Married Ladies,Most Problems you Face Were Created When You Were Younger(Must Read)

You read the first part addressed to the men(The Truth About Men Who Cheat) and we all agreed, now here is part 2 for the ladies by Kingsley Leonard......

To our future mother's and wives! I greet you in the most mannered way.

We have said a few things about your bfs and future husbands, but then again we have heard this many times, behind every successful man there is a woman, and success does not always mean a mans pocket or status! A man can be successful in many areas of his life.

We have big problem on our hands the problem started many years ago, you were younger, and you met a man, ...
shortly after, all you could do was dream of him, his thoughts filled your mind, nothing else mattered, it was just u and him, suddenly he's drifting, soon he's seeing
someone else, you are left to heal your hurts and pain, soon
after that you met yet another man and this time it felt even better but ended same way, u try again and again, same result, the problem is/was all you had to offer him was your loins! 

He got tired of it and on to the next, and because there are so many women out there who just believe sex is the best way to a mans heart the circle is multiplying, the funny truth is, you loose your value the more a man sleeps with you if u ain't his wife, if you doubt me ask a runs girl.

My question is how do you make men see you?
-How resourceful are u? Outside sex can make a man need you?
-Have you developed yourself to the point that a man can't imagine loosing you?
-Are you a woman a man can live with?,

- Do you have effective communication skills? 

-Do you listen to your man when he talks to you? Or do you argue instead,
You want a loyal man? You may need to be worth it.

 Do not be fooled, most of you spend so much of your time waiting on a man, before you do something with yourself, this makes it easy for a man to over look you, a lot of young women are so damn lazy and dream big, of course you would rather date a well to do man, because you don't want an obvious situation where you are demanded to grow and contribute to the relationship, so you sell your speaking right to the man, you sell your body to a man just so u can have phones, shoes, bags etc, when people do what you should be able to do for yourself for you, you become a burden, things that can be lost in a moment are the reasons you are in a relationship that isn't adding to your life except maybe you bank account ,

 You overfeed him with sex, a relationship that is sex based, if it makes it to the alter? it is that same sex that will bring it down from the alter! When the issues of life hits you as a married woman, your man wouldn't have time to wait or look for a solution with you, he would go out!

He's used to it courtesy of you, every time you sleep with a man you ain't married to you are creating a potential cheat, sex addict etc, so after creating a sex addict, you marry him, what do you expect?

Most of the problems you will face in your marriage you have already created them while you where single, you sleep with someone's randy husband which a woman created, maybe his wife did when she was your age. Just the same way you are creating one right now, he could buy u ice cream and sleep with her then, now he's buying u phones and sleeping with you.
Just to show how meaningless u are to him? He still goes back to his wife!

Be careful what u wish for, with your actions, imagine a

world without std's, a world with faithful men and women, imagine that you are not cheating on your bf right now,imagine he isn't cheating, imagine if married meant married, it is possible but it begins with you!

 A woman has powers she isn't even aware of, if she knew men wouldn't toy with her, discover your purpose, don't be a needy woman waiting for a man to come along, they surely will the question is will they take you along? 

When you have slept with so many men why would u not say all men are the same? Why would want to get married? When you know there is karma?
We live in a world where women create monsters, and other unmarried young girls encourage them by doing the same thing most wives of today did yesterday.

Finally young, (Tall short fair dak fat skinny)girls do not date men who have no use for u outside his bedroom, young men stop jumping from one bed to another if you do not want to be the man whose wife fights on social media! Wives do not let yourself go simply because you are married! 

Look good, work out, live healthy, marriage and kids is just a phase of life its not the end of it!, then our father's we are tired of you! You need to stop chasing every girl you come across, the blessings God gave you is not to hurt others! Teach your wife what you want from her! Vagina is the same, your mindset is the problem! We don't want to be look like you wen we grow up, we want to be better.

God bless you.
Kingsley Leonard.