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Wednesday, 10 June 2015

Hurt Female Blog Reader Narrates Unfair Treatment By Cousins...

As I write this I am hurting so deeply,I could never imagine that I could ever go through such in my entire life least have to receive such from a family...
I went to school in the morning by 7a.m,have been staying at my cousins place for a while because the hostel is still empty and I don't want to fall prey to bad people..Unfortunately I realized my monthly flow came...left with no other choice but to go back home,but before I got a drop I was already drenched..I was so embarrassed but luckily I was wearing a black trousers..When I got to the house,the door was locked so I called my cousin and her younger sister,Told her my situation and she promised they were on their way..that was around 1pm..
I couldn't sit on the tiles so I stood up for a very long time but later sat on a neighbour's foot match... I had to keep on giving excuses to neighbours that passed..I fell asleep but woke up only to check  time and it was 2pm..I was very sad..I called again.. I was told that they were faced with so much crowd at the bank..but I thought to myself atleast not up to an hour no matter the crowd!!!
At least one of them should have brought the keys for me and probably go back...waited so much but it was getting late and I was irritated.. Had to go a neighbours place and freshen up in the most embarrassing way...Eventually they came back by 4 pm...I never uttered a word..I heard when one mentioned something about eating Sharwama.. I was pissed!!!!So I was here waiting in a bad state and someone had the time to stand in a line waiting to buy Sharwama????I couldn't believe my ears..My blood?My Family??My two sisters??? I was so hurt because I can't even do that to a stranger!!!... So I went forward and told them how I felt..they apologized but deep down I felt they dint realize the extent their actions hurt me....
Now I ask myself...if a sister or a blood relative could do this to you...Then who else?? There's no love out there in the world..everything is messed up!!!Greed has clouded our minds that we tend to ignore others just to fulfill our personal wants....Am a realist..a strong one..I believe in reality..seeing is believing.. Even when I see I still have to take it with a pinch of salt!Because our senses can also deceive us....but I guess I forgot the true face of reality...I expected too much...even from my family.

By Vivienne Adah
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43 comments:

  1. ujunwa10 June 2015 at 12:42

    Is well

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    1. Unknown10 June 2015 at 13:57

      Tf? What manner of fuckry is this post? So what should we do?

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    2. Anonymous10 June 2015 at 15:45

      ROTFL. LMAO!!!!!

      You mean you actually sent a mail to Eme to express how sad you are over your sisters not showing up with the key in time?

      Trust me, you are not a realist. A realist sees things from both their views and that of others. You only wrote what you saw from your view.

      It is easy for you to say your sisters hurt you. Do you mean as a being you never hurt anyone? You sound self righteous which i strongly doubt you are.

      Life is hard already, don't make it worse by grieving over a really minute issue. Probably your sisters thought it was something that you could hold before they show up hence they didn't hurry. This issue is too small for you to conclude and say there is no love out there. Lol, I am sorry but cant help but laugh. You never see anything for this life......

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    3. Anonymous11 June 2015 at 12:19

      NA THIS .. KIND DRY STORY DEY SPOIL TIMAYA .. FACE WITH PIMPLES #TRUESTORY

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  2. BeeVee10 June 2015 at 12:53

    Cry cry baby...next time since u already know u b woman u will always have a sanitary pad/tempon in yo bag along with wet wipes, ol the same sorry o...but wait oo, wat do u want us 2 do now, yo sisters already apologised abi u want an MpN apology?

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    1. Jeni_zee 10 June 2015 at 13:03

      Lmao crazy babe

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    2. Anonymous10 June 2015 at 13:06

      My first time commenting here but noticed u have so much sarcasm lady Belinda.I take that back...(the 'lady' part) cos u aint! This idea of worthless relevance-seeking on blogs (cyber bullying) is so played not to talk of uncalled for...

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    3. BeeVee10 June 2015 at 13:11

      1st time commenter u're welcome n noticed. Pls comment on Ada's write up she might jst nud yo help n liv gentleman Belinda alone.

