According to her"Lol Miss P, your opening line is true.I hated my boyfriend at first site and now we have been dating for 15 years and we love eachother so much
Yes and she was chastised for staying in a relationship for that long...This morning, Gloria replied her "Haters"when she dropped another comment...
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"Why is everyone concerned about MY RELATIONSHIP?Is it bad to date someone for 15 years?Oprah dated her man for 20..years, a lot of Hollywood stars do,Peter and lola, Annie and 2face.Yes i said it. What matters is he loves me.FYI,We started dating when i was 20,so do the maths.We love eachother and he will propose at the right time"
So, Gloria sent me this information via email about Oprah and asked all those criticizing her relationship that Marriage isn't the ultimate and some people work better not married .
Oprah Winfrey never intends to marry fiance Stedman Graham, though they have been together since 1986(27years). According to her,his proposal was guarantee enough their relationship is serious.Winfrey said,
"A piece of paper does not define a life. I always knew that was not the answer for me. "I was like most women though. I wanted a man who, I wanted to know he did want it. So I'm telling you, after he proposed, I was over it. "I do believe that had we gotten married, we would not be together today. The traditional role of marriage would not work in this relationship."She may be right you know..look at Angelina and Brad...Peter Okoye and Lola..etc
One sentence for you Gloria"YOU ARE NOT OPRAH"
ReplyDeleteShe's so not Oprah, from her comment she stated that she's waiting for Gods time for him to propose that one day he ll propose, lmao she shld plz stop contradicting herself jare.. U cant be 35, dating a guy for 15yrs n still hoping he ll one day propose.. She needs couselling shikena!
DeleteWhat a dumb girl Yishhhhhhhhhhhh
ReplyDeleteShatap! olodo, u go soon reach menopause dey dia dey decieve urself.. U dey immetaite oyibo wen u dey naija. He will soon dump u and marry swit 16een Mumu..
ReplyDeleteGet a grip girl.You are 35 according to your calculations.That guy wont marry you after a 15 year steady relationship.Dont compare yourself to others,even annie didn't date 2face for all those 13 years
ReplyDeleteDear Gloria,i was once in your shoes and understand what is wrong.You date a man for 5 years no ring, you say ok he will propose by the 6th,he doesnt and u think he will by the 7th.Then you realize it is too late to levae because age is not on your side and u are scared of being single.So you keep waiting, afterall,he hasnt dumped you yet right?
ReplyDeleteNews Flash,he wants you to get tired and leave,so if u dont, he gets another girl and starts keeping a relationship with her and if u never get tired,he surprises you with an excuse how he doesnt want to waste ur time..By then, you are probably 40.
I feel for this trap,i just left a 10 year relationship and im about to get married this month(As a 3rd wife) You get the picture?
Leave that guy
As a 3rd wife??? N u here giving advice lol. Let me tell u, u and gloria r in d same shoes, in fact her shoes r finer dan urs, so u rather be a 3rd wife dan be on ur own, I bet d man u married 2 is one old alhaji, n u wud be going outside 2 sleep with all those small small boys, SMH 4 u, 4 ur mind now u r married so u beta dan gloria... Shior
Deletehehehehhehehehe pot calling kettle black
Deleteall i can say is na wah ooooo. women sef#smh#
Deletelmao M you for just keep quiet with ur old baba wey u wan marry.Gloria better pass u abeg
DeleteLMAO!!!!! you guys have killed me with laughter oooo but c'mon guys lets give her a break. I think I understand where 'M' is coming from. Shes talking based on the fact that shes now too old to marry a fresh guy and so she now has to settle for a 3rd wife position. Shes just encouraging Gloria not to be like her.......I think sha!!!
DeleteM you be olodo o. looool. You are in a worse position than Gloria.
DeleteAll of u shud shut up n leave d girl alone, face ur own problems n allow her deal with her's y'all r giving advice like u know anytin abt her life,everybody is entitled 2 there own decision, n I trust dis aint d first time she is getting such advice, u guys shud jst let her be, she won't come running 2 borrow ur pillow if d guy shud break her heart, so mind ur own buisness,
ReplyDeleteDid u mean everybody is entitled to THEIR own decision? THERE makes the sentence take on a whole new meaning.
DeleteAlways proof read before you hit the publish link.
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This Aunty is such a clown.Nigerians might be nasty when trying 2 get a point across but U shld be wise enough to sift d truth from the nastiness.
ReplyDeleteI hope U went 2 c d lambasting Lola your role model has been receiving on LiB for being a baby factory.In ur case,U might not even have kids and U are proud..35year old lady 'doing' boyfriend,I even thought U were joking at first when I read d Alicia post.
Wash your eyes with soap o..U are too old 2 be this unwise.
Nigerians lay more emphasis on marriage...and dat is y most people r not happy in it, but stay in it saying DEY R IN IT 4 DER children and killing der selves softly. all relationships shouldn't end in marriage regardless of how long u wia in it...wat we should always tink abt is CAN I B HAPPY WIF DIS PERSON 4 D REST OF OUR LIVES
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Please leave gloria alone she is consonling herself,oprah kia! oprah nee! mind you, people you just mention have kids wt their so called boyfriend. Oprah have loads of cash, you want do You have? to keep you attached to him forever. Please waka leave the guy!
