This strong worded memo to guys was sent in by blog reader, Amy George ..All I say is ..Preachhhh
Treat Ladies Right Today and I'm sure if every Guy will stick to only 1 Girl and understand each other, there will be NO BITCHES.
#JAGA#
Boys sleep with Girls and then pass on to their friends. This friends will also do the same and pass the number on to another friend. Simply because, they lied to the girl about Love and she agreed to give in to their lustful desires. From different guys comes different lies. One thing these guys dont realize is that, some ladies have low minds and cant think assmart as guys can.
Talk of emotions,women are very very TRUE when it comes to matters with the heart. Now you've played and slept with her many times and its become a part of her. She is now addicted to SEX and no longer interested in Love. Then another guy finds her and treat her right but because of what some guy did in the past, she cant stick to one guy. Then this new guy breaks up with her and she moves on to the next guy.Sometimes, when a gal date up to 5 guys its not their fault but its how their love life startedYOU THEN CALL HER A BITCH & WHORE SIMPLY BECAUSE SHE IS NOT WithYOU ALONE BUT OTHER GUYS. IF YOU TRY TO MAKE HER A BETTER PERSON, YOU WILL CHANGE HER COMPLETELY. THAT IS WHAT EVERY GUY SHOULD DO COS TRUST ME, THERE IS NOTHING LIKE A BAD GIRL. SHE WAS ONCE GOOD BUT THERE IS A REASON FOR HER BAD STATE.
Treat Ladies Right Today and I'm sure if every Guy will stick to only 1 Girl and understand each other, there will be NO BITCHES.
#JAGA#
@edDreamz the fucker, u don hear am?
ReplyDeleteI disagree. If a girl is stupid enough to sleep with everyone then her business. Dont blame in on low mindset. Sorry if u have low mindset sha. Educate yourself
DeleteGbam.Its not a man's fault if a girl decides to be a ho
DeleteI disagree with this post, my dear. Whatever you allow as a lady is what you get. Ladies don't love or value themselves.
DeleteLet me tell y'all a story.
Four months ago, we had just passed out from NYSC, like some people are doing today (congrats to them), and we Whr partying at the corpers lodge. A friend, DD (not her real name) while we Whr dancing, told me that her BF's younger brother likes me. He saw my pics (I did a modelling job for them) at her place and asked for my number. Give him my number if he is fine. I like fine boys. She laughed and said ok, but that I should not expect anything serious o! Was too busy to ask wat she meant, so I just said ok.
Two days later I got a call. He said his name is AD(not real name) and that he got my number from my friend. He also wanted us to see, if I didn't mind. I had another passing out party to attend that evening, so I said no. He insisted and offered to give I and my friends a ride to the party. Atleast he will get to know the little that would calm his nerves for the day. Flattered, I allowed him. He came, we talked, he seemed very nice, smooth talker, very honest, and to top it all, he can dance! (I LOVE guys that can dance. So fast-forward to abt a month later, AD called to say he really likes me, but he is not interested in a relationship cos he is not ready for drama. What then did he want? You are cool, u have nice sense of humour, fun to be with and incredibly sexy, let's just have fun. U know, hang out, go places, and have sex. No strings attached (his exact words). WOW!!! The first time anybody was being so straight with me. Sorry I'm not looking for a f**k mate, so ask the next girl, I replied. Don't get it twisted, I liked this guy, his body is WOW! He has most of wat I like in a guy, but MY PUNANI IS NOT FOR FUN! Up on till last month he was still talking abt it, and as difficult as it was, I kept saying no. He comes around, we talk, we hang out but I don't let him touch me.