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    4. Anonymous10 June 2015 at 17:41

      You actually put up a Post??? After they have apologised? Why? What more do you want?

      You need to grow. Your attention seeking no get 'prologue' from SDK to Laila to Mpn to...

      Ask your daddy to define 'realist' I think you are using the cartoon definition. You sound like an opportunist to me.

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  3. Tpraise10 June 2015 at 12:57

    Awwww so painful... But find it in Ur heart to forgive them they have done u wrong no doubt... But that shouldn't change Ur good nature towards others.. Do Ur part and leave judgement to God...it is well...

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  4. Unknown10 June 2015 at 12:58

    Hmmmmm Pele dear,jt move on nd don't bear grudge cos it ll do u no good @ all ds way u ll show dem love nd nt hate.

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    1. BeeVee10 June 2015 at 13:03

      Grudge ke, 4 wat? They've apologised already...I just hope they wont come here and see her write up otherwise tht 1 na big problem. ..

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    2. Unknown10 June 2015 at 13:08

      Madam she is hurt nd since dy apologized bt 2 her dy don't feel remorse do u knw wat she can do she can tk Mata into her own hands by poisoning or do smth irrational Dts y I said she shouldn't hold any crude babe hw u dy tnk sef na wa o HP ur nt those type of beauty without brains sha. Cos my broda go run 4rm u o.

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    3. Unknown10 June 2015 at 13:10

      *grudge*

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    4. Yoma10 June 2015 at 13:40

      really dont understand what all d fuzz is about....they made a mistake, they obviously didnt know d gravity of what u were going tru....get over it and move on, ders no need for dis epistle, its sooo not necessary...nobody is perfect, stop being a cry baby and waiting for d whole world to be NICE and PERFECT to u...fae reality..next time carry pad...shikena

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  5. Unknown10 June 2015 at 12:59

    Wat u eventually did by changing in a neighbour's haus shud av been d first 2do wen u met deir absence.instead u sleep 4footmat abi wetin? Abeg ur story dey funny,anyways dem don apologize,abi make mpn apologize on deir behalf also like belinda asked?

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    1. Unknown10 June 2015 at 16:13

      Lol....
      Its not a big deal!
      Emeh....hw is dis news?

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  6. Jeni_zee 10 June 2015 at 13:02

    Ooo my darling Vivienne, feel like hugging you right now,it is well, don't expect too much from people, put your hope,trust and faith in God alone, this is a phase in your life. Dnt pay evil for evil, love those who persecute you, that's what God said, I know how u feel but let this pass but still show them love, the Lord is your strenght

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    1. Yoma10 June 2015 at 13:44

      Lmao u guys are seriously funny....whats with all d pity party....how did they persecute her? pls until we hear their part pple should stop with d whole evil for evil cos I can bet dat they didnt no it was that serious.....she should accept their apology and move on

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  7. Flakky Flakky10 June 2015 at 13:02

    When pple wrong u and they apologise it should end like that,u as a lady should hv a spare pad in ur bag incase something like ds happens.

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  8. Unknown10 June 2015 at 13:07

    Gobe....

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    1. Unknown11 June 2015 at 17:50

      Madam get over it, my cousin called me a bitch and he hasn't said sorry to me yet. I pray I don't get to see him this Xmas cus I will break the fool's head

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  9. Unknown10 June 2015 at 13:07

    My dear ,in life we all pass through different challenges,but the truth is,it will only make u stronger\wiser...It is well with u GOD's love is the greatest of all stay bless deariee

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  10. Unknown10 June 2015 at 13:09

    a.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said..
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    Na the story bdis........ Wasnt impressed at all....
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    ***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***

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  11. Truth10 June 2015 at 13:22

    What the fuckery am I reading? Should I send my bodyguards to beat them for you? So their world should end because madam is on her period? OK, I will donate my K leg bodyguard to follow you home and break their 2 teeth each.If it's not ok for you, tell him to cut their left toe each. Satisfied?

