well, if he does, he's a Dead man.. And secondly never you make any payment to him cause if you do, you'll become a MAGA for Life.. Keep it to yourself i dont wana know.. Did He Use Rain Boot On You Abi Na Skin Dive?? How was the sex sef??
ReplyDeleteThat bush rate? Hahaha impoverish bastard always hyping about her poor background on here..truth bastard continue deceive your self while your mate her progressing..am sure you will end up commiting suicide cos you will never progress...later you go say na witch dey worry you and na you dey worry yourself...idiot...bastard
ReplyDeleteSincerely ask God for forgiveness and ask God to touch ur husband's mind.. then confess to ur husband. It might nt be easy at first.. u have to persevere thru.. if u don't trust me, u would loose out both ways...the earlier the beta.. ur husband's friend is demonic, he is out to destroy ur life..dont give him a kobo hence he would come back for more moni and sex.. The lord is ur strength.
ReplyDeleteSincerely ask God for forgiveness and ask God to touch ur husband's mind.. then confess to ur husband. It might nt be easy at first.. u have to persevere thru.. if u don't trust me, u would loose out both ways...the earlier the beta.. ur husband's friend is demonic, he is out to destroy ur life..dont give him a kobo hence he would come back for more moni and sex.. The lord is ur strength.
ReplyDeleteJez pray to God for forgiveness and direction
ReplyDeleteSincerely ask God for forgiveness and ask God to touch ur husband's mind.. then confess to ur husband. It might nt be easy at first.. u have to persevere thru.. if u don't trust me, u would loose out both ways...the earlier the beta.. ur husband's friend is demonic, he is out to destroy ur life..dont give him a kobo hence he would come back for more moni and sex.. The lord is ur strength.
ReplyDeleteyou a biatch
ReplyDeletehe's gon' blackmail u
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DeleteFirst ur very stupid,drez a possibility drez no woman in uk. Tell ur husband dah wyl he wz in uk his frnd tryd 2 make passes @ u, nd durin ur bdai his frnd kpt somtin in ur drink, wen u woke up his frnd already had sex wiv u.uv bin vry scrd 2 tell him cauz he wz goin 2 b mad, n his friend Is blackmailin u 4 500k.... b d victim.if u like open leg again, msheew.
ReplyDeleteDon't tell ur hubby and dont give d fool d money. If he tells ur hubby deny him.
ReplyDeleteIf u start givin him moni, he will continue askin, cauz moni u don't work for, u spend it faster. Tell ur husband his friend tryd 2 rape u, cry n cry, act a movie n turn err tin In ur favour.b wise.
ReplyDeleteEwwwwweeeeee Ise mehhh. Naija women are devils. I said it. See how they are telling the woman to lie she was drugged it forced. You are all prostitutes with your kunfu panda bellies
ReplyDeleteI don't usually comment on blogs BT I just had to. U r a very stypid n hopeless person for dis comment. If you dnt have anything to say, den STFU u Ghanian black whore wiv or black ass n loose vag. Dear reader pls take d advice n play d victim. Oloshi commenter....weyre.
DeleteDear poster jare. B4 did idiot makes me write nonsense
DeleteMy dear d deed is done alrdy. Just ask for forgvness frm God. N pls if u still want d b in ur marriage dnt eva eva tell ur husband cos tellin him will b d end of ur marriage. Ask for his frnd, I bet u he will neva tell ur husband. Pray to God n he will see u through.
ReplyDeleteThe guy knew exactly what he wanted and got it. The truth is that you have feelings for him, that is the reason you noticed his girlfriend is pretty. Beta look 4 a priest or pastor who will help u beg ur husband the day u ll break d news, maybe, it will save ur ass. B4 then, seek d face of God truly!
ReplyDeleteAfter yu don enjoy clean mouth yu no go pay..... Lmao..... Abegi pay am him money.... Shey u don learn ur lesson.....
ReplyDeleteDon't give him natting and don't tell ur husband shit.
ReplyDeleteIf I were u I'd tell my husband his friend is trying to spoil ur marriage. And tell him wat he told u about ur hubby's Gf abroad. Woman be wise Oo°˚˚˚°!
If this story is true then the guy is evil,he played the friends wife the whole uni days story is fluke,its all planned out,the woman is weak and she yielded
ReplyDeleteThere is no advice for u other than to tell u the truth,you fucked up and u can't continue to fuck up,u had sex with another man and don't pay him any money don't yield again as for ur sin u have to live with the guilt until God decides what to do with u I pray he forgives you and if he does he will find a way to save ur marriage and ur life
But if you really want to cover a sin with another sin kill that bastard put a hole in his head heart and penis
Shit some men are terrible,my own friend sleep with my wife and trying blackmail
Don't tell your husband, don't give his friend the money. He has no proof anyway. Keep a strong heart and NEVER cheat on ur husband again.
ReplyDeleteDON'T give him a dime!
ReplyDeleteThreaten him also that you would write to the embassy!
.......the broke a$$ nigger values his visa more than the 500k!
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