I've been dating this guy for a while and we've grown pretty serious very fast but thats not a problem because I love him. But there is this one thing that has bothered me since we started the relationship.
I knew my boyfriend when he was still with his ex and he always told me great things about her, like he can't do without her, he's very sure she's the one as a matter of fact he was even going to propose to her this year then she broke up with him and she started dating someone else.
This left him heart broken as expected, at that time I too just left a relationship and I think we were both lonely so we became even closer friends and then not too long after, we started dating.
This left him heart broken as expected, at that time I too just left a relationship and I think we were both lonely so we became even closer friends and then not too long after, we started dating.
The problem now is he's still very close to his ex, she calls him constantly (let me add here that she's left the guy she was with cos he just wanted to sleep with her), she calls him to help her with stuff that in my own opinion any other friend can do but my bf doesn't see this has a problem, In fact there was this time she told him to leave me so he could help her with something, he didn't go but he made some calls and was able to get someone else to help but she refused, he's also lied about somethings that involves her. We've been fighting about this recently and he says i'm over reacting but I don't think I am.
Please I need your honest advise, do you think it's not a big deal? Bearing in mind she has called 98% of the time I'm with him and I know they talk when I'm not there. He says he loves me I should let it go. Please what should I do?
I know he reads this blog and I'm hoping the comments will help us resolve our issues. Thank you.
I know he reads this blog and I'm hoping the comments will help us resolve our issues. Thank you.
Keisha is dat u?No wonder u keep taking panadol 4 oda pples headache. It is a very big deal oh. U need 2 shine ur eyes else u will soon become d ex.
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DeleteRun, you will always be her replacement, not his number 1.
ReplyDeleteBorrow my leg join your own and run!!!!!!!!!!!! He's a weak man he doesn't know what to do with a woman like you.
DeleteBabes you're in a situationship not a relationship!! You need to get our self out of that mess asap, to avoid being heartbroken and dumped!!! A word is enough for the wise, maka stories that touch. Your man is not over his ex yet simple!!!!
ReplyDeleteDear poster, don't leave DAT guy, my honest advice.. Don't, u love some1 u stay by their side even when an ex is in d page, 98% guys av an ex, and old feelings re awoken wen they meet their exes, yes his currently talking and calling her...but with time and proper discussion he'll come to realise his making d wrong choice of going back to a girl who once left him...
DeleteSummary of all this, stick to Ur man...u can't keep leaving every guy u date, cos his having ex issues... My 1cent baby
Not every body thinks like that MR Evans.
DeleteAnd wht mks u think his not gonna think like dat? If u don't give him a chance to think like DAT, he'll Neva think like DAT...
DeleteMr. Evans 2 thumbs up. Thoughful words . I kept my ex for a while just for the funs, and eventually married my new girl. Most men marry with their head and not with their heart that is why a man can date a lady for 5 years and end up marrying someone else. The only interesting in the above story is that the guy talks to his ex even in front of his new baby that tells me he is not totally into the new baby else he should be hiding the fact he still communicates with his ex so as not to hurt her. This might end leaving the 2 ladies. My final summation stick with your man give it your best. If eventually it did not work at least you will have the comfort that you tried rather than be plague with the thought that there was something you didnt do right.
DeleteMy final summation stick with your man give it your best. If eventually it did not work at least you will have the comfort that you tried rather than be plague with the thought that there was something you didnt do right.
DeleteI didn't tink of this...kudos
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Deletegee! REBOUND!!! dats d right word here. u don't enter a relationship bcos u are lonely. u have to have a clear mind in order to be emotionally stable in ur next relationship. u have to ascertain u are fully over ur ex. as it is, i think he still feels something for his ex-girlfriend and we are humans so i think u both have to give urselves sometime apart in order to ascertain what u 2 really want......d question is DOES HE STILL LOVE HER? and if so, i think u should let him go and find ur peace and happiness with someone else who would not toil with ur emotions.
ReplyDeletea.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said...
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Babe i suggest yu leave this guy nw he is still showing yu green light bcos if the ex is still in the picture he will and can never get over her..... If the both of yu get married, do yu think the whole fighting saga will stop? A big fat NO, rather it will increase and after the whole drama where do yu think he will seek confort? In the arms of that ex and since she still love him she will open her arms wide for him and as tym goes on he will tell yu he made a mistake by marrying yu and all those stuff...
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Yu earlier said he has been singing her tune always to yu when they were together and yu think all those feelings has vanished. Babe open ur eye bcos they are still very much intact.... Babe just free the guy abeg...
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DeleteDoodie master made sense
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DeleteThat's my Nigga on point. you just said my mind. Thumbs up.
