Yeni who is the daughter of Afrobeat legend,Fela Anikulapo-Kuti is in her 50's,single, and loving it..Here is what she told the Sun....
"I am still single because I have lost all interest in marriage and I don’t believe in the institution any more. Nigerian men are too controlling and overbearing for me and I am already set in my ways. Besides, I have been on my own for too long. My major concern is training my daughter. I praise married women; I think they are the real stars of this country. Women in their husbands house looking after their husbands and children are amazing especially the ones with nine to-five jobs who come back home tired and still go to the kitchen to cook for their husbands. These are the women that women magazines should be celebrating because they are the real super women. Men are not easy to look after; I can’t do that so I duff my hat for such women. When my only child clocked two, I was separated from my ex-husband. I am now in my 50’s and I am not thinking about having another child and I have no regrets. I don’t believe in having kids with everyman that comes my way. Maybe I could have had more kids if I had re-married but since I never remarried there was no need for me to have more kids. My marriage didn’t work because we couldn’t get on together after two years. Right now my daughter is the most important person in my life. I am still single and I have found a suitable man but right now, marriage is the last thing on my mind. Yes, it is true that you never can say never because things happen. But if ever I want to get married again, you will be the first to know."
BLOG ANALYSER: Good for her
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DeleteHow will you believe in marriage when your womaniser brother doesn't believe in being faithful to one woman. Rubbish
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All these Gender Equality going on in this country, the man is the head of the house, aunty Yeni its ur choice and i love you so much. See u at the shrine
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This flying mouse, I now see why you comment like a dog in heat. Your base is the shrine where weed has clouded your judgement. Ode
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DeleteI fully agree the man is the head of the house BUT!!! in this day and age are more than capable to hold their own!!!
Gone are the days when woman relied on men to provide for them and your comment of the shrine is really 'Classless"
Get your head out of the gutter and wake up and smell the roses yeah!!!
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These two piglets wanna run me down. Peeps that goes to the shrine are classless? Cool story SO enjoying with the rough ajegunle is classles? Sowi o your minds are like papers
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Chick maybe it is time you check yourself yeah!!!!
ReplyDeleteYou are not a looker are you now? Plus you are way passed your sell by day!!!
The reason you are single is because no sane man will have you, And what is up with that outfit? Blue from head to toe!!!
Woman check yourself before you make silly statements.
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Loooool so mean
DeleteU feeling like oprah whilfre for 9ja abi..see her like palm wine seller..
ReplyDelete~MR PETITE~says so via www.facebook.com/eddywhiz
Excuse.
ReplyDeleteGudluck to yu, but am very sure yu are not happy with ur life thats for sure.....
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Yeah ur right Mr doodie!
DeleteLazy Women be like . . .
ReplyDeleteErm..if you were in your 20's or 30's, will believe but at 50 madam, you don't exactly have a lot of choices. Especially with Nigerian men
ReplyDeleteMen her fear ? Face ur fear biach
ReplyDeleteMadam not all men r domineering or will be so inconsiderate as 2 request dre wife who just came late 4rm work 2 cook. Also dre r beta ways of handling cooking matas now.u r speaking like u r still in d stone age. Believe it or not dre r 1daful men out dre nd my husband is one of dem.
ReplyDeletei wonder why u didnt marry that old man that bought ur 1st car for u
ReplyDeleteoh i remember, d man was not ready to take a 2nd wife
i beg stop this ur epistle
HYBunny
Marriage is not easy but you can still do it. God is our strength. Just hope for the best no matter what, marriage is a pride of every woman. ' Ugwu nwayi bu di ya'
ReplyDeleteCute babe don't mind them. It's well with u n ur daughter. Enjoy ur seif.
ReplyDeleteNa so them dey talk when them don queki or kpa!
ReplyDeleteIs upto her..
ReplyDeletewell to my own saying marriage is not by force and not everyone is ready for marriage. Marriage is a huge commitment and not everyone is not ready for it its a huge responsibility and child bearing its not easy and if marriage is not for you, don't get marriage cause its hard work and why do people trip if a woman is not yet married. there are reasons why she/he doesn't want to get married. there are some people in the world that don't want to get married they rather be single that to be in a commitment that cant cope with. So pls if marriage is not for you, don't get married they are people in this world that have found happiness being single and living life as good as married couples.
ReplyDeletenext time, read before you post-if it sounds like a person talking or like a castrated camel. ehen...it is don't get married and not don't get marriage.
DeleteU would have made sense if only wot u wrote is readable tho
ReplyDeleteGood writing.
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