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Saturday, 23 January 2016

MPN Interactive Session- The fear of...

Sorry for the break in transmission ..The MPN interactive session is back and it's an open floor for us to interact,share ideas and just gist..
Today we are discussing our fears and how to overcome them ..What's your biggest fear in life? Some fear death,some fear failure, others fear rats,diseases etc..

My dad once told me a story,his childhood friend had a phobia and fear of road accidents after watching his father die in one.He was so scared that ,that fear enveloped his mind,his thoughts and he couldn't do a thing.
He would refuse to travel because of he was scared of road accidents,plane crashes etc.If he heard a car screech,he would scream. So one day ,they were going on an important project excursion and they all took the bus.As fate would have it, the bus developed a fault and lost control ..The driver was struggling to steer the bus to safety and before you could say Jack Robinson, his friend opened the window and jumped out ,instantly smashing his head and died on the spot..
All those in the bus survived..The fear of not dying ended up killing him..

My biggest fear is the fear of not doing things because I feel the time isn't right..In essence,procrastination .Oh! I will do it tomorrow, oh I will do it when the sun goes down..Etc I have such a phobia for failure that I want everything to first be perfect....However,I have come to realize that is the high road to failure.

There are projects I know I wanted to do but because I kept postponing, I have watched others take on those same ideas and made something out of them.
There is no perfect time to start something,just DO IT ..So, whenever that spirit of procrastinating comes, I force myself up and I just do IT..perfect or not.So far,it's been a rewarding experience ..

And oh! I fear cockroaches and snakes .My God...I don't even want to set eyes on them ..lol

What's yours ?
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51 comments:

  1. Anonymous23 January 2016 at 11:05

    That story is crazy.My greatest fear is fear of not succeeding in life because I work so hard and yet,nothing is working.God help me.

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    1. BeeVee23 January 2016 at 11:08

      Working so hard n yet nothing is working?....maybe u're workin offline

      *um out

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    2. Olayemi23 January 2016 at 14:08

      Dear anonymous,it's well wt u,d Lord will restore all ur lost glory,dis year will favour u in every aspect.

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    3. Girl Next Door - Virus Detected!23 January 2016 at 17:23

      My biggest fear is the fear of death! After working hard n being successful n having other visions death comes to snatch souls without acknowledgement of nothing fa

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  2. BeeVee23 January 2016 at 11:06

    Noth....in..g, ok, jst 1 I dnt wana b poor*fear poverty.

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    1. Unknown23 January 2016 at 12:17

      Hmmm...just looking at u,I know u fear roaches and belguim rats!..Fear of poverty is like Number 10 on ur phobia list..Talk true

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    2. BeeVee23 January 2016 at 12:28

      Rats ke?...respect yaself

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    3. Anonymous23 January 2016 at 13:04

      Oke Belgium ��������

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    4. Olayemi23 January 2016 at 14:12

      Poverty will nt be our portion ijn,we will b amg those pple dt God will favour in evry aspect of our lives

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  3. Unknown23 January 2016 at 11:29

    My fear is failure. I am afraid to fail, and that failure sometimes prevents me from taking chances or trying new things. It's rather disappointing and can set itself up in a vicious cycle of ups and downs....#God Help me oh

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    1. Olayemi23 January 2016 at 14:13

      God will surely help u,He is wt u in all ur endeavours,so no shaking

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  4. Steveosky 4 Real.23 January 2016 at 11:31

    Anon 11:05. God will help you overcome it.. I think my only fear is death, sometimes when I remember I will die someday it sends shivers down my spine,, but in all God knows the appointed time.. Rat and Cokroaches I can cry once I see them. Oh I so hate them..!!

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  5. Anonymous23 January 2016 at 11:31

    My greatest fear is that I wish to make it in life,drive a good car,live a good life,allow my children taste the good side of life but above all my GREATEST FEAR is growing old cos we near our grave everyday. I also fear cockroaches a LOT!

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  6. faithsexy23 January 2016 at 11:33

    My fear is dissapointment,i fear it so much that I can almost do sometin awful and also failure to succeed

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    1. BeeVee23 January 2016 at 11:36

      In otha words u can even KILL!!! I PITY YO HORSEBAND OR ANYBODY THAT IS CLOSE 2 U!

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  7. Olusoji23 January 2016 at 11:35

    Fear of failure has led me to procrastinate. I always want to get it right, put all the mechanism in place before kick off alas I end up not doing anything.

    I can't stand failure but I have realised that failure is not necessarily bad until we fail to pick up our pieces and forge ahead.

