You must have read about Stephanie Okereke's brother ,Daniel Okereke being arrested for raping and beating a Unilag undergraduate (Here)..Below is a statement just sent in....She says Rape is Rape, Regardless of Who the Face of the Accused is”
"I am distraught and devastated to hear of the recent allegation of rape brought against a relative of mine, Daniel Okereke (my brother).
While it is a very difficult time for me, and my family; I feel the need to make clear my position, lest there be any doubt. Rape is rape, regardless of who the face of the accused is.
Indeed, the irony is not lost on me. I have spent my lifelong career advocating and living my conviction that women around the world should be able to live free of violence, sexual harassment or any form of abuse against their persons.
This conviction led me to be involved in numerous initiatives combating violence against women in several countries including the U.S, Liberia and Sierra Leone.
The conviction also led me to place much of my energy on my work with Vesico Vaginal Fistula (VVF), a passion that dates back to my time at the University of Calabar.
As a student, I heard a story about young girls who had been forced into early marriage and were suffering the negative and embarrassing effects of VVF. The story stayed in my consciousness and drove me, for years, to seek ways to raise awareness on the condition; leading to my work with a team of dedicated doctors to carry out repair surgeries for VVF victims across the country; and my self-produced, soon to be released movie, ‘DRY.’
So, again, it is indeed heart breaking for me to receive and deal with news alleging a family member of mine is an alleged perpetrator of sexual violence against a woman. I am devastated.
This case is now in Nigeria’s criminal justice system as the accused awaits arraignment. I have also encouraged and assured the alleged victim of my stance against rape and applaud her for her bravery to upset the culture of silence, in Nigeria; even as I accord deference and patiently wait for the criminal justice system to determine the guilt or innocence of my brother.
For Nigerian press and blogs; I call on you to please report this case in an ethical manner. I am a married woman living my life. The alleged transgression of my relative does not make it mine. The focus should be the impact of rape on the alleged victim, and resources for other alleged victims, not me.
Some members of the press and blogs have turned me into the accuser; using my name for sensational headlines and putting my images, exclusively, in their stories. This is a form of victimization of me as a woman, its unethical and extremely hurtful. I am not the alleged accused.
I therefore please ask all bloggers and the media who have placed my pictures and name to this story to refrain from further using me to sensationalise this story.
I thank my fans, and all well-wishers for your continued support and ask for your continued prayers.
God bless.
She is right they shld remove her pixs
ReplyDeleteOr she is happy about it. Attention seeker.
DeleteShe still used this opportunity to advertise her upcoming film. "Dry" lol
DeleteI love ur bravery,Stephanie.The guy nids to be castrated!
DeleteNoooooooooo Stephanie. You didn't just advertise your new movie. WTF!!
DeleteThe movie is about VVF, it fits in the contest... isn't that easy to see or you just wanted to pick on her?
DeleteThe culprits should all be jailed.sorry I've being away on official assignment from Mr President.Im back
ReplyDeleteNo shaking
its 'been' not 'being'. thank me now!
DeleteWell said. I love this. The guy is a beast for even bringing her name into it.
ReplyDeleteU couldn't give credit to Sdk for this?this is exclusive on her blog...Na u remain wey them go sue for plagiarism.
DeleteShort people like u always have deep mind!
Yes!i'm talking to u Emeh!
@ Sheila ..and you went to all other blogs and tell them the same rubbish! Stella should be very proud of you! What has your height done for you except being a frog?
DeleteNaija journalists are also desperados. Anything for their story/paper to sell.
ReplyDeleteTrust social media to get it twisted, glad she's taking it in good faith n not in any way disassociating herself frm him. Though a costly mistake, he shuld face d music alone as dis wil serve as a lesson to follow miscreants.
ReplyDeleteTrust bloggers n media to leave the actual rape and focus on irrelevant things like how steph is related to the idiot that rapes girls.welldone steph as u Distanced urself from him.am proud to see ur stance on sexually violence havnt changed,irrespective of who is involved
ReplyDeleteHmm, the only thing the girl did was to destroy the property and the neighbor's car which then led to the police coming in. If not, the girl might have kept mute like the rest victims that were raped by this monk, one of them even claimed that she is now a married woman with kids and her identity should be protected.
ReplyDeleteSo forget all that strong and brave girl...(i said it before but now i withdraw my statement, there's nothing brave about her)..
To Stephanie, i like and love u die. Very good move, but then again, how sure am i that this is your first time hearing about rape cases of this your brother, and what did you do about it previously (......),? You are releasing a memo now because it is out in the open and no one can hide it any longer.
What you are asking from bloggers is really difficult , you know it, they are making business so a celebrity figure name will sell, that is why your pictures and name will be all over.
It is God that unveiled this and all Glory should be due to him and only him, not even the girl.
Gbam. For once I agree with this semi craze Belinda. That girl did not intend to report. She only did when she was arrested by the neighbour. That's how God wanted it.