When I called him last week Monday, he said he was on his way to Lagos for his elder brother's wedding! What!!! Who's is he marrying. It turned out that his elder brother KF, has been dating this other girl (in Lagos) for over two years, so he was going to bring her home as his wife! Shocking news, too many questions in my head to ask, but I had to wait for them to come back. AD came straight to my crib to see me wen he came back. What is going on? Who did KF get married to? What of my friend, DD? What happened? I asked. DD is not KF's gf now! The Whr just "having fun" as f**k buddies. She is KF's HOE! I could not believe my ears. I wanted to strangle him, but why should I? It's not their fault. My friend brought it upon her self. She accepted to give out her Punani for fun abi?
AD went ahead to tell me that he has now gotten a girl, bla bla bla... so if I had accepted to "have fun" with u then, would u be telling me this? Yes na, then u would be my sexy side chick, he replied. He is that honest, and I really like him for that. What am I trying to point out?
Ladies make the mistake of giving themselves out too cheaply because they like a guy and probably hoping that the guy would grow to love them as time goes on, which rarely happens. My friend DD is really depressed cos she had already fallen for KF. The earlier ladies start loving themselves and valuing who they are, the better for them. Yes, some guys are plain heartless, but let's stop being fools, fooled, and used. Shine ya eyes ladies!
Wow.your story gave me chills. Beautiful and gifted. Please don't give in to that boy
DeleteMy sis,you are really beautiful, gifted, smart and godly. Some of us ladies are brainless fools while some just want to catch fun at the moment only to blame the guys later. Some of us are Christians that attend church and read our bibles where we are told to flee from fornication but decide to ignore the injunction. Ladies, be wise, guard your hearts and emotions and know when a guy is coming just to take advantage of you.
DeleteSMH! Its because the guy was honest with you na! What if he was not.. He for don chop you free like us wey dey lie.
DeleteAnon. 11:00.
DeleteFirst of all, yes, he was honest. And so was his brother. Some ladies just want to be liked. So they misbehave. Some others like to "try their luck" with their dignity at stake, even if the truth is poking their eyes.
Second, dear, I have been called a lot of names by guys. This guy is not the first, neither will he be the last. The ish is, I know wat I want, and I sure will get it. Sex is not everything. And a man should not be a woman's priority. Besides men plenty. Ladies should focus on make something good out of themselves first. A good man will come.
The truth is always starring us in the face, directly and indirectly. But we ladies just choose to ignore. We are always having faith that something good will come out of a bad/wrong thing.
DeleteNa we dey still cry later.
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DeleteVery true
ReplyDeleteNot 100% true... U can only be addicted to sex if u want to...
Delete"PeACe" is now officially registered
ReplyDeleteNow let's make REAL and INTENSE, the struggle to making MP Blog the BIGGEST, MOST ADMIRED and MOST SUCCESSFUL.
And big thanks to our Golden Girl "MissP" and Ifeanyi for the love showed to us yesterday to mark his birthday, to you Mr Ifeanyi I say may good thing never have an ending in your life. And please say amen to that whenever you are.
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DeleteTrue talk.. guys n their bla bla bla. Handle your bulala with care n control it..
ReplyDeleteTrue talk.. guys n their bla bla bla. Handle your bulala with care n control it..
ReplyDeleteI totally disagree. Nt all girls cos sum of dem take ur love, loyalty n kindness 4 granted. Dey believe so much in wat dia friends says, esp close friends 2 dem. Simplicity n satisfaction hs nothin 2 do wit dia own dictionary instead dey see u as a mugu n try 2 outsmart u. D fact is, nt all girls dat value wats on dia table esp wen it cum 2 seein dia closed friend lookin more flashier dan dem, dey start havin double mind n start seein u as who is nt suppose her level. Competitions, greed n mostly bad communication corrupt girl of nowadays
Deletethat word love has ruined many ppl, it is better to say am in lost with you, than to say am in love wit you, cuz there is no love, most guys are ready to tolerate Shits from many gals but gals are not ready to d same4guys, yet dey claim love, am in lost wit you is the perfect word to use, so you can bear it wen d whole lost is cleared,4rm yur eyes.
ReplyDeleteNice one and true.
ReplyDeleteNice one and true.
