In one of her most candid interviews yet, Omotola opened up on the reality of being married for over a decade..The interview was conducted in New York by Ekerete Udoh of Vanguard ..She was very honest......(UPDATE) Omotola has denied granting any interview to Vanguard in years..Wow!!
Asked if she had ever met men that she genuinely took a liking to, and was tempted to sacrifice her marital vows..
“Absolutely. I have been tempted many times to cheat on my husband by men I really liked. But when you think of what you stand to lose, the destruction of all you have labored to build, when you weigh all the options, you are left to conclude that it is not worth the trouble. I know some women will find this somewhat objectionable, but if they want to be truthful to themselves, they will agree with me that, as married women, we have all faced moments that I have just described.”On receiving gifts from male admirers
“Sure, I have received lots of goodies from my male admirers,”On if she has given anything back in return
“Nothing”, I do not give anything in return. I always tell them that I am married and would not compromise my martial vows. If after making that point clear, they still continue to shower me with gifts, maybe believing that something will break in the future, then I cannot help them.”
Do you feel emotionally detached as a result of many years of marriage or, put differently, has your passion for your husband cooled with time?,
“Of course, it has”, she said matter-of-factly. “Which married woman who has been with her husband for years will, in her true state, tell you that the feeling has remained the same as it was the first time or the first year she met her husband? It is bound to cool off. What I recommend to women is what I call “temporary separation.” You will make yourself unavailable to your husband. Go somewhere – go on vacation with your friends, do something bold, lose weight, look different and, after weeks, come home, looking drop dead gorgeous, and I bet you, the fire of passion will be mightily rekindled and you will feel brand new again. I have applied this principle in my marriage and it has worked wonders.”

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DeleteShe is plainly honest to her family and hubby
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I have been tempted many times to cheat on my husband by men I really liked. But when you think of what you stand to lose, the destruction of all you have labored to build, when you weigh all the options, you are left to conclude that it is not worth the trouble.
DeleteIs it abt wht u stand to lose, or abt the love u av for Ur spouse...
All this bloggers will just post whatever they hear without confirmation,i can't wait for the day they will sue someone's ass mtchewww!omotola never granted any interview it's all lie.naija bloggers when will u stop copy n paste?? Smh!
DeleteSo I read she said she never granted Vanguard any interview
DeleteShe's right...it's not worth the trouble!
ReplyDeleteNormal story naa even mad women r tempted ...#BeFaithful.
ReplyDeleteThis interview if it ever happened was just so unnecessary. By men you really liked?? U are just contradicting urself madam.. Silence is Golden....!!!!
DeleteHer last response answered it all. Which yoruba woman no dey bubuyaka?
ReplyDeleteYorubas are this, they are that... This platform is not for biased mind or to promote tribal segregation
DeleteCan she swear that she has not cheated thrice in the numerous events and political functions she attended in the past?Tell that to the gods.
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Delete@sunnyotun how many times have u caught cheating on her husband when she attended those functions u mentioned? #DecentPeopleStillExist
DeleteTale gist. On to the next
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Normal things, but her advice is for the rich...how about those that are trapped in the villages with nothing 2 feed on, are they supposed to go to Dubai on vacation as well and come back drop dead gorgeous for their hungry husbands and kids?
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DeleteThose ones should go to the farm and disappear for one week....trust after planting cassava non-stop for one week, they'll loose weight and come back home to their husbands looking drop dead gorgeous.
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DeleteLol@anon 16:08.chai!chai!
DeleteI totally agree with her..getting tempted is one thing but cheating is another thing entirely. It's not worth the stress that comes afterwards..!!
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ReplyDeleteMarriage is truly challenging but a marriage founded on God will stand any storm.
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ReplyDeletethat's a honest interview, distance helps, but only if you have control of your loins
ReplyDeleteit is about what is at stake, not love
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ReplyDeleteNice one! I have seen 3 female soldiers today. Very hot ones. Father is this a sign? Am I going to marry someone I can't (even jokingly) shout on?" IT IS WELL
ReplyDeleteVirtuous woman..keep it up,d LORD will see u Through IJN..Aiih this OMOTOLA is so beautiful well endowed
ReplyDeleteHope she is real!!! #Faithful Beauty#
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ReplyDeleteA married woman has no business with being unfaithful.... So she ought to b faithful like she said...... I wish her many more years in marriage patience to tolerate her husband and grace to stay faithful ... U know as a celeb and a cute one at that the temptations are bound to come but stay faithful....
ReplyDeleteNonsense, who b mumu,Nigerian Actress 4 that matter? It is clear cheating is your daily activity,i can swear. I am only sorry for your kids but if you be my mama.I go flog u well well for even bringing up comment........................
ReplyDeleteOmotola denies ever granting any interview to Vanguard... see tweet
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That means she wud have cheated if not for her selfish interest.
ReplyDeleteOmotola has said she didn't grant any interview to vanguard...
ReplyDeleteMadam Omo for real?
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