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Defne your relationship! what is you purpose of dating each other if it not workinng with him then break up and move on beside they are over a million men out their with impeccable character! don't let your heart be trouble-Pst.Chekeleke
ReplyDeleteYes dearie, it's a big deal. U ve got to put a barrier. U got to make rules and let him know u are other comfortable with it. Give him this chance bcos Im a woman and I can tell u that ladies (exs) could force themselves on their ex and some men like to play good guys and don't push these ladies away the way they should. They might be nothing in his mind. Talk to him in d nicest way and express urself then watch the outcome. His behavior afterwards will determine. My advice is for u only if u really love him and want something serious
ReplyDeleteU need advice when u know the truth.Y can't some ladies have simple common sense like me.His inlove with his ex and Shes now single and ready to take back her man.His still inlove with her and the truth is they are plotting on her to get rid of u.My advice is break up with him and move on.Relationship isn't a do or die affair and it's not a crime to be single.Their next plan will be to poison u so I suggest u stop eating or drinking in his house.If u must eat come with ur own food and if u must sleep,leave one eye open to avoid being strangled in ur sleep.Since ur a member here,I don't want to start organising burial fees on ur behalf
ReplyDeleteNo shaking
Please leave dar guy alone and over on plzz
ReplyDeleteThe simple truth is that u both have to sit down and talk,cos I see no reason y his (EX) is always calling him and taking much of his time for what? sorry to say that ur man no try at all', if na me be u I for done define where I stand I won't tolerate such nonsense for what nah? Dear POSTER be wise oh don't ever make a man feels he is ur heaven and earth pls oh..-if he is not willing to change let go jaree there are thousand and one better guys out there,and for ur information its not compulsory that if u are dating some one he must be ur husband,u need to commit it in prayers\fasting so u can hear from GOD through revelation,of dream..so u won't be wasting ur time for nothing with one guy that might not even love u d way u love him......Relax and take time to think, u alone can make the best decision yourself its well.
ReplyDeletePls liv the guy nd look for someone reasonable, some ppl like misbehaving asif they can take what they do to you.. He is fucking her do leave him but if u want to stay nd be a second fiddle then sai buhari
ReplyDeleteThat guy still very much in love with hi ex and I can boldly tell u that they are seeing each other behind ur back. Girl, that guy isn't meant for u. He's gonna keep hurting u if u don't leave that relationship. Ryt now, he's with u out of pity!!!!!!
ReplyDeleteThey've said it all...Break up wit him#I so love when girls do the breaking up ishhh.#lol.So dnt waste time.
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ReplyDeleteIf he loves u, ex shouldn't be part of his life any more.
ReplyDeleteI av neva commented on dis blog b4 o bt honestly babe d girl was neva his ex,dey r very much 2geda,u r just d side chic,those stories of leavin n comin back,dear dey r nt true,just be wise b4 u wud wakeup 2knw he is gettn married whilst dating u.
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ReplyDeleteWhat's there to be a friend with an Ex who left ya sorry ass and shattered ya glass heart for no genuine reasons?yea!!he forgave her and moved pass his past but rubbing her friendship in ya face is disrespectful and unacceptable... its high time he gives ya relationship a definition or you walk away...*Gifted rule *Let An EX remain a fucking EX....#GiftedDiva#
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ReplyDeleteTake a brake and sort yourself out!!
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U are wicked....lol
DeleteThe Ex really wants to come back and unfortunately your man is encouraging her.
ReplyDeleteJust ask yourself, is he worth fighting for?
If no, then let him go.
But if yes, pray away the Ex with psalms 35. Works like magic.
Wish you luck.
The Ex really wants to come back and unfortunately your man is encouraging her.
ReplyDeleteJust ask yourself, is he worth fighting for?
If no, then let him go.
But if yes, pray away the Ex with psalms 35. Works like magic.
Wish you luck.
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ReplyDeleteMy sister,your guy is in love with his ex more than you.She called him 98 % of the time he is with you.which means they enjoy calling each other.They are still in love.The worst thing that can happen to any woman is to marry a man that is still madly in love with his ex.There are many good men out there.This is not the only man that can marry you.He is not the best man for you.
ReplyDeleteTake the remaining 2% and find someone that will give you his 98% then you are OK! Run away from that guy, u'll always b his 2nd best. If it will make you feel any better, the X doesn't even love him, she's just using him but he's too stupid to know that.
ReplyDeleteBabe shine ur eyes well,d handwriting is already on d wall,pls don't dull yourself.
ReplyDeleteBabe break up with him fast. If you think we are lying, just give him few days after leaving him and see if he won't run back to his ex.
ReplyDeleteHe forgave her of such grievous crimes, I hate to burst your bubble but that is true love. Leave now with your self esteem intact or you might wakeup one day to see their wedding invite.
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DeleteBaby gurl, just let d guy make u his First Lady! ""He can befriend his ex., talking to her in ur presence is Ok, lol, but it depends on what topic....n 98% nyans wit d ex, babe who left him, is just 2 much..
ReplyDeletemy dear you need to draw the line and let him know. its either you or his ex. no two ways about it sweetie
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