ReplyDeletePlease leave gloria alone she is consonling herself,oprah kia! oprah nee! mind you, people you just mention have kids wt their so called boyfriend. Oprah have loads of cash, you want do You have? to keep you attached to him forever. Please waka leave the guy!
ReplyDeleteGLoria,
ReplyDeleteYou need to be wise in every decision you make. look carefully, that guy might just be married (just saying).
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ReplyDeleteAll u ladies wih ur dirty weaves n smelly under wear. all you know is abuse and insult. Keep hawking ur slackened pussy up n down. Stupid females.
ReplyDeleteYou stupid disjointed animal.U are insulting your mother and sisters and daughters
Delete13.54 learn to close ur legs n ur dirty mouth so that u won't get insulted. Also wash ur weave on it smells
DeleteFaceless poor frustrated Mudafucka. Show ur face and stop hiding behind anon.Fool
DeleteGloria send me your address, i need to package a hot slap and send to you
ReplyDeleteif u are a practical christian, then needless to say u know u will be living in sin if both of u r having carnal knowledge of each other. It doesn't have to end in marriage, but at 35? if both of u have the resources, why not just do it and fuck legally?
ReplyDeleteLet's not criticise Gloria, if that is what she want so be it..but 15 yrs in no joke ooo..every1 wud have preferred it ends up in marriage..
ReplyDelete15YEAR!!!YEKPA!!! DEM SWEAR FOR YOU ????
ReplyDeleteabeg spare the girl jare,na by force to marry?
ReplyDeletei can bet they are haters here who cant even boast of a one year relationship,and wish they were in Gloria's shoes...at least she can boast of a man,what can ya'll hating boast of.
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ReplyDeleteclap for urself Gloria
ReplyDeleteMy aunt has been in a relationship of over 20years...currently, she is a little above 50yrs yet no sign of proposal! My parents have adviced her to adopt, or even look for someone to marry since she's comfortable! Yet, she's bent on the same man! The scenario dey scatter my head cos am sure menopause has or will set-in in a jiffy!info for u Gloria...any pregnancy above 35yrs is high risk (ask ur doctor)-annie, lola and all dose pple u mentioned have kids, u don't!, u are simply wasting ur time and life on a man who doesn't intend to marry u! My father adviced all his daughters..."If a man doesn't marry u within 1yr of courtship, there are high chances he may not!" We listened, and it worked for 4 of us! Pls be wise dear time ticks! Bless u.
ReplyDeleteGloria a stitch in time saves nine,dats all.
ReplyDelete15yrs is possible and people should stop talking shit,its her life not yours
ReplyDeleteMarriage, marriage, marriage...sigh, do you guys realise that not everyone actually wants to get married or have kids! If she has bn happy the past 15yrs this way good for her! If it's working for them, then good. How many married people are enjoying their marriage? Divorce, separation left, right and center...if she decides to get married @ 40, 45, 50, 55, d@'s her biz and decision. She's happy, wish her all the best, end of the matter!
ReplyDeleteGloria i hope for your sake ,you have a kid like Omawunmi, Waje, Lol and even Annie
ReplyDeleteSerious mata
ReplyDeleteI totally agree with some comments so far. Tomorrow someone will pull the Bible card. Every thing Bible Bible Bible. God God God And they do this whenever it is Convenient for them. But when they are jumping from one bed to another or doing shit this same Bible and God condemns they won't remember the Bible's stand on fornication or that our body is the temple of the Holy Spirit of God or flee from sin..........
ReplyDeletePlease, can someone tell me where in the Bible(not sure of what the Muslims believe)that marriage is portrayed as we have it today?
The Bible said .....for this reason a man will leave his father's home and pick himself a wife and the two shall become one.........
Husbands Love your wife. It makes references to husband and wife but how they become this is unknown but is equally clear about our obligation to honor and obey the laws of our earthly governments, which are also divinely established authorities ..........
And some other stuff i can't remember. lol
What's with all the bruhaha with being married or not?
If a man not leaving with his parents takes a woman and both of them are living happily in trust and understanding, raising their kid(s)with every ounce of Love they will ever have to give where have they gone wrong?
Abeg not as if we are coping but i think it is time we begin to embrace civil unions/partnership. Not everyone is cut out for marriage same way not everyone is cut out to be a good parent.
What if what God intended was for two people(of different sex of course) come together and make a positive impact not only on each other but also people around them.
I never read anywhere in the Bible that Mary the mother of our Lord Jesus Christ was "married" to Joseph in the sense of what society demands as correct. She was (in modern English) betrothed, Engaged,etc. And became pregnant. It took a visit from an Angel for Joseph to believe the baby Mary carried was Truly of God and indeed she was still a Virgin... and some other stuff. You can all read that chapter again. There is no record in the Bible that Joseph and Mary were joined together like people make marriage to seem like.If they were, we only presume it was in the same way it is being done by the people of that region Christ hailed from.(Either by Tradition or by Law.