ReplyDeletePls guys aint smarter!its so funny u women don't know what u have.so tell me,does a smart person destroys his home over 3mins pussy?does a smart man lie to a lady to get some pussy?does a smart man hoard his children's school fees but sponsor a runs girl to dubai?does a smart man sleep with his wife's 15yrs old sister?does a smart man prefers to have an accident in order to ogle a female body parts?does a smart man suddenly hv leaking mouth after sleeping with a gal?this is what most men do and u think they are smart?I tell u,girls are really smart and gentle souls who were constantly lied to.the people with fish brains are guys that think they have hammered all them girls and finally gets married to another girl someone else hammered.who is deceiving who?fish brains.
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DeleteExactly,
DeleteWow! Honesty you have spoken well today.
DeleteTrue talk
DeleteWhen you see black letz speak the truth and say its black and when you see white we should also speak the truth and call it white.....Am so sorry but the write up I see up there is baseless and as no contextual value of justification......if I decide to sleep with my GF everyday withing the period of time our relationship lasted,doesn't mean she gets addicted to sex and not wanting to stick to a guy just because of our intimate sexual excapades we both had in her previous relationship(hell No)...most girls this days go into relationships just because of what they tend to gain and not Really for the word LOVE.....a girl with good moral standards and upbringing tends to look back at her past previous relationship carefully to accertain to a point beyond reasonable doubt why her relationship crashed and never lasted...she sits and apply the method called check and balance....with this method she gets to know how and why it never lasted for them both...she gets to knw if the guy was really meant for her (and she will also know where she goofed and failed to paly her role or part) or if the guy was just using her to wipe away/off is hormonal sexual hurge...with this she will definitely comes up with one or two definite reasons why it never worked out and the next for such a girl is to work towards perfection!!!like they say once beaten twice shy.....its only a girl who went into a relationship with a bad and delibrate intetions will evetually get kicked and pass around by many guys or friends of same caucus.....
DeleteYou said it. Only a cheap girl will be passed around like a football because if cheap lies
DeleteBLOG ANALYSER: Desmond u are on point jare. Gbam
Deleteomo boyz must fuck...nd person must fall mugu..M.P.N ROCKS
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Emeh, y be say if i don write my comments well,rap am with ogbon ge english con mis am with taiwan language,den wen i won send am everytin go con show blank? You dey do me ojoro o*oke*
ReplyDeleteTrue sha but not all true cus I believe its not the addiction to sex that makes girls crave for fancy (expensive) things.
ReplyDeleteif you also ask a guy he will also have something to say against the girls that make them cheat. No one is free both the guys and the girls are gulty. Thank you
Sharap there you this sparepart boy.you don close shop?#ukwa#
ReplyDeleteRubbish. I have 10 chicks and there is nothing anyone can do about it
ReplyDeleteThis defines the saying: good girls gone bad. Girls really have to be strong and focus with respect to relationship with the opposite sex if not they break you down completely. No girl should be stupid to fall into the same silly trap of guys over and over again. After all they say once bitten, twice shy. And in addition: if a man deceive me once shame on him but if twice shame on me. Nobody should be fooled twice...
ReplyDeleteNice write Amy George.
#Zimama#
Amy george wat do u expect 4rm a guy seein u wit fake eyes, fake hairs fake ass, also fake boobs? Come on, everytin bout u is so damn fake n u want d guy 2 b loyal 2 u wen everytin bout u r lies? Wen we see a wife we knw it. Its simple, lay ur bed d way u want 2 lie on it or else we 4ck u 4 free
DeleteBLOG ANALYSER: Zimama u are right
DeleteToo good to be true.. #shekınah.. IT İŞ WELL
ReplyDeleteShe just spoke the salient truth
ReplyDeleteTo me, some ladies who wants to be fu**ked are fu**ked.some ladies are dogs and d above write up isn't an excuse,better say,u ursef love sex and bot dat u were pushed to it.My advice is for people to give dier life to Christ since our body is not owned by us but Gods temple! PORTABLE
ReplyDelete@Portable, i am true believer öf God Words.. Çan ı worshıp in your Temple please? IT İŞ WELL
DeleteYes oooo! Portable,tell them. BV's give your lives to Christ and stop falling for guys/men that will claim to love you whereas all they want from you is sex. Afterall Jesus is the only lover that doesn't request for sex
DeleteSo true Debby.. Sex is not love...be sure of d guy b4 u give in!!
