Now, was he keeping his marriage secret because he had skeletons in his closet,or was it a mutual desicion betwen both of them? That is still a mystery..However,SDK says Anita is now in the UK,where she is expected to give birth..
Before the news broke,Toke posted some interesting memes on Instagram yesterday ..She later deleted one which talks about a cheating man..I however saved the meme because i liked the wordings..
She has become a subject of jokes and ridicule because some of her most popular vlogs are on how to cheat-proof your relationship,how not to be a side chick and how to keep a Nigerian man..If this story is true, then it's really so sad...See below
Am not surprised
ReplyDeleteI am o!! My mouth is just wide open
DeleteShe's hurt. She's saying that to make herself feel better. Pele dear.
ReplyDeleteIamAdelarry.
I am so shocked,men wt else did u wnt?it's well toke,d Lord will do d best 4 u.
ReplyDeleteNah Nah!! If its true,then what he did was wrong..No matter ur love for a man who don't love u truly or respect u,if he wants to cheat on u nothing can stop him from doing that...May GOD help her I pray for total peace and divine restoration to her marriage...@TOKE pretty my advice for u,is not every thing u put on ur social media,cos some people are out there praying for ur down fall,It is well with ur home
DeleteAll that glitters ain't gold.. Not easy being a celeb.. If this is true, I really feel for her.!!!
ReplyDeleteSorry oo, but I thot u had everything covered, especially with yo vlogs on keeping a man and being a side chick. ...Mnximmm!
ReplyDeleteI said it when she will sit down place from one party to the other one country to the another country she don't have time to take care of her hubby so what do u think u man will do,he will surely look for someone to take care of him and listen to him and his dear anita is right there to listen to him..I don't blame the man I blame toke is all her fault
ReplyDeleteMy friend shut that stupid gutter you call a mouth. Is it loyal house wifes that get cheated on everyday...even beaten to a pulp. Toke was a rising celebrity when they got married so he knew all of this way before hand. Did he tell you she wasn't taking care of him. Be talking like a stupid fowl.
DeleteSurprised but still want to believe it isn't true.
ReplyDeleteWomen shld learn how to take care of their hubby no matter what u do..men are like babies they need all our love and care
ReplyDeleteThank you Rose, since men r like babies women r iron wtout feelings abi?
DeleteGive all your love and care to who?
DeleteMumu man that will still cheat on you?
Start giving those love to Ur self!
Nonsense comment!
DeleteSee this one, ur not making sense at all.
DeletePARENTAL ADVISORY!!!
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What do u expect from d guy? His getting old and need his child to grow with him as soon as possible, and our party planner was too busy to do DAT for him...she was feeling too in charge, dats what happens when u claim to be too smart, u get out smarted...
Stop being a fool...I rebuke the spirit of stupidity from you and your generation. Do you know if Toke has pregnancy issues? Haven't you heard of couples that were together for 20 years without children! Look at how idiotic you look sef! You only see what they let you see. YOU DONT FUCKING KNOW TGESE PEOPLE...so stop analyzing like a bush rat!
DeleteIts such a pity Toke.... You should've known that being a married woman isn't just a title.. It is a responsibility! If you ask me, you were too busy with your work and social life. At times I wonder who keeps your husband company all those while you were away... You even bragged about your husband being the most understanding man on earth who doesn't complain when u stay away from home for too long! You should've known that just like kids menn need attention... And when they can't get it from their women, they look elsewhere.... Not trying to make excuses for yyour man but the truth is.... You don't practice what you preach!!! You teach girls how to keep their men when u can't even keep yours!!! May you get over this quickly!
ReplyDeleteThis is why men will always use and dump you till you grow old! Because whenever they behave like dogs you blame yourself! So when women have working husbands they should go out and sleep around abi? So a young imbecile you are! Instead of you to be wise and understand that you know nothing about their marriage except what you see on her IG page. Dey there dey conclude bullshit!!!
DeleteSorry dear, that's if its true. And marriage has not changed you because if it did change you, then.....
ReplyDeleteEmeh the writer!
