Today marks 10 years since Stella Damasus lost her husband, Jaiye Aboderin.She penned down a touching tribute to him...
"Every morning I open my eyes from sleep, the first words that come to my lips are 'Thank You Lord for the miracle of sleeping and waking up'. I am thankful to God for his grace, his favor, his blessings and also for the privilege he gave me to have had an amazing man in my life who was my friend and husband. JAIYE, today makes it 10 whole years that that you left us here to a better place. It's been 10 long years without your words of wisdom, your gentle personality and your warm heart.
You were a source of strength for me and everybody that came in contact with you. Yes, you left us suddenly but the impact your short life had on this earth will stay with us forever. I miss you Jay but I know you're in a better place. Thank you for showing me what true love is and for making me know how it feels to truly love and be loved. It is my prayer that people at some point in their lives get to experience someone as great as you.
I've learnt to live life. Love life. I've learnt to appreciate ev ery moment of it because sometimes those moments may be lost forever and never return. I've learnt to say I'm sorry to those who I hurt because I may never get a chance to say it tomorrow. I've learnt to say I love you to those who I love because they may not be here tomorrow to hear it from me. I learnt to say goodbye to those who are in my life as barriers because they may be holding me back from extending love and gratitude to those who should get it. I have learnt to be me for me.
Thank you Jaiye because you brought that out in me. I am grateful for the life I shared with you. I am grateful for who I am now because Sharing a life with you made me a better person. I miss you and the girls miss you too. Continue to rest in peace Jaiyejeje Aboderin."
RIP.
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It is well
ReplyDeleteand within these 10yrs u hv been married more than 3times...shame on u!
DeleteJuz like yesterday, may his soul continue to rip.
ReplyDeleteWriting love letters 4 anotha man while in another man's arms, thank God um not Daniel otherwise i'dv shoot u in those little fingers then c how u will write another letter.
ReplyDeleteIt's till death do us part remember? So don't be quick to judge
DeleteYes o belinda u r right
DeleteLmfao.. Belinda u wont kill me ooo.
DeleteBelinda, concentrate on the message and leave the frivolity. This man was once in her life and she just said how she feels and every good thinking person will understand her plight. It is well Stella. May he contine to rest in peace..!!!
ReplyDeleteRip jaiye,u left a husband snatcher behind.
ReplyDeleteStella. Stella. Oh that was ur first love it hurts badly may he continue reting in d bosom of our LORD
ReplyDelete*resting*
Delete@Steveosky come and force me so tht i'll say wat u like! Is she really writing tht note for the hubby or she's just doing it 2 get yo attention?
ReplyDeleteTk u Belinda.. She no send d late hubby.. She's just doing dis so dat ppl wud tink she is nice nd all dat
DeleteDon't jump into conclusions. She might av written that with alll sincerity. We don't know how she feels, let's let this woman be
DeleteAt least she has a heart, unlike some heartless ladies that are only mouthful.
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ReplyDeleteBelinda it is only death that can tear 2 lovers apart...and it is not a sin for her to love again!!! Quit judging her and Steve is right...focus more on the message.
ReplyDeleteGod bless u all.
@ ADA! come here....u think i care if Stev is right or wrong? I know why naaa, u think he go send u recharge card.........
ReplyDeleteHahaha.
Deletebelinda you are too rude... and its just ,morning....who pissed you off, did you wake up on the wrong side..sorry dear... but mind the way you insult people
ReplyDelete@ Anonymous3 December 2014 07:31 who did i insult this time around naa? no vex abeg! I don't even understand the meaning of the word rude again, anyway that's yo cup of tea as long as u're happy telling callin gme rude, no prob 4 me.
ReplyDeleteI love u Belinda cs u call a spade a spade
DeleteSo touching and inspiring...
ReplyDeleteYou own ur mouth.. run it as u feel like!!!
ReplyDelete*walks away*
so sorry dear it is well GOD knowns d best,may he continue t RIP
ReplyDeleteIt is already 10yrs. Wow, time flies.Touching message from her, very nice. May his soul continue to RIP, amen. I don't support the public exhibition of this though, but hey, it is her heart and hand.
ReplyDelete@Belinda, I know you speak your mind and I admire that, it would be much nicer though if you were more subtle with your opinions at times, might just pass the message faster.
*Nonny*
BLOG ANALYSER: very touching!
ReplyDeleteVery touching indeed.
ReplyDeleteRip Jaiye..
ReplyDeleteStella so sorry, may his soul continued to rest in peace.@Belinda, i think u should take it easy, stop taking dis issue personal,dis is a woman who got married age 21, lost her hubby @ age 26, do u expect her top remain single all her life? if any woman did not create an opportunity for another woman to take her husband it won't happened, if Daniel is sticking to her after giving birth to 2 kids , then she must be a loveable person. i think u should focus on your own life and relationship and leave her alone. God bless u dear.
ReplyDeleteQuite a pity. Guess it hs been hard finding another man like him.
ReplyDelete@ Alepatto, pls relax...y wud i take her issue personal? Take it easy, ol these fairy tales u are telling me, pls just save them 4 d next person tht care. If she wants let her collect all the husbands in Africa, not my biznes..
ReplyDeleteBabe stop seeking for attention on this blog, I've u had your coffee this morning idiot? Dare to reply me, and I would give u your size
DeleteHahaha...Belinda n co won't kill me, well everyone is entitled to his or her opinion so make una free matter. RIP Jaiye
ReplyDeleteMay his soul continue to rest in peace
ReplyDeleteBut this @belinda or bebrainless is rude sha, I'm sure this is the only place you get the attention that you so crave for in reality but nobody likes a MINX .I'm also guessing that you are one of those lousy and loud top crass girls with a domineering attitude. One can tell a lot about you from the way you write there's more to life than just randomly pissing people off on a blog that's not yours.your attitude and reactions to issues on this blog(in writing) sucks!.....you are not a LADY. Whatever you are or whatever it is you are trying to be, start first with learning how to be a LADY! I will tell you more about CLASS when you successfully upgrade from being a CRASS.
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DeleteWhohoooooo awesome! This the TRUTH
ReplyDelete@ Anonymous3 December 2014 10:42 and i guess u're feeling yoself ryt now! As if Belinda care about your crass classes, abeg save them 4 those care, not me!
ReplyDelete@ @ Anonymous3 December 2014 10:42 and i like pissing on your head!
ReplyDelete@ Truth 100% fake plastic gucci, weitin u wan gv me, 1 of yo fake currencies?
ReplyDelete@Belinda ever held a dollar before? Nah, I'm not sure. Swity,you're so pathetic
Delete@Truth of all fake currencies y lick my a$$ when um so pathetic? anyway, um not complaining, u're doing a gr8 job, keep it up!
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