DeleteBelinda I heard dat she knows of previous rape stories of her brother Bt always defend him nd d girls de swear for her sef
DeleteIts ok naaa, u have to agree that sometimes i do switch on the brain, though most times its off!
DeleteBelinda, from what I read, the girl felt that justice would not be served if she had gone to report because he is supposedly a "Lagos big boy" and he could easily go scot free. She did the little she could, which led to damaging the neighbour's car. You know the remaining part of the story from there... I still give her kudos, she was brave. The main thing now is the born-fool has been caught and he will pay the price.
DeleteAnd Stephanie had to do shap shap advert there.
*Nonny*
Yeah Stephanie on point,u are just to mature..as for ur bro he should face d law
DeleteI think she should not be dragged into her brother mess.
ReplyDeleteShush u know that's not possible! If her brother did good would you still say the same?
DeleteI love her
ReplyDeleteEmeh why are you always deleting my comments nah? Did I say anything bad, other than the truth. Abi she is not attention seeking and her brother is not wicked .Release my comment before I vex
ReplyDeleteI think you have serious bad luck you have to quickly consult baba on this one. Emeh never blocked any comments here before, you are the 1st one and 4 sure the last!
DeleteLol sorry anon. Your comments and a few other anon comments keep appearing as spam so I always have to remove from spam for them to appear here.. Mistakenly deleted yours.. Tried to retrieve and repost, didn't work. Sorry about that
Delete@mrs njoloza u dn't hv any right 2 speak on emeh's behalf or did u take permission 4rm amy george? Attention seekin housewife
DeleteYay Emeh answered me. Gosh.I love you,love you,love you more for this. Thanks for explaining. Will register soon. Belinda, I'm coming back for you. Tell her Emeka
DeleteI have to agree with Belinda on this...
ReplyDeleteThat girl did nothing except destroy his properties...its the neighbor whose property was destroyed that called the police that should be applauded; if not am sure the girl would ve kept mute like the others after everything!!
But I thank God say fowl ynash don finally open...Stephanie dear u can't control what people write or say about you...u just learn to live with it. Nd I applaud u for standing with the victim against ur olodo brother!! May justice be served...
Just read the story now and Ur brother is an animal.Your pic is also there because he is related to u.Charity they say begins at home.U claim to be doin this and that and failed to Tame the beast u call a brother.Hope he rots in jail.Btwn did u seriously advertise your new movie??
ReplyDeleteNo shaking
U go fear advertisement lol.. As a sharp Ibo girl
DeleteSteph baby noti u could do about it just relax ur mind and face ur marriage non of ur biz ,so let d law b done ok
ReplyDeleteIt's a case of once bitten twice shy gone wrong, but I still salute her courage..!! The rapist should face the music squarely..!!!
ReplyDeleteShes right, rape is bad, i wish quick recovery and may God comfort her and to the animal God's wrath is all i wish you.
ReplyDeleteThis guy dug his grave. By calling famous names, all eyes are on the case now. No way he won't taste jail.God catch him
ReplyDeleteVery sad! That guy is a bastard. Nemesis has caught up with him and he will pay the price through his nose ( like that of a pig's). May he be raped in prison!
ReplyDelete*Nonny*
Typical example of everyday for the thief, one day for the owner. Ur cup is full mr man
ReplyDelete@ emeka David, it is not my faulty that you are miss informed. FYI i am Emeh's Spoke's person. She will forward you the memo soon.
ReplyDeleteYour big empty head could not even allow you to read the story and post a comment, all you want is to stalk Belinda...
Emeka! who is Amy George????????
ReplyDeleteSee the guy head like baboon
ReplyDelete*Nonny* I hear u, and actually if this was a poverty striken guy like Emeka David for sure the girl would not even agree to chat him up online, talk less of going out with him....
ReplyDeleteLOL. And Emeh is still using her pic for the story ~ Hehehehe. Sure she's high on some crack *ROTFL*
ReplyDeleteCrack nut head freak you are not serious! Cant you see that Stephanie address to the issue at hand? You want her to use your pic i guess...I wish you bruise yourself while rolling off the floor..
DeleteCrack nut head freak you are not serious! Cant you see that Stephanie address to the issue at hand? You want her to use your pic i guess...I wish you bruise yourself while rolling off the floor..
ReplyDeletegood of her
ReplyDeleteSteph u are a celebrity,media people and bloggers will wanna use ur name as a headline either in a good situation or bad it attracts people to them.Ur brother is an animal and this isnt d first time frim what i heard u should ve enrolled him into a therapy or something since u knw hes a psycho
ReplyDelete@ Anonymous24 November 2014 13:36, ofcoz you are coming back to thank me because i had to call Emeh on phone and beg her to apologize to you (do you have any idea how much it cost to call from where i am to Nigeria), if not.........you wouldn't be having that smile and typing that comment. As for Emeka dont mind him, he's just lost and looking for my attention!
ReplyDeleteJust hope this case isn't rolled over in d end but all d same good for him.rape is one low life attitude that should be tolerated at all.
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