Deleteyou all to date rich guyz who will meet your financial needs but you dont want him to have sex with you.stingy girls.
Deleteyou all want to date rich guys who will spend on you but you dont want to satisfy his sexual apertite.So what is your honeypot meant for?
DeleteThis defines the saying: good girls gone bad. Girls really have to be strong and focus with respect to relationship with the opposite sex if not they break you down completely. No girl should be stupid to fall into the same silly trap of guys over and over again. After all they say once bitten, twice shy. And in addition: if a man deceive me once shame on him but if twice shame on me. Nobody should be fooled twice...
ReplyDeleteNice write Amy George.
#Zimama#
Men sleep around atleast three times more than women do.and yet,women are called sluts.I don't see the basis for that.95% of men would cheat while only 60% of women would.yet women are called sluts.maybe a woman needs reasons or an excuse or some sort of justification to sleep around but for a man,'variety is the spice of life' is his only excuse.a man who calls a woman 'bitch' or 'whore' should first check his records and count the notches on his bedpost.if a man enjoys sex,y shouldn't a woman?Live and let live
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Spot on Anon..u nailed it straight "a man who calls a woman 'bitch' or 'whore' should first check his records and count the notches on his bedpost.if a man enjoys sex,y shouldn't a woman?Live and let live"
DeleteDer r still very nice n decent guyz out der who dnt cheat, treat der women like angels still dis girls mess up big time, same for girls too. I jus wish dis very deceptive guyz wil meet der match (girls like dem) so we knw who is fooling who. But wat really gets me angry is whn a guy cheats, dey cal him a smart guy a mist hailing n admiration frm his male counterparts, but if na woman do juz once ehh? She's done for, it's so unfair.
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ReplyDeleteOk na
ReplyDeleteWhen you see black letz speak the truth and say its black and when you see white we should also speak the truth and call it white.....Am so sorry but the write up I see up there is baseless and as no contextual value of justification......if I decide to sleep with my GF everyday withing the period of time our relationship lasted,doesn't mean she gets addicted to sex and not wanting to stick to a guy just because of our intimate sexual excapades we both had in her previous relationship(hell No)...most girls this days go into relationships just because of what they tend to gain and not Really for the word LOVE.....a girl with good moral standards and upbringing tends to look back at her past previous relationship carefully to accertain to a point beyond reasonable doubt why her relationship crashed and never lasted...she sits and apply the method called check and balance....with this method she gets to know how and why it never lasted for them both...she gets to knw if the guy was really meant for her (and she will also know where she goofed and failed to paly her role or part) or if the guy was just using her to wipe away/off is hormonal sexual hurge...with this she will definitely comes up with one or two definite reasons why it never worked out and the next for such a girl is to work towards perfection!!!like they say once beaten twice shy.....its only a girl who went into a relationship with a bad and delibrate intetions will evetually get kicked and pass around by many guys or friends of same caucus.....
ReplyDeleteThaaankk yoouuuu!!!!
DeleteIf eve hadnt given adam the forbidden fruit men would be saint.if ladies dresses modest men will not tempted.so are you all saying runs girls and commercial sex workers dont cheat on their bf?
ReplyDeletei will coment 2moro am feelin slpy
ReplyDeleteHmmmmm. Story for the gods.
