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Saturday, 18 April 2015

Ladies...When Will You Stop????(Must Read)

I met a young woman 2 days ago at a friends place,I noticed anytime her phone rang she went outside and practically spent about 30 minutes raising her voice while answering the call.After sometime she came in wiping her eyes...her phone rang again!!! The last time around she couldn't control herself neither did she go out but wailed uncontrollably....I learnt she was having problems in her home,her husband says he his fed up with the marriage and loves another woman...she complained saying she's tired of always catching her hubby with the same woman in their home,that he should atleast respect her and probably take it outside or cut it off..
I was speechless and felt pity for her but on a second thought I heard that before marriage she was one of the biggest girls that lived well...had so many lovers most of which were married!!! I let out a sigh and immediately I ran out of pity for her!!!
What do you expect when during your youth you practically slept and dated so many married men because of money and comfort? ...I imagined the tears of the wives of those married men,they cried so hard like you are doing now..you don't expect to do bad and receive good.. Mbanu!! I heard Karma pays ×2...So what are we saying again???You are receiving the payments for your past deeds...
I met a Lecturer in 2010,this man approached me asking me to be his girlfriend.. I was young and naive but I never let me age control my reasoning.I answered him..Sir do you mean I should be your mistress..you mean spare tire???He smiled and said not really just that he would love to have one woman inside and one outside... Chai!!! I felt insulted..I replied mildly telling him I don't want to cause heartache for your wife and when I get married I wouldn't want anyone to hurt me in my home... I left!!!
Please when will you stop???I am not a saint but I choose to share this because I was hurt by this woman tears at the same time I felt no pity for her...There are so many single men out there..Dem no dey finish!!!! Let us try to curb our lust for material things and make the right decisions in life..

Karma is real my sisters!!!!

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49 comments:

  1. Unknown18 April 2015 at 10:21

    Karma is real mhennn! U get what u give!

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    1. Unknown18 April 2015 at 10:37

      Onpe... Watin concern me inside wetin no concern me. Karma is serving her Hot n Spicy!!

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    2. Unknown18 April 2015 at 10:46

      Its well Yea GOD can still change her situation..the question is,is she doing her home work as a wife??? She can go to GOD in prayers GOD can change her situation,restore her marital home back and her husband will come back normal in love with her again...@but truly what ever a man sew so shall he\she reap

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    3. Unknown18 April 2015 at 12:36

      Hmmmm!!!!!!!! Help us oh Lord

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  2. Unknown18 April 2015 at 10:23

    On point

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  3. Anonymous18 April 2015 at 10:26

    I met my husband a virgin at 23! I never dated a married man ever!!!
    He was my first n still that marriage only lasted 2yrs before we went our seperate ways.. he sleeps with anything! Married women, single girls, old women.. u name it!

    It's nt a karma thing! I'm single, happy and living my dreams!
    A cheating man is beyond KARMA!!!
    A guy will always be a guy! That I knw!

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    1. Jeni_zee 18 April 2015 at 10:30

      Thank u, I see lots of good ppl go tru pain nd evil ppl who karma are supposed to catch up with are living the good life, karma dsnt meet up with everyone

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    2. ij18 April 2015 at 10:31

      Thank God you got your life back. Men! Na akachukwu ka anyi no

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    3. Unknown18 April 2015 at 10:33

      It is well @Anonymous...........hmmmmmmmmmm only GOD can help one,all one need to ask from GOD, is a God fearing man shikenna,when a man fears GOD he won't even dear to cheat on his wife no matter any circumstance

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    4. Unknown18 April 2015 at 10:37

      There are still some decent guys out there...though very rare. I dunno what happened in ur home sweetie, we still av few good men...

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    5. Unknown18 April 2015 at 10:39

      Awww Anon I'm gonna cry!! Bad things happen to good people.

