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Wednesday, 25 January 2017

One year later , Bovi remembers his late mum in emotion-laden words

On the 25th of January 2016, ace comedian Bovi lost his mum Margaret Ugboma at the age of 58.In an emotionally-laden post, the comedian paid a tribute to the woman who meant the world to him..

"Bovi o! It's mummy o! She's not breathing o"! Those where the first words that hit me when I picked up the phone call. It was 7pm, jan 25th 2016. I was parked outside the palms, patiently waiting for my movie time before making my way into the building. But how was this possible?
I spoke to her exactly an hour ago and I assured her I would check on her that same evening again. Now a female voice driven by hysteria was telling me the worst with the only euphemism she could conjure. I asked who else was there. She said uncle Eric. Finally!! Uncle Eric has always been there for my mum. Her go-to guy and Mr. Fix it.

With uncle Eric, nothing was ever broken. But when he got on the phone, he was broken. It was the first time I heard a strong man cry. That's when I froze. I was in shock. She had just left me 24 hours earlier. I drove her to the airport. "Bovi I don't want to miss my flight", she had queried. I told her it was a Sunday. "The road is clear. Let's cruise"! It was our last of many voyages. Just before she got into the arrival terminal I asked her to pose for a picture. I posted it on snapchat and captioned it "momma pls don't go 😭😭😭". How ironic.
The story is too tragic to tell, too long to narrate. I became emotionally frigid. Me and my siblings have just one great regret. We never had the chance to pay her back!
The memories came gushing as I drove back home to face my new reality; I remembered the first gift she gave me with a written message. It was an album. I was seven. I remembered how she took me to write my common entrance exam. As I walked out the hall, there she stood at the end of the hallway waiting with a lucid smile. She whispered to me "I know you did well". I was ten.

I remembered all the visits in boarding house. Staring at the gate of the school, it was only a matter of time before she drove in. She never disappointed. With love she would say, "you're the first fruit of my womb. I baptized you myself". A good woman died!
By 2pm of the 26th I stood before her body. Even in death, I could feel her warmth. Even in its stiffness I could feel her tenderness. There she lay, forever irreplaceable!!

6 comments:

  1. One yr already? May her soul continue to rest in peace

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  2. after killing his mum (illuminati) he now remembers her.

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  3. Bovi, may the soul of your mother continue to rest in peace.

    I dedicate the song 'Nine N'Enye' by the Queen of Soul, Oby Onyioha in remembrance of the souls of all departed Sweet Mothers all over the world!!!

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  4. May her soul continue to rip

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  5. So touching.. May her soul continue to
    RIP

    No one like a caring and loving mama

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