ReplyDeleteShe can write for the entire universe!
As for Toke divorce that son of a DOG!
He is not worth crying over coz that dog never loved you loved you!
He married you coz of the bashing he received on line !
Party Makinwa,It has do u like film rite!!!!Shakiti Bobo..Oya Shakiti Bobo.Mrs Know it all yet U couldn't keep ur meandering hubby who lives in the four walls of your home.Pretty clear Ur only good at dishing advices but can't keep any.Kpele,U married a horse.anyways damage has being done,so it's up to u to decide what next coz Mrs know it all,I believe knows it all hence U don't need my Advice
ReplyDeleteReason y I make guys sign an undertaking before dating and I get to keep half of their property when they cheat.party Makinwa the Technical Advicer,waiting for your next vlog
No shaking
Shutup jooooor!!!! You sound like used and washed up side bitch!!! U sound like you were pained whenever Toke released those her vlogs about being a side chick. Die in you stupidity for all I care because until you realize how unpredictable human beings are, you're foolishness will always drown you!!!
DeleteIs it rili toke's fault?y r we deviating 4rm d crux of d mata here,he cheated,he has been cheating, n u all r blaming her?even if she was der d whole tym he wud stil cheat,y is it dat in our society a man dat cheats isn't faulted instead his wife is blamed n questioned?wat kind of society accepts dis bullshit dis nigga did?if we r civilized n chantin d course of women liberation den dis man shud be blamed n nt d hurtin wife,u all shud cut her some slack,most of ur men r worse off despite ur 24hrs cookn,cleanin,washin n f.ing,toke is on blast nw cos herz came out,y'all check ur lives n face reality,no woman deserves 2be cheated on or hurt,if u married her cos u love her,den u ought 2be faithful 2her as she is 2u,my sympathy goes 2toke @ dis tym,i hope she finds d strength 2handle n manage dis situation well.
ReplyDelete100000000 likes! You've spoken well.
DeleteIt is an irony. Toke, the relationship guru, the lady that teaches others how to stop their husbands and boyfriends from cheating can't even tame her own husband .
ReplyDeleteDnt mind her...just NEGODU
DeleteFor those of you blaming her, I pray n wish non of u go through dis experience. He did dis to her deliberately, he's being wt dis same girl for over 8yrs while Toke was still wt him come on. He wasted 12yrs of her productive years in d name of dating, he's juz a cheat n no excuse for wat he did.
ReplyDeleteMy darling Lady G.....u just said it all,that's y I respect u a lot on this blog nice one
DeleteThere's more to this tale about toke,i just have 1 question why was her wedding a secret one??truth is her hubby was wrong to cheat but then she won't say she didn't know there was another all this while.one advice for married women KEEP your marriage private.....period......
DeleteIf u like keep ur marriage private n get private investigators, to keep watch on ur man 24/7. If d fool wants to cheat, he's still gonna regardless. Juz hate whn women take d fault n try to make excuse for der nonsense.
DeleteHow come till now u still don't know who fathered nadia buhari's twins???? Sweetie when ur life is private there really isn't anything to be nosy about.
DeleteShe never expected it and she doesn’t just take her own advice..
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A man dat will cheat will always cheat,even if i u wrap him around ur arms always,and follow him every where...Pele toke
ReplyDeleteThe truth is that this guy love the calabar girl more than Toke. If not he will not be pounding her toto repeatedly without condom. He should have married the girl instead of Toke. Now, he has damaged Toke emotionally and career wise. I don't think Toke will be telling any woman jwhat to do in order to maintain her man anytime soon.
