I stumbled on the Instagram Page of Lagos Big Boy and Psychologist , Olumofin Busayo Adejoro and found this amazing letter to the ladies.. Coming from a man, I must say it's spot on..(Ladies, thank me later)
"Letter to the Ladies.. Vol 1( Heartbreak is Blessing)..
"Letter to the Ladies.. Vol 1( Heartbreak is Blessing)..
Dear Ladies, Part of the reasons for being created by God or your role on earth is to Love, Give Kindness, Support your kin, Embellish your environment.. Do Not let any guy hinder you from these precious things as a result of heartbreak. Most times when a woman is heartbroken she turns to defense mechanisms to help her through the situation ; these Defense Mechanisms may sometimes be Rebellious..
For example Drinking to get Drunk, Serial sex with random individuals, Depression, Excessive eating etc these things will only have a Malignant effect on you and stop you from your true purpose. Whoever broke your heart has moved on and is happy.. Don't beat yourself up. Instead Re-brand and Package yourself so he can bite his nails and say I really shouldn't have.. Real victory and real triumph comes after you overcome a bad situation.. From a guys Perspective ; I've done somethings to some Ladies I'm not proud of but I give respect to those of them who bounced back. Stayed Blessed.. #DoktorMofin #LetterToTheLadies Vol 1.. #HappySunday"
lol..women don really deal with us...
ReplyDeleteHow women deal with una when a man is writing of how you men break women's heart? As for me, break my heart and I break your leg
DeleteLmao @ *break my heart and I break ur leg. You dey harsh oo!! Choi
DeleteLmao..u no serious @ break leg
DeleteThe only reason am giving credit to this write up is Simply coz he was a culprit too..!!! Nobody holy pass !!
ReplyDeleteHeartbreak is a blessıng from God, ıts just His way öf lettıng you realize He saved you from the wrong öne.. IT İŞ WELL
ReplyDeleteThough heartbreak can b painful, instead of shedding tears, get off ur ass re brand n package ursef well n see d amazing results.
ReplyDeleteLmaooo @excessive eating Oh well.. This too shall pass.. Its not easy to move on if u really love the idiot that dumped you.
DeleteI dnt wanna talk abt dis cuz itz like scratching a wound, oh.... sukuratuu God will judge u
ReplyDeleteI agree .My ex dumped me for a chicken who had a ride. I out my feet to the ground, worked hard and in 9 months I had my own ride and apartment. He then left her saying all she did is depend on her dad's money and he loves me because I'm self-made.. #Voicemail
ReplyDeletepreach!!!
ReplyDeletewen a guy breaks ur heart,cry urself a river,build a bridge across it,then makeup with 6-inches heel n catwalk over it like a boss!!
u survived heartbreak n u can survive anything..
s/o to all the strong women out there.
Darlwyn
U said it well.i love this statement!!
DeleteI have had four break ups in a year and that's why I decided to go into an open relationship. Breakups are bound to happen. I am cute and intelligent...its high time the girls start taken breakups as normal thing.
ReplyDelete*CUTEMICKY *
Mr CuteMicky, we are talking about girl and boy relationship here not gay guys break ups..i know it's normal for gay guys like u to break up every now and dn.coz u can't keep ur third legs to yourselves..spare us the details.
Deletea.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said...
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One in a million write up.....
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Anonymous 18:15. Like seriously. "cute and intelligent" it high time the girls started...... not starts. Thank me now.
ReplyDeleteNwendy.
are u heartbroken? maryam
ReplyDeleteThis is true, i love the write up
ReplyDeleteReaaalllly....makes sense...FRUITILICIOUS
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