I have been in toxic relationship in my past, Am a very emotional lady and have been through a lot in my past.
Late August I broke up with a guy I was dating because I found out he wasn't honest and only wants nothing but sex from me, after the break up I met this great guy, that was during the moment I was hurting but I was sure I didn't want any relationship at that point, but he kept calm and penetrated into my life slowly and now I think I can't live without him, but I think he is cheating {let me be plain}. When I met him, he said he was still a virgin and he is 28. At first I was like in this our generation? 28?
A virgin? You've got to be kidding, Buh he kept telling me that till I had no option but to believe him. We haven't had any sex yet, When we got into the relationship,I felt like I was in heaven and that I have finally found true love but then after some weeks I started noticing/seeing text messages from girls, he even gave me his phone with those messages there, so when I saw and asked him, he said the girls were his admirers and that they wanted to be with him, and that if he had something to hide he would had deleted the messages before giving phone to me, which was actually logical,they call him every time am with him which is very annoying, i had to take their numbers and saved it to my phone, hoping that one day i will have to call them and tell them to stop calling him,he receives their calls sometimes when ever they call he pretends that it is his male friends, he puts the phone on mute then starts calling them male names,( caught him do one though) .
I always confront him whenever I notice anything, but he keeps saying that my mistrust issues are breaking the relationship and that he is tired of my jealousy, he said it is because of my past relationship, that is why I don't get to trust him, Buh messages I see make me feel otherwise, am so confused now, he is a great guy I can't deny that fact, but I don't know how to handle this jealousy, sometimes I feel Like I should give my self a break from all this and get over my past, but my emotions are now involved, but he seems not to understand that point..
Please my fellow readers what do you think I should do?
The guy no virgin anything
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ReplyDeleteMy heart almost jumped out of my mouth while reading this. I was beginning to think my GF posted this. Well, dear poster am not in the best position to advice u right now cus am kinda guilty. I fit swear with the life of my power bank say that guy no be virgin.
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Lol so you re a virgin
DeleteThe virginity aspect is irrelevant.
DeleteDo you get to see the messages he sends to them?
From the ones they send to him, can you tell if he's leading them on?
The guy in question is not a virgin! Thank God u guys have not had sex yet! So I'd advice u sit him down and talk to him about it or leave his life! He's not the right one for u!
ReplyDeleteJesus christ of virgin....my dear you better follow your mind, God will see you through, but try confront him calmly
ReplyDeleteVirgin my cute ass! but since you didn't men your age ... Gat no advice for U.
ReplyDeleteBSM can we see the "cute ass" *side eyes *
Deletevirgin ko!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! deflower ni!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
ReplyDeleteMy dear poster u have to be very careful
ReplyDeleteAsk him. He may not answer honestly, but you can still infer by his reaction whether he is hiding something.
ReplyDeleteIf he reacts defensively or nervously, and fervently denies all accusations, he's hiding something.
If he "doesn’t dignify your question with an answer," it’s usually because he doesn’t want to lie to you, but he really doesn’t want to tell the truth. If instead of answering, he asks, “How could you think that? Don’t you trust me?” he’s probably just avoiding your question.
If he comes clean, it is for one of two reasons. Either he is telling you because A) he wants to leave you, or B) the guilt of the affair is killing him. If he breaks down and cries, or keeps his head down when he tells you, it’s because he’s ashamed and he regrets his actions. Ask him what his intentions are in telling you, whether he wants to work things out with you or not.
Follow your instinct.
ReplyDeleteIt is never wrong.
The guy is a Liar. A guy who respects and cares about you will never do things to make you suspicious.
Nobody can advise you. You already know what you should do.
Poster d guy can lie..wise up
ReplyDeleteOnce bitten twice shy
Even our father in heaven is a jealous God.. To me the guy prick mileage na 17 million.. IT IS WELL
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ReplyDeletejust learn to trust him until you evidently catch him cheating
ReplyDeleteI wonder why girls are freaked about " virgin" guys.. the moment I hear that is the last you'll see me..
ReplyDeleteU better take a cool stroll out of that place. Dude's deceiving you.
Tell him to stop the rubbish or be dumped rubbish
ReplyDeleteVirgin my foot! Well,pray for God's direction but b prepared for anytin also eida positive or negative
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Virgin my ass my dear he's lying he's not a Virgin but a cheat I won't advise u to leave or stay just do Wat u feel is best for u but if am in ur shoes I will run for my dear life I no get heart way person dey break
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ReplyDeleteNever betray your instinct. If you cant tolerate a cheating man, I advice you run while you still have the strength. Thank you.
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