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    6. Unknown18 April 2015 at 11:19

      Anon I couldnt agree with u more.Some women might just not be lucky and marry a wolf in sheeps clothing.Ive seen decent girls marry the world Ist class degree Womanizers and also some bad girls marry men that worship them.It can go both ways.Some ladies see this signs early and ignore them either coz of desperation to marry,greed coz his rich or with believe that he will change.While some girls sleep with married men,I believe that when it comes to marriage and cheating,it leaves a lot to be desired

      No shaking

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    7. BeeVee18 April 2015 at 11:20

      So sorry Anon, gud u're out of tht shit 4 gud.

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    8. Unknown18 April 2015 at 12:43

      Men are cheat


      Since d creation of d world

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    9. Anonymous18 April 2015 at 13:45

      I very much agree with all the comments above...life is more fair to bad pple than good pple. Am so glad u moved on Annon
      Nadine

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  4. Truth18 April 2015 at 10:26

    Rubbish.I dated 3 married men including dangote when I was single.Now I'm married, I'm only dating one married man and my husband can not dare look at another woman, talk more of cheat.women must realise a man will cheat even on a virgin.So forget Karma.Make sure u marry a house dog not a bush dog and you are fine.

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  5. Unknown18 April 2015 at 10:28

    Rightly said
    www.flavour360blog.com

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  6. Jeni_zee 18 April 2015 at 10:28

    There are women who dnt do runs before marriage but their husbands still cheats on them, being s good girl dsnt guarantee ur hubby would not cheat, as for karma, sometimes it dsnt work, I have seen ppl who hurt good people go nd have better lives nd u would be wondering why God dnt punish them for their sins, just like wen a girl aborts severally for s guy nd they go their separate ways nd d girl is childless while the man ltr marries nd have kids, which karma happened to d man? One thing is to pray to marry a good man bcos being a good woman dsnt mean u will marry a good man

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  7. Unknown18 April 2015 at 10:29

    MR EDDY said this heat wan kill person o.


    If only the die hard runs girls will learn from this..
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    ^™THAT EDO BOY.COM~

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  8. Unknown18 April 2015 at 10:29

    I love this, What ever you sew so shall u reap........@ nice write up,word of wisdom only the wise listen...it is well

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  9. Olayemi18 April 2015 at 10:33

    Let us pray against poverty,cos som dt ar dating married man is nt happy abt it,bt dey dnt hav choice,it is only God dt can judge every one of us,ire ooo

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  10. Anonymous18 April 2015 at 10:34

    I believe in karma but runs girls have the best marriages.Look around.

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    1. Unknown18 April 2015 at 10:42

      You want us to mention names? Well ure right. Karma can be bitchy n gave some people second chance. This good girl thing better pay me o

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    2. Unknown18 April 2015 at 10:49

      Lmao. Maryam abi ooo!

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  11. Steveosky 4 Real.18 April 2015 at 10:34

    Karma works not with random but with exceptions,. Some people get away with it while some don't.. The woman in question must have done something that promoted the man brining in another woman into their home, that's one off.. Bottom line, pray to God for a god fearing man/ woman..some married women whose husbands are rich and provide for them also cheat on their husband ..!!!!

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    1. Steveosky 4 Real.18 April 2015 at 10:36

      *prompted**...

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    2. Unknown18 April 2015 at 10:41

      Hmmmm. True.

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    3. Jeni_zee 18 April 2015 at 10:43

      Idnt even understand this woman's case because men take the women out not bring into d matrimonial house o

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    4. Unknown18 April 2015 at 10:54

      The woman's case is critical! But Jenny av seen something like dis oo. Very very similar, the man brings women into their matrimonial home whenever the wife isn't around! Let's jux pray that we'll never experience such tin oo. God forbid!

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    5. Unknown18 April 2015 at 10:54

      Steve pls stop on political matter. This suit you. Thank you.

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    6. Jeni_zee 18 April 2015 at 11:37

      Men who do that's still be heartless Miss Ima, except he caught d woman nd decides to pay her back by bringing d woman to d house or maybe d marriage s over nd they are just staying together

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  12. Ugo Boss™✅18 April 2015 at 10:36

    Gbam !!! Tell them oooh. #KarmaIsABitch.

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  13. Unknown18 April 2015 at 10:37

    Ladies World, Not Surprised!!!
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    .NOTE: Raise Your Words, Not Your Voice. It Is Rain That Grows Flowers, Not Thunder..

