What would you do if a man you didn't love proposed to you in the presence of his entire family and friends? Say No right there? Or say YES and later find a way to say you can't marry him?
My friend is in this predicament. Her wealthy 41 year old boyfriend of 2 years proposed to her at his birthday party. She was too stunned to speak and he mistook it for being overwhelmed. She later revealed she had accepted the proposal of her 2nd boyfriend last week.He is 28 (Yes she has two boyfriends)lol.
Now, she is officially engaged to two men. The problem is, her heart isn't with her old boyfriend and she doesn't know how to say No after his family has already been congratulating her and are so happy their 41year old son has finally decided to settle down.The mum even sent her expensive jewelry...officially welcoming her into their family
Lest I forget, she is 27
The matter pass me, so I decided to ask you my esteemed readers( My response was, Marry the 41 year old. He is more mature and fit to run a family)
Ur friend na jezebel. No advice for her
ReplyDeletePls pray about it,nd follow your heart but if I was 2 u b,I will go 4 d 1 dat loves me d more.
DeleteEmeh wetin do ur oyinbo model hand? se na craw i dey see or na her cloth? I no go fit treat ur matta dis nite time don pass gwan. Let ur itk readers handle this one.
ReplyDeleteU see plenty sleep dey eye. I be wan say se na craw craw i dey see for her hand? Na wa so oyinbo sef dey get craw craw.
DeleteLmaooooo people dey read story, this one dey look craw craw for oyibo skin lol
DeleteThis is why Nigeria is a bush country. Some one needs help and fools are talking about the white model's skin.smh
DeleteLmao at anon 23:06 you are a goat
DeleteLmao at anon 23:06 you are a goat
DeleteShe should wrap her ass in pampers
ReplyDeleteHer ass in pampers what are you driving at?
DeleteCoz that's what whores deserve. To be f***d in the a*** Emeh i censored it before u delete my comment. Wink
DeleteNa waooo dats s D problem with double dating, 41 year old guy should be Matured but she should settle for d one she s most comfortable with, good luck.
ReplyDeleteshe should go for the one she is more compatible with..n the one who makes her happier...
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And we wonder why men are heartless these days??
ReplyDeletemiss P my advice to ur frnd is She should stick with d 1 that will make her happy and she remba dat Marriage is a long -term commitment she shuld not just rush in..and mostly she shuld look at de guy @41 in d face and tell him d real truth if she feel; he is not d right person 4 her... And age is notin but a number .. MATURITY deals with d Brain ..alots of people grown adult who has been in marriage 4 years and make greivous mistakes!!! so age define notin But how far time go...And pls she should not been entice by GIfTs Becuz it will not prolong hapi family for her BUT STAND UP FOR was RIGHT INRESPECTIVE OF WHOM SHe IS Goining to be Displeasing is HER LUV LIFE she is sdealing with not deirs *15 MISs P yungest comentators*
ReplyDeleteAlice Ojo or woteva u call urself, if ur written English is like dis, I wonder how ur spoken English will b. Bcos it's a known fact dat written English is much easier dan Oral English
DeleteEmeh,
ReplyDeleteDo encourage your friend to take it to God in prayers. I can tell you that the answer may not come immediately but it would surely come if she tarries... tell her to call of both and who ever stands to the test of time/to wait it out in faith that she would have a change of heart is indeed the one.
What was she doing dating a guy she didn't love???
ReplyDeleteHow do you love someone as she claims and still have the heart to cheat on him with another....We ladies sometimes are so complicated. You give yourself to another when you claim to be in love with another and even have desires to spend your life with them....Where have we placed our conscience..SMH
ReplyDeleteI am so happy that as fellow lady condemns the actions of this emeh's friend. Hmmn ,emeh birds of the same feather flock together. I hold u in high esteem emeh would be so disappointed if you also do same. Your friend has very loose morals for two timing. I am sure the younger of two was fucking her well and also chats her up nicely thats why she cant leave him. While the older man was her meal ticket. Why are you ladies so shameless and so loose? No conscience at all. If she marries the 41 yr old guy i bet you she will still be fucking the 27 yr old, is it easy to leave sweet prick?. And if she marries the 27 year old i bet u she will still be screwing the 41 yr old for his money. She is rubbish wife material. She will most def cheat in her marriage. Its so obvious. One can never turn an ashawo into a housewife. Its not possible. Once an ashawo always an ashawo. Ashawo is a mind thing its hard to leave when it has entered one's mind. Emeh be careful of the friends you keep because ur reputation is rising.
