Hi Miss petite am a fan of your blog.i Ave smthing 2 share n would really need advice...I 1nz dated a guy whom I Neva knew he wz in cult bt he later told me wen he realized our relationship wz growin strong..i don't like guyz who smoke bt. he assured me he had stopped..i later realized he never stopped but I was advised by friends dat it was not a habit dat can be stopped Easily...our love kept growing strong or preferably I would say my luv kept growin strong 4 him...2 d point dat I startd giving him money...he Neva spent on me because den he was not dat strong.
I was the one doin all the spending even when we hanged out wit his friends..(dey alws tot it was his money)...we where a year gone wen I changed my location and distance became d problem...he Neva trusted me again whilst I stil kept my love and trust 4 him goin...he Always came 2 ma place unannounced 2 c if I was cheatin on him..meanwhile all d while he was the one cheating..we finally tried settling everytin but his trust was stil low bcos of dis lack of trust we finally broke up...bt d breaking up experience was d worst eva.he beat me up for breaking up wit him(this beating was just not. In d house but also on d street)u could imagine how embarrassing dat was.
..we finally parted ways with me aving a swollen mouth and a crashed phone(cos he threw ma fone 2 d floor)..now it's been years and I Ave moved on...jzt saw him recently n he is now Well 2 do n his pleading 4 forgiveness which I told him I ve bt wld Neva 4get...n nw he also want us to be back again...dat he is a changed person dat he really wants me so he can repay wat I did 4 him in d past...am so confused right now. bcos I also Ave a boifrend now bt he is not dat type dat spends on me but I luv him cz he is really caring...
Plz would want my identity not to be disclosed...would be hoping 2 here advices soon...thanks
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I was the one doin all the spending even when we hanged out wit his friends..(dey alws tot it was his money)...we where a year gone wen I changed my location and distance became d problem...he Neva trusted me again whilst I stil kept my love and trust 4 him goin...he Always came 2 ma place unannounced 2 c if I was cheatin on him..meanwhile all d while he was the one cheating..we finally tried settling everytin but his trust was stil low bcos of dis lack of trust we finally broke up...bt d breaking up experience was d worst eva.he beat me up for breaking up wit him(this beating was just not. In d house but also on d street)u could imagine how embarrassing dat was.
..we finally parted ways with me aving a swollen mouth and a crashed phone(cos he threw ma fone 2 d floor)..now it's been years and I Ave moved on...jzt saw him recently n he is now Well 2 do n his pleading 4 forgiveness which I told him I ve bt wld Neva 4get...n nw he also want us to be back again...dat he is a changed person dat he really wants me so he can repay wat I did 4 him in d past...am so confused right now. bcos I also Ave a boifrend now bt he is not dat type dat spends on me but I luv him cz he is really caring...
Plz would want my identity not to be disclosed...would be hoping 2 here advices soon...thanks
Tell him if he really wants to repay you, he should start by writing out a cheque and giving you.If he doesn't, free him.He is not serious
ReplyDeleteI swr down he shld do a cheque or wire money into her account
DeleteNext time u need help from us, write something we can read pls.....
ReplyDeleteIts either you can't read or you have difficulty comprehending,,,poster once a beater always a beater trust me,well if u love him more dan ur present Bf u myt wanna reconsider,cus I see frm ur tone u aint over him,well u just weigh ur options.
DeletePoster when you rewrite this, tell me to give my advice.Headache
DeleteI don't understand either!
DeleteWats mking u confused here? U shud mkit clear 2 him dah u already av a boyfrnd dats v.caring nd wud nevr raise his hands @ u sumtin he *ur ex* wud nevr be plus u shudnt accept d money bk cuz u didit outta luv den nt 2 b paid bk he shud tk his money nd apologies nd shovit up his ass #shameless overgrown baby beating a Lady cuz she brokeup wid him hez simply nt mature enuf 2 handle a brkup dah he had 2 beat u nd I tell u since he did it once he might do it agn. Chao!
ReplyDeletethat is ojukokoro,
ReplyDeleteCorrect ojukokoro.
DeleteU have a boyfriend that you were Ok with. All of a sudden, ur ex comes talking about wanting to spend money on you and you are now confused.
If they call you gold digger now, you will cry foul.
Abeg, face your life. Or do you want to chop ur exs money as payback?
Omo olojukokoro. Face your boyfriend joh.
please move on. he is in your past and trust me you would not like what he will do this time. first he will think you have no choice and desperate for coming back to him and then will make sure you are treated like a begger. pls move on. life in the future is always better than the past.
ReplyDeleteOnce beaten twice shy.Walk the hell away
ReplyDeleteSince cheating,beaten,distance,inadequate- trust,since all this are involve...it a capital NO for me..
ReplyDeleteWhat language is this? This isn't English. Behave in the manner you want to be perceived. When you write a whole epistle like a 9-year old, you'll get treated as such.
ReplyDeleteWhy not help her re-write...you guys be claiming profeSsors/lectural's,when it's time foR you guys to write yours,that is where you will find a single bullent that can kill a giagiantic massive elephant..#olodos
DeleteDesmond, it has nothing to do with claiming one is a professor or lecturer, the abbreviations are just too much for one to comprehend!!
DeleteYou guys forget that not everybody is into this 'short-hand' writing.
Emeh' i love u, but lets make sense.
ReplyDeleteIf your life is precious to u don't go back to him. Many women that were physically abused are not alive to tell their stories. Bury whatever feelings you have for him and continue with your present relationship. Its obvious he doesn't love you but thought you are good for him to keep.
ReplyDeleteREMEMBER - LIFE HAS NO DUPLICATE !!!
Stil reading...will comment when am done...
ReplyDeleteDear poster
ReplyDeleteI won't say I was once in ur shoes cos my ex never raised his hands on me but he cheats and calls me a bitch...it was hard but I moved on
2years after I found my now bf who is EVERYTHING I want in a man but not too rich while my Ex is doing fine & wants me back claiming I stood with him when he had nothing,at I point he sends me cash but when I saw he was tryna ask me back I ran with my legs @ d back of my head & my bf also noticed & warned me not to see him again
Dearie for the fact ur present bf is caring trust me when he has he would take care of you...Money aint everything sometimes
Sorry for the epistle
Let your past be your past
ReplyDeleteThat victim is Pweetty can't u guys see?she's broke and wants to go back to her ex tatred agbero boi friend...useless pweety Yuck lol
ReplyDeleteThe guy isn't serious abeg
ReplyDeleteI advise u pray abt dis and also follow wat ur heart tells u,how are u sure ur past bf has changed,babe for me sha just move on,if he wants to repay u,he shld do dat without telling u to come back,I knw how it is bcos am talking frm experience,I knw wat am saying,I wish u luck
ReplyDeleteStick 2 ur current boyfrnd...wateva u feel 4 ur ex now is'nt deep. U only feel dat way cos u once luved him nd now he is richer nd seems better, in d long u'll realize dis bt pls dont leave ur boyfrnd.
ReplyDeleteGo back to ur ex if u still love him
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