ReplyDeleteWhen people can't explain their personal faults..they blame it on something else. Some parts of the write-up are true. But seriously, GIRLS NEED TO STOPPING FORMING VICTIM. Most break ups are blamed on the guys. They will clean up the story and sound so innocent. They almost never say what dey did wrong or even admit.My ex used to slap, fight and insult me. Her excuse?.."Thats how i am".After trying to help her change for years i had to run cus it was getting way too much. When i heard her version of d story after d break up, she sounded sooo innocent and i was the bad guy. When a girl dumps a guy bcus of his bad behaviour, Its "You go girl!".When a guy leaves a girl for same reason "Hes impatient and hes not right for her".When a girl leaves a guy for someone that treats her better "its good for her"...When a guy does the same.."He is an unfaithful bastard". And the cycle continues. Guys arent always the bad ones. Girls need to stop playing victims and take responsibility for their actions.its not always the guys' fault. *coughs* Dazall!!!.
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Deleteladies dont always balance the story of their breakup.They always narrate how her boyfriend beat her and omit her own part that lead to the beatings.guyz have sisters at home.when she is tired of the relationship,she will be taunting him so that he will push the botton on her so that she will give"beatings"as her reason for quitting.
I think it all boils down to who are, the way you carry yourself, if you appear cheap, you get the rod, bottom line. Your attitude determines your altitude !!
DeleteI stuck to a girl 4 over four f**king yrs..loved her like mad. That is a decision I am regretting now. women are also guilty.
ReplyDeleteOmo Oba
Anon 22:49, Bless u bro. U've said it all. Women are 'never wrong' when it comes to break ups. Ladies should stop self justification and face reality. Guys get hurt by ladies 2. This article is 'shallow reasoning' at best. No apologies.
ReplyDeleteMy dear ladies, if a group of friends can successfully pass u around, then u r what u r called!!!
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excuses are for kids, shey u must sleep with every guy wen u date, wen u date a guy who u are very sure has no other use for u, what do u expect? lemme tell u, when a guy meets a chick who can make him better they hardly have time to so much sex! na empty and jobless people de carry am for head, that said, if the guy who took your innocence has the spirit of a dog, my sister your own don be!
ReplyDeleteBLOG ANALYSER: Amy I beg to disagree with your opinion. I personally believe that your line of thought can only be applied to a girl that is not matured psychological or that has not come of age. As a young adult once you are going in to a relationship the first thing you ask your self is what do I want from it, is material things? Or Is it love?. The truth is that some ladies want material things in " love based relationship". Probabily because they to show off or compete with their friends.Once they can't get it then they leave the relationship for "a material things based" relationship. Along the line they start searching for true love in this type of relation bt then the guy knows your intentions are or what you want. Thus, he won't give in. Then they start crying foul accusing every man of scumbag or breaking their heart where as they are the cause of their predicament. However, very few lucky ladies get the two on a platter of gold. That is becoz they play their game with wisdome or has already been ordained by God to happen. Finally, ladies always define what you want from the onset of a relationship and if you are not satisfied with the amount of your "want" that is coming from the guy take a walk. Do not stick around to see if he will change coz if u do, he might wake up one day and decide that he is the one that is not getting his needs. Any girl who turns bad coz of men is really not matured. Being bad is a choice "most times I blame it on peer pressure and background I.e poverty" and been good is also a also choice necessited by things like background too.
ReplyDeleteI have bin wit my GF since I was 16, tho we quarrel and argue cuz of jealousy, might be from my side or her side buh d love is there to settle our differences. One tin I understnd in a relationship is wen d both u understand and trust each other cuz if there is no trust in a relationship itz like putting ur money in a torn pocket. The kind of advice she gets from her friends matters and d way she treats her guy also matters cuz a real guy won't go ahead wit a nagging lady same applies to the girl. In conclusion if a guy/lady goes into a relation for sexual desire, they will neva get a enuf of it cuz the adventure continues and as for the lady she has automatically given herself d name "whore" and d guy into a "player". *VIZZY*
ReplyDeleteVizzy is this you? I love you for this statement
DeleteGood husband make a good wife
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