I almost had an abortion because I was pregnant for a younger man -Toyin Lawani | This Is Miss Petite Nigeria Blog

Sunday 25 January 2015

I almost had an abortion because I was pregnant for a younger man -Toyin Lawani

Here is what the designer, stylist and business woman said about the challenges of dating a man way younger.The 32 year old started dating her 22 year old boo in 2013 and in 2014, she was pregnant..
 "I Remember when I got pregnant I was so scared to let the world know, No1 had a clue until they saw me on the runway at Africa fashion week london,was almost 8months then,I used to worry Alot abt what people would say if i had a baby for someone younger, My Boo would Beg me endlessly and say my love care not I'm by your side,His parents where so Amazing and supportive,i was so shocked cause I didn't expect that kind of love and support, I almost didn't want to go through with it, severally I would change my mind,I will sit in d hospital thinking endlessly should I or should I not, my doc will say Toyin its just 9months ,
A positive voice constantly kept telling me My love when you meet this bundle of joy in your stomach you will not care ....And Alot of negative voices kept begging me to take it out that it was a bad idea,Well Imagine if I had listened to the world or if I was too scared to carry on cause of what people will say?... 
I would have missed out on this Beautiful Blessing....My son is the most handsome Boy ever I've ever seen and so is my Beautiful daughter...Happy Sunday yall Don't let voices of others make you kill your Blessings,Believe in Yourself and ask God for help cause he's the only man that can get you there....Too many kill Joy in this so called Nigeria but im sorry to burst your bubble,i dont Give a Shit about wht society think ,i came to this world Alone and im Going Alone,Live your life to the fullest cause oneday you will look back and realize u missed out on all the things u could have done for urself ,just because you cared too much about wht society would say or Think abt u 
....Anytime I feel down I look at my kids @lilatmfashionista and @lordmaine1 and all I do is Smile..went thru Alot but through it all only one person stood by me @lordtrigg Thanks for this Blessing...Even my so called Bestfriend told me ah toyin if u leave ur ex u will suffer oo and i told her hey dear dont forget i have my talent and handwork ,i will just suffer for a while,I thank God that I don't look like what I've been tru..I Thank God for his continous Blessings on my life and family #ATMFASHIONISTA #HAPPYSUNDAYALL"

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25 comments:

  1. Anonymous25 January 2015 at 14:47

    K

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  2. Unknown25 January 2015 at 14:50

    Thank God u did not!!!!!!!!!! Next pls

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  3. Anonymous25 January 2015 at 14:52

    Wow... very touching. God bless you

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  4. Unknown25 January 2015 at 14:52

    Thank God for u for dear. Too many joy killers in the world but God pass dem

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  5. Anonymous25 January 2015 at 14:53

    Don Meritson Mba

    ok,Love is all that matters...but that guy is too young oo hehe


    #GodblessNigeria

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  6. Unknown25 January 2015 at 14:56

    Almost made me shed a tear... so touching!!!

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    1. @MEETD®EALEVANS™25 January 2015 at 15:41

      U always want to shed tears...tk it easy, save some for hrt break...

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  7. SVC25 January 2015 at 14:58

    Thank God u did not.... IT IS WELL

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  8. BeeVee25 January 2015 at 15:16

    Anything goes when u need attention. Unprotected sex with a young guy n when d pregnancy u were applying 4 shows up u want 2 abort? Was he not young when u were busy sexing yo life away? Abeg...tell yo story 2 d devil.

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    1. Anonymous25 January 2015 at 15:29

      God bless u

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    2. Olusoji25 January 2015 at 16:47

      Don't blame her she was in love and completely not bother whether he was young or old after all age is just a number

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    3. BeeVee26 January 2015 at 08:16

      @Olu, are u ok? Did u read her story or not? Read again, then read my comment and come back to re comment!

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  9. Unknown25 January 2015 at 15:44

    wait!!!...Holup!...she had two kids with two diff men?....somebody clear me on this o

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  10. Anonymous25 January 2015 at 15:45

    Lol @Belinda but her words were also encouraging

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  11. Jeni_zee 25 January 2015 at 16:19

    Her life, her business, she's responsible for d way she wants to live her life cos there's only one life

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  12. Olusoji25 January 2015 at 16:45

    A very touching story, thank God you didn't listen to that negative voices telling you to abort

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  13. Unknown25 January 2015 at 16:54

    MR EDDY said this Heat wan kill person o. I miss Harmattan.

    I don dey old o. See my mates don dey drop tracks. I guess it's high time I take that bold step.
    ^
    ^
    ^™THAT EDO BOY.COM~

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  14. bb25 January 2015 at 16:55

    Anoda contributor to the long list of children born out of wedlock

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  15. Unknown25 January 2015 at 16:55

    White witch and white wizard we don hear and tnx Gid u did nt abort d small guy

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    1. Unknown25 January 2015 at 17:17

      Its Amazing the kinda thing that comes outa your mouth dear, believe me after going through your pictures on Google+, you don't look like this comment of yours. Its quite disheartening that women are there worst Enemies, Rose Powell your too Beautiful to call a lady who's doing so well for herself a White Witch and a White wizard, wondering what could have led to that. Am really disappointed!! E no fit you at ALL..

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    2. Unknown25 January 2015 at 18:19

      DJ or wat do u call urself mind ur business and sray away 4rm my path

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    3. Queen Onyx25 January 2015 at 20:08

      @DJ STELCH I thank God we still have people like you not haters like rose powell. Shez way too judgemental like shez God. If only God is man........shez saying mid your business but shez not minding hers. Too bad Naija people are so full of hatred for each other. Effects of colonialism.

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  16. Unknown25 January 2015 at 17:24

    Seen

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  17. BluntIjebuChic'*GiFTED'*25 January 2015 at 19:42

    its ya life after all...#GiftedDiva#

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  18. Unknown25 January 2015 at 21:04

    Its well

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