Woman defends her husband after store employee mocked him for buying $130 wedding ring | This Is Miss Petite Nigeria Blog

Thursday 8 December 2016

Woman defends her husband after store employee mocked him for buying $130 wedding ring

 A woman's post has gone viral after she described how her fiance was humiliated when they went into a store to buy her $130  engagement and wedding rings after he had 'saved and saved' to be able to afford it.
In a powerful Facebook post that has gone viral, the 22-year-old Ariel McRae from Tennessee, explained they went ring shopping at Jewellery store Pandora with her then-fiancé, Quinn McRae when the store employee made a rude remark saying
 "Y'all can you believe that some men get these as engagement rings? How pathetic."
Ariel described how she "watched her husband's face fall" after the words left her mouth.
Read what she wrote below

My husband doesn't have a lot, neither of us do. We scrape and scrape to pay bills and put food in our bellies, but after almost 2 years of dating we decided that we couldn't wait anymore, so we didn't.
I wasn't even thinking about rings, I just wanted to marry my best friend, but he wouldn't have it. He scraped up just enough money to buy me two matching rings from Pandora. Sterling silver and CZ to be exact. That's what sits on my ring finger, and I am so in love with them.
While we were purchasing my rings however, another lady that was working there came over to help the lady selling them to us. She said, "Y'all can you believe that some men get these as engagement rings? How pathetic." When she said that I watched my now husband's face fall. He already felt bad because he couldn't afford the pear-shaped set that so obviously had my heart and covered my Pinterest page. He already felt like a failure, asking me again and again "Are you sure you'll be happy with these? Are you sure this is okay?" He was so upset at the idea of not making
me happy enough and of me not wanting to marry him because my rings didn't cost enough money or weren't flashy enough.
Old Ariel would have ripped that woman a new one. Mature Ariel said, "It isn't the ring that matters, it is the love that goes into buying one that matters." We bought the rings and left.
Y'all I would have gotten married to this man if it had been a 25¢ gum ball machine ring. When did our nation fall so far to think the only way a man can truly love a woman is if he buys her $3,000+ jewelry and makes a public decree of his affection with said flashy ring? Sure they are nice, sure the sentiment is wonderful and I'm not trying to cut down any of your experiences, but when did it
come to all that? Why do material possessions equate love??
My husband was so afraid of me not wanting him because he couldn't afford a piece of jewelry. He was afraid that the love I have for him would pale because he couldn't afford the wedding set I wanted. The world has made it this way and it is so sad.
But here I am though, Court-House married, $130 ring set, the love of my life by my side and happier than I could ever imagine.

Update: This post keeps growing much to my surprise, and I've been asked a thousand times how we met. So here is the short version! My husband and I met online at the age of 20, talked on the phone (and I mean actually talked not text) for 6+ hours a day for two days. He then drove an hour out of his way to take me on a date. I wore a tacky Christmas sweater (if you think I am lying, ask him) We ate wings, had a burping contest, and drove around listening to music and singing. I fell in love with him on the first date. If he had asked me to marry him the first time we met, I probably would have said yes. To be honest, we had wanted to elope three months into dating, but decided to take some extra time to get established beforehand. Ultimately we couldn't wait any longer.. so we eloped. I've never been this happy in my life and I couldn't imagine spending it with anyone else ever.




12 comments:

  1. Wonderful her hubby is lucky to have her as his wife

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  2. Beautiful woman. God bless your home

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  3. She is a wife material.

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  4. biko lemme ask o, someone should please convert $130 to naira and tell me how much it is. I think that is good sum of money to get someone a ring o, with this recession we are facing,an average nigerian woman will leap for joy. I wonder when it all came down to this, the size of the rock doesn't matter, what really matters is what they feel for each other. shebi make d guy go steal cuz iim no fit afford expensive ring, mtcheew! wharahel! The amount of a ring doesn't guarantee happiness in marriage, some of those people wey dem use thousand dollar and million dollar rings propose to, how far for dia marriage now. My lovely and beautiful woman, do not let all these bad belle bittered people whose marriages have failed spoil the beautiful thing you have with your husband, ( no let them use their reggae spoil ur blues).

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  6. So because shes cheap that makes her a wife matériel??

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