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  12. Anonymous10 June 2015 at 13:28

    i really dont see anything hurtful here in my opinion. common sense requires u to stop by at d nearest shop and purchase a pad if u dont have one in your bag, get to a private place and change shikena (at least u will have a fast food joint close by). i have lived with relatives dat have done worse things to me and i dont think i was hurt at the long wrong. dis ur write up just reeks of sacarsm, learn not to reason like a victim i'm sure either of the sisters would have done same to the other too.

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  13. Olayemi10 June 2015 at 13:51

    It's well

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  14. Jenny Opez10 June 2015 at 14:00

    My dear this post is not necessary at all. Going to a neighbour's convenience should have been the first thing u do instead of sleeping on the foot mat. You don't expect the world to "stop" cos u re menstruating. They've apologised and that's enough. There's no need for sympathy. Get over it.

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  15. Unknown10 June 2015 at 14:46

    You like attention dear.everything gets to you.you are still a baby.same way you took the story of another BV to SDK blog.you like to play the victim all the time. Biko grow up

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  16. Olusoji10 June 2015 at 14:54

    Don't let that incident weigh you down. Just move on. It is hard in life to get people to be on the same pace with you. You are realistic, and may be they are not. You can't stand people up no matter what and they forgot to realise you needed them back in time to get the door open. When you look at the scenarios, you can not continue to be upset with them anymore especially when they have apologised. Be happy dearie.

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  17. Steveosky 4 Real.10 June 2015 at 15:06

    Simply for the fact they did apologise, I will say these words to you. On your road to success when the times get really tough just remember, the distance between success and failure may be the last blow that would break a stone. So, never ever lose hope, get it over it and stay focused. The best is yet to come..!!!!

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  18. Nikki10 June 2015 at 15:15

    I must comment syndrome...even people that cannot construct a simple sentence like Ed dreamz..Y'all should read carefully and see the part of n remorse b4 you guys judge!!Blog peeps and their pretentious lifestyle.

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  19. FRUITILICIOUS10 June 2015 at 15:17

    They apologized now, please forgive and move on...
    Pele...

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  20. Millypee10 June 2015 at 15:22

    To the writer, Never ever depend on anyone completely, not even family. Learn to trust with limitations even the bible advises that. Always carry the basics such as pads extra underwear cos you never know what might happen. I suggest you move some of your stuff to your hostel since you don't want to move there yet but you could run down there and pick up stuff when necessary. sorry about your experience.

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  21. Unknown10 June 2015 at 16:05

    I use to be like you,i get pained when am being treated like that until my mum told me am being selfish and taught me how to overcome stuffs like this,i now critically analyse the other party's reason for doing what he/she has done, whether or not it is iintentional before concluding or giving my judgement,intention matters alot,this is somthing your own sister can even do to do unintentionally,will you now say she hates you?No na,lets also consider others.

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  22. Wandoo Peters10 June 2015 at 16:41

    Lady, is it possible that u are not a very pleasant house guest? You may be their cousin but from your post it seems u have high expectations of others even though u are squatting in someone else's house.

    My take is that they were not in a hurry to unlock the door for u possibly because they've been tolerating you and are sending smoke signals that you should leave soon. Heck, they didn't mind that u heard them chatting about a shawarma stop. That's plain disrespectful and a direct jab.

    I've lived with relatives and understand how it can be to put up with drama from people who think the world should revolve around them. There's a saying that when you are in a strange land you should stand with one leg (from ibo proverb, I think). Maybe u got into the house and not only stood on all fours but even demanded for master bedroom (figuratively speaking)

    Sorry about what happened but I don't think it's worth the rant you posted.

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  23. Anonymous10 June 2015 at 23:06

    I hope this is not the same vivienne ada from sdk blog that send a memo to chysugar. If its the same person, babe you need serious help. Dont take things too personally. They have apologized so suck it up.. mtsheeeeeeeeew

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  24. Anonymous11 June 2015 at 01:13

    Anon 23:06 same person. Just shows you the kinda being she is. Oversized child grow up.

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  25. Unknown11 June 2015 at 06:15

    its a pity

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