There is no record of Abraham marrying Sarah like society dictates.
There is no record of so many men and women who God used to do exploits here on Earth getting married (like society dictates.
As long as both parents and families recognize the man and lady in such long lasting relationship what the fuck is wrong with that?
Marriage marriage marriage and divorce cases are rising everyday even here in 9ja. Mr & Mrs .... is not by force it is a choice made by two consenting adults who wish so.
Please i did not speak against religion. I only see, read and understand things differently.
PS: There is also no age limit to when someone can get married anywhere in the Bible or country.
DeleteGbam! I totally agree with you...
DeleteWe have also read that Jesus had other brothers as references are made in the Bible. So we can either conclude that Mary had other children with Joseph even though there is still no record of a marriage after Jesus was born or Joseph had other women who had children for him.
DeleteSince the Bible does not make any reference to the later,we can then conclude that Joseph having another woman is not plausible.
We are therefore left with only one assumption.. that since Mary is the mother of Jesus and some other guys it is ok to say she and Joseph continued to live a fulfilled life and raised children even though there is no record of a marriage/wedding from Mathew - Revelation as society demands.
We know for sure that one of their kids turned out to be the greatest man who ever walked the face of this earth. So great is he that over 2000 years later since he died..... the whole world is still talking about him.
He will for all eternity be continually Glorified!
So condemners, Train up your child in Love and peace the way he/she will grow. So when he/she grows up those ways will never depart.
To Love and Be kind to each other is what the Bible demands we do. Marriage or no Marriage.
I hate premise and Logic!But it's fun.
Very nice write up anony 01.06. To a lot of nigerians ,marriage is a social status. When you are married you earn respect from young and old. Strangers and family members respect you also. But when you are unmarried you earn insults and disrespect from every one. Its just like the case of a barren woman in nigerian society she is scorned at and a lot of disrespect comes her way. You can just imagine the disrespect and scorn a childless and unmarried woman in nigerian society would receive. So many end up being suicidal as a result of depression. Nigerian society puts a lot of pressure on the female to get married and start giving birth. This pushes a lot of females into loveless and abusive marriages which unfortunately claims their lives. But thats the way of the nigerian society and attitudes are hard to change. I know of a lady doing well in her profession but unmarried and childless. Out of shame and stigma she adopted. She adopted not for the love of the child but to try and avoid the stigma of the nigerian society. I agree with you that marriage is not for every one and parenting is not for every one.
ReplyDeleteI belive that because of the pressure and stigma of being unmarried and childless we should expect more baby mamas in future. Nigerian society seriously need divine intervention. A lot of women are suffering in their marriages. A lot of verbal and physical abuse is going on in marriages. A lot of divorces are going on in nigeria. A lot of cheating and sex outside the marriage by the wife and the husband is going on in nigeria. But society still places value on the institution of marriage and insits on marriage. The one thats gets me confused is when pastors and church members prevent a woman who is being battered and damaged to remain in her marriage because the bible does not tolerate divorce. So the woman listens and in the end she becomes a statistic and if she is lucky she ends up in the hospital. Thats nigerian society for you. What really can one do. Like i said earlier nigeria seriously needs divine intervention.
Words said well.
ReplyDeleteThe pastors and church members who prevent women in abusive marriages from divorcing the abuser are all wrong and they read the Bible like a novel but claim they read it with deep meaning and understanding.
If we relate the teachings of the Bible to modern day events it is easy to say.....
Adultery was/is the only basis for divorce simply because Men of those days were more civil respectful and responsible to their spouse. For adultery to have happened in a relationship was absurd.
1 Corinthians 7:1-6
Now concerning the matters about which you wrote: “It is good for a man not to have sexual relations with a woman.” But because of the temptation to sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife and each woman her own husband. The husband should give to his wife her conjugal rights, and likewise the wife to her husband. For the wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does. Likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does. Do not deprive one another, except perhaps by agreement for a limited time, that you may devote yourselves to prayer; but then come together again, so that Satan may not tempt you because of your lack of self-control. ...
There isn't any record of wife bashing in the Bible because it was weird and unheard of. That's why the writer of the verses above only wrote about adultery because from the teaching of Jesus, He said Adultery isn't doing the actual act alone but merely thinking about it is enough to be guilty of doing it. So with wife bashing. Because you have conceived an illicit act, which is to make the person feel less and less worthy of herself, simply because you picture her in your mind to be another woman.. or maybe act like other women.... That's Adultery.
Physically abusing her is also Adultery because the abuser has conceived too many illicit thoughts about other women to facially reconstruct her face by fire by force is the actual damage we see to speak about.
It isn't the fact the he beats her or belittles her that isn't a ground for divorce it's because in more than half the cases of women in abusive relationships there is always the tendency that there is another woman. So his mind is constantly committing adultery as Jesus has taught. So on this premise, A woman in an abusive relationship can divorce her husband because he commits adultery in his mind and physically/emotional exhibits his guilty conscience.
Remember the saying, whatever the mind can conceive... That it can achieve.
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