Deleteanon 09:23 aha must be so vulgar!!!!!!!! TAAAAAAA!!! poshia made a very good point and i dint ve to rinse my eyes with bleach wen i finished reading her comment!
DeleteLadies are whores. That's why I use and discard. She has the guts to have 2 boyfriends? Slut. Meanwhile, i just discovered where that bitch who stole my 100$ lives. Advice me on what to do. Break her leg or wound her face? It has to be one.
ReplyDeleteDon chicken. How about shoving your middle finger up your ass. Dog
DeleteBe using and discarding them,someone else will be doing the same to ur sisters and mama sef...
DeleteDON THE PIG NO ACTUALLY DON THE PIGLET...I HAVE NO WORD FOR YOUR SORRY ASS
DeleteI think the 41 yr old uncle is better. She may not love him now, but I think she would grow to love him later. If the man is good, she should marry him.
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41 year old please
ReplyDeleteEmeh u let me down...what are you doing having a friend who two times? she should ask herself! who did she ask when she started the game?
ReplyDeleteMy prayer is the guys should find out and both should dump her sorry ass, she deserves non...
Everyone has a friend who double dates. Male or female so don't judge. Emeh your friend should just keep quiet and study both. In no time, the one meant for her will stay and the one who isn't will leave. Maybe they would breakup etc.
DeleteDon is just being a bastard...
ReplyDeleteMehn she is really good to be proposed to two men, some are looking for one sef... Anyway is still wrong, like if u dnt want sometyn why make it go dat far and hurt people... Karma is a bitch though
ReplyDeleteLook Emeh I do hope your friend is indeed reading these replies. So now let me give you my own experience. .
ReplyDeleteSince becoming matured I always said I wanted to marry a man about 10yrs my senior who wud be more matured comfortable and stable. Alas I got one 12yrs older 36yrs but my dear he was not it at all. He made me a director in his company bought a house in my name but hes not it. The maturity I expected was never to be. I decided to revamp my choices and am back to my 29yrs old boyfriend. Very brillant, focused God living and fun to be with personality.
You can pick tbe 41yr old man if u already have divorce in mind and not 50yra and more with him coz trust me married is more than age.
Hope he took his house back and fired u? Two timing gold digging bitch
Deleteme no get advice for her
ReplyDeleteGuys double date 2,aftarall since men r dogs,one wnt knw d home dogs from d bush dogs,so ladies out here faking I dnt double date,shut up! Guyz formin ladies r bitches,fuck up.d 41yr old might jst b d one o
ReplyDeletewell its obvious your friend is a***********what ever was she doing dating two opposite guys in the first place?let them not only find out o
ReplyDeleteI would advise her to follow her heart cus it matters a lot
ReplyDeleteyour friend is an ******** and she should pray and fast both men dont kick her ass at the end of the day
ReplyDeletepeople should please give the bitch advice and stop judging her.he or she who has never double dated should say nay and if you have double dated before say I OR YAY
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DeleteYour friend doesn't deserve a husband
ReplyDeleteShe should drink poison. Oshi
ReplyDeleteNa real wah ooooooo....read Juicy gist HERE
ReplyDeleteSelf righteous idiots on this blog. If u dnt hv any advice to give, shut up and stop judging her
ReplyDeleteSelf righteous idiots on this blog. If u dnt hv any advice to give, shut up and stop judging her
ReplyDeleteEmeh, are you sure you are not the one that needs the advice. All you girls that would be saying my friend , my friend and na una get the problem. Ok, answer time; Dump both and start afresh. didnt you know when you were playing wifey and attending family functions with both. "rme"
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