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  14. SVC18 April 2015 at 10:48

    #Gbamest# Karma is real... IT IS WELL

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  15. Shekeleke18 April 2015 at 10:50

    The only solution to all this problem is for ladies to vomit the forbidden fruit God instructed them not to eat....so it part of the lay down punishment ... All you need is to be closer to God that all-Pst.Chekeleke

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  16. Unknown18 April 2015 at 11:00

    What goes around comes around

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  17. BeeVee18 April 2015 at 11:15

    C madam Vivian Ada dey display gud girl 4 here just bcoz she ddnt like the lecturer or he ddnt have enuf wealth 2 shower u with....!

    Its a pity God decided 2 hide the hearts of men, if not, many ppl here wont b forming holy holy coz we wudv seen their hearts.

    Nice write up anyway:)

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  18. Unknown18 April 2015 at 11:26

    Hmmmmm deep issue, I pray she finds peace karma or not.

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  19. Unknown18 April 2015 at 11:35

    Karma is shitt!!...I don't believe in that shit

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  20. Flakky Flakky18 April 2015 at 11:54

    Karma is a bitch,these men aint loyal as a married woman hv learnt to ignore so many things in my marriage,God help women

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  21. Olusoji18 April 2015 at 11:55

    Terribly bad cos I feel her pain. However, no wrong doer will get away with their punishable offence committed.

    She should wipe her tears, put herself together and always believe that joy await her in the morning regardless of the storm she is facing.

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  22. Anonymous24 April 2015 at 03:43

    The bitter truth is that men are natural polygamous in nature. Are forefathers has the better solution by allowing polygamous marriage, this generation is saying no to it and then pays the price because you can't change nature so better ask King Solomon whom God gave much wisdom to manage hos wices and concubines, if you look it from the rear view it means God did not say no to polygamous.

    When men gather together mostly married men, 60% of their discussions are how they hang out with other girls and if you doesn't talk about your own they will as a mumu among the Champions. As they fondly says **one puzzy dey kill dick** we are not wiser than our forefathers coz they avoid cheating by polygamy.

    My advice to every women under no circumstances should you swear for you man when cheating is concerned. The truth is that you can't change nature; is either you accept polygamy or cheating from your husbands.

    If you think you man doesn't cheat maybe your man is one of the following:

    1. He is not well rich and try to manage only you so he can take care of the bills, if all of a sudden he become well rich then you will know the real man in him because he will start going to Abuja business conference.

    2. Your man is a smart player and there is nothing you can do to catch him in his game, so you won't have any reason to suspect him because he is a very good husband at home.

    3. You are newly married to him therefore he is still enjoying every part of you and has no reason to look for another woman outside so it is too early to judge. Just give him more 10 years then you will know that he is the same as other men.

    4. Your man is not man enough, it is a hidden truth that many men or husbands are "bi" but that remains the top secrets. Maybe your man is 70% into woman and 30% into men so with that he may keep you as only woman while other things are secrets you doesn't need to go digging about.

    5. You have a house maid who is your deputy in taking care of your husband Mr. D. it can remain that way years without you knowing that secrete. It will be more economical to your family because the man will not have to spend much money like he will be spending to campus girls.

    6. Only 10% among real men that can get married and remained with only their wife without cheating.
    Those men includes REAL men of God and some others who naturally doesn't like sex so much. That 10% is real hard to find sometimes they fall to the hands of a cheating woman.

    In cheating world if men cheat they are champions but if women cheat they will be called all sorts of bad names and be put to shame while men will be praised and respected by other men as champion.

    Although I am not yet married but I do stay in circle of married men and when I tells them that if I get married then I will settle down with only my wife, they will laugh at me and will say that was the same thing they all said before they got married. They usually says that it is a sickness in men that has no cure even pastors fall to it.

    Now social madia and mobile phones has made cheating easier for both sides.

    Having read all above; DO YOU THINK WE CAN GO BACK TO POLYGAMY OR REMAIN IN CHEATING ERA?

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