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  8. SVC23 January 2016 at 11:39

    My biggest fear is poverty.. IT IS WELL

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  9. Unknown23 January 2016 at 11:40

    I have phobophobia( Fear of fear), fear of heights, tap running at nights, darkness, plane sounds( when im not in it tho') I have lots of phobia sha!!!! But overcame some tho'

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  10. Unknown23 January 2016 at 11:46


    my greatest fear would be the loss of my family. to some tragedy, I can deal with bugs....I'm biggger than they are and they are easily stepped on, or fear of the dark (ya can always turn on a light)....but the loss of my family would more than likely kill me....or at least take away my will to live......hmmmm

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  11. Unknown23 January 2016 at 12:14

    Hmmm...my greatest fear is someone breaking trust I have in him or her especially when I recommend that person to someone as being trustworthy...

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  12. Gift Amadi23 January 2016 at 12:21

    Not making heaven and not being successful

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  13. Unknown23 January 2016 at 12:21

    Fear of loving and not being loved in return! Dat shit can kill sef!

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  14. Unknown23 January 2016 at 13:00

    My biggest fear in life is poverty. That's all

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  15. Unknown23 January 2016 at 13:01

    Not being successful... And not finding true love.....I may end up one day with a man I don't love or doesn't love me.

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    1. BeeVee23 January 2016 at 13:58

      Then u'll send in chronicles

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    2. Olayemi23 January 2016 at 14:18

      Belinda I can't laugh dis afternoon joor,@Vivienne...u will surely meet d right one fr u,dt u will both love eachothr lik kilode,it's well

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    3. Brown sugar23 January 2016 at 15:23

      Get rid of such negative mindset dear ... Success is Ur birthright!

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  16. Unknown23 January 2016 at 13:58

    Losing someone dear to me.

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  17. Olayemi23 January 2016 at 14:05

    Emeh!i can relate wt ur story,i also fear travelling like kilode,my greatest fear is death,cos sometimes I will jst look at everything in dis life nd smh,cos at d end of d day everythin is vanity upon vanity.

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  18. Anonymous23 January 2016 at 14:27

    Whoooooop!Whooooooop!mine is the fear of somgal Makin me a side chicken to ma bae

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  19. Emeh Achanga's BODY GUARD23 January 2016 at 14:32

    Very lovely interactive forum me likey ..... My greatest fear used to be being a failure, I try so hard to be the best in what ever I do, am a final year student anyways, I have started many ventures but failed, these initial failures don't deterr me because they are experiences and mistakes that I learnt from, I have learnt to take Calculated risk ,because successful people are risk takers .no great man has been made through sitting still and wishing. Some people will be like they're waiting on the lord to do a miracle when God has given everyone all he needs to be successful.

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  20. Bella23 January 2016 at 15:08

    Rape,I detest rape stories cos it makes feel like it could be me but am working on it

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  21. Ugo Boss™✅23 January 2016 at 15:10

    What are my fears again ...a lot tho i don't wanna smell poverty cos I wanna be #Rich&$£€¥

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  22. spicycynthia23 January 2016 at 15:11

    Fear of failure and fear of loosing my luv ones..... the thought of it alone makes me to cry.and the fear of the result of an examination.

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  23. Unknown23 January 2016 at 15:14

    Fear of failure,fear of disappointing people I love with all my heart. The feelings of not meeting up to what is expected of me pains me a lot....

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  24. Unknown23 January 2016 at 15:39

    I fear poverty, death and rats.....I can still manage cockroaches but not rats I go just die

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  25. Ms.Nicey23 January 2016 at 16:23

    Hmmm.. I came late..
    My greatest fear is getting married to the wrong person. Bcos of this fear, I find it difficult opening up. I guard myself with all diligence..LOL.. friends say it's not good but Mehn.. it's not easy.

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  26. Anyi Achanga23 January 2016 at 16:48

    Wow!! I used to be "married" to fear at a point in my life that it became my nick name "madam fear fear" i'd fear everything even the fear of attending lectures coz I feared something bad was going to happen..it was more like a trap and I gradually began to realise that fear does not stop bad things from happening it just stops you from moving forward..I still have a lot of fear tho.. like the fear of failure,disappointments,loosing loved ones, death, travelling, not being right in the eyes of God,..etc but gradually learning to overcome Mr fear coz as they say,FEAR is just false evidence appearing real.... but my phobia for snakes is very REAL

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  27. Unknown24 January 2016 at 12:44

    Hmmmm the Fear of Death and of course the Fear of not achieving that which I've set out to achieve this Year..
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    .NOTE: Raise Your Words, Not Your Voice. It Is Rain That Grows Flowers, Not Thunder.

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  28. Unknown24 January 2016 at 20:10

    What I fear most is something I even love to feel.fear of falling in love.I fear being hurt.Kia who dosnt love u

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  29. Unknown25 January 2016 at 13:31

    What I fear most is something I even love to feel.fear of falling in love.I fear being hurt.Kia who dosnt love u

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