ReplyDeleteHe love the calabar girl more than Toke yet he cudnt marry the calabar girl? ....Mnximmm
DeleteSo pounding of t*** as u cal it is nw a sign of love abi?i sense u r a side chic,dey der dey deceive ursef say dat nigga wen dey shine ur Congo free repeatedly love u n him get wife or serz babe somwhr,I perceive ur hrtbrk wud be worse dan toke's experience.mstcheeeew
DeleteThe fear of cross rivers girls is the beginning of wisdom , They know how to take care of men very well. Jesus is aware of this fact !!!! She is to be blame for being too busy for her husband.So women should be wise when they are married -Pst.Chekeleke
DeleteWomen should learn the habit of being secretive it will help them alot,It not when you are trouble you keeping telling your best friend about your relationship with your spouses.Keep it secret and find a way to solve it -Pst.Chekeleke
ReplyDelete1000likes to this,if she wasn't all over the place about her marriage am sure the disgrace would have been less.noone freaking cares about you or your hubby they just need something to be nosy about.
DeleteNo matter how sad Toke's situation may sound, most of us that are married are victims as well, in her own case she may have had an idea of who the enemy was, but most of us don't. I pray she pull through this. Men are really not worth the trouble.
ReplyDeleteThis side chick and mainchick concept is very complicated. More complicated than we think.
ReplyDeleteSome African men date two girls, their parents know both, it's the one with the power to buy her way more into their hearts with money or prestige or being from same tribe they call main chick. You'd see her spending hols with them, cooking for them.
Another scenario is:
Imagine u're dating the same man with Tonto Dike or Rihanna. Even if he met u 1st or is more committed to you, or the star is the one doing the chasing, stalking and putting up insta pics. People will still call you the side chick cos it's the star they know more. Who says a star can't be a side chick?
Another scenario is:
A man is dating a girl in Lagos. After 3yrs Breaks up with her due to issues. Finds another girl on a trip to PH and dates her for 6months. runs into his former boo who lives in Lagos and has been begging him since. She entices him with sex and he is still dating his PH girl and won't break up with her but due to proximity, he keeps seeing his ex now back girl. Pls who is the side chick here? The PH girl who dated an unattached man or did the Lagos girl just take a break?
It's complicated.
Too complicated to say you know whatsup. Wrong to sleep with a married man. Very wrong. But don't pitch your tent quickly with Toke because she is the one you know. She's the one with 5000 followers. Safer to blame the man entirely.
Maje proved himself indecisive.
His body language and fleeting eyes couldn't have been 4 nothing. He looked unsure. The two women must have had their uses. Too indispensable. He would have wished he could morph them into 1 person. He must have loved both of them. This is why after 8 years he still couldn't make up his mind and still can't. Some men are not made for one woman, you know? The man may not even be a philanderer like that.
Toke herself used emotional blackmail and media power to force him into an obvious choice cos she loves him and can't do without him. Wasn't there a time he stood her up in the marriage registry? Yet she forged ahead and married him. Dude himself is a non-intrusive husband and didn't want to be dragged into social media or her parties and friends. He let her breath. Partly because another part of him didn't wanna hurt his other chick.
Whatever the case may be, he must have travelled to Calabar to impregnate that girl. He was the one into her. Reassuring her. Seducing her with lies. I somehow don't see this girl as an evil seductress or bitch. If so, she would have been on Toke's posts bashing her or on social media spreading the news of their relationship. No one even knew(this is what I think oh)
Finally, they say that a relationship is over when the woman says it's over. Neither Toke nor her wanted to give up and Maje is the one to take full responsibility for this. But no one should gloat, it really hurts to hear your husband got another woman pregnant. One of the biggest blows in marriage. If you think it's easy. Step in her shoes. Whatever mistake she may have made in her marriage, we are all human(how could she have seen this coming?). I feel for her. She's strong, I wish her all the best. (im buhari mode on this, lol) I'm for everybody and nobody
U couldn't have said it any better. Where is the like button ?
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DeleteMen ooo,cant live with them,cant live without them,kpele toke!
ReplyDeletePeople learn to keep your private life private for goodness sakes...The degree of hurt is much lesser when the public eye isn't upon you, but noooo, u must intagramteitterfacebookbbm your journey, you fail to realise that no one will compete or drag with you if you dont make yourself seen. People no dey hear word.
ReplyDeleteWhen toks won't sleep at home almost every weekend. Be giving the nigga S/o on red carpets instead of head at home.
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