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Friday 30 May 2014

Charles Novia on Tiwa's Savage's Video-"In Nigeria,a married woman should evoke respect for values"

Yesterday, Charles Novia gave his blunt opinion on Tiwa's "Controversial Wanted Video" ..Missed it?(Here)..He is not backing down and he has elaborated  in his new article published on his website 

My tweets on Tiwa’s new video were my personal opinions. And most times, my personal thoughts could be the voice of a silent, quivering majority or a hemlock to the dense, obtuse and dim-witted minority.
The latter best describes proponents of the video who have been screaming to high heavens that there is nothing wrong with the video. Indeed, there is nothing wrong go them. How can anything be wrong to those set of people? Those kind of people who dress up and go to Church on Sundays and come out all holier-than-thou but have selective obedience to the teachings of their faith? Those kind of people, a new and lost generation mostly, who were born into a world of seamless and acceptable sexual laxities and swallow anything the mainstream American pop media spit out at them without even thinking for themselves?



Truth be told, as we all know, Nigeria is now very sick. It is not only the politicians and the militicians who are sick. The whole bloody citizenry is sick. I am in my early forties. I come from a generation grappling with the last vestiges of a sane and moral coda in a world fast disintegrating into factions of lewdness and psychophancy. My generation seems to be overawed by what is happening in today’s cultural dysfunctionality. Everyone just seem to look away. Hell no! Those of us who can speak out must speak out. I chose to. Not because I am holier than the other person but because there are STILL real and EXTANT moral rules in the world we live in today which must be left to stay for the world those I call the opposites try to rebuild.
If my voice will be the loudest and the last from that generation, then it will be. And I won’t back down in the face of impunity. What I say and will continue to say is a legacy of logic and thought I leave for the sane few and a pricking of dead conscience for the insane many.
And so, I must talk. I must ventilate. I must critique. Because someone has to do it. I do it not for pecuniary gains or for fame; I don’t need those. I have built a brand and body of work over the years which vindicates me. I critique because you don’t say it enough, so I have to say it more.
The Nigeria you dream about, that utopian Nigeria cannot come to pass if you trample all you hold sacred. Morality is an appendage of culture in progressive societies. Once that moral fibre is cut off, then your society goes to the dogs. A new society cannot be built without a cultural revolution. A change of the mindset. A mental re-orientation. Please someone should go and study China and how their cultural revolution has made them the world’s largest economy and the biggest world power presently or in a couple of years. Countries like China eschewed Western cultural imperialism and built their country on values peculiar and modelled to shape their future.
 What cultural values are we building? Nay, what moral values? Yes, some may argue that some ignominy abound in Nollywood as well. It does. And my voice is at the lowest decibel there when it does.
Artistes in Nigeria are the last bastion of hope in the skewed society. The power of our art in music and movies makes them the first line of believable role models in Nigeria. With music and movies which stir hearts and moves souls to action, the artiste is the person whom the common man and the starry-eyed kids are likely to believe in. Not the politicians. That is the power of tart.When you misuse those powers for immoral proclivities, then you have killed the moral future of millions of kids and conscionable people who look up to you. You have created a dysfunctional moral society in one fell swoop through your visual adventurism.
But alas! In Nigeria, most artistes do not care about that. It’s all lip service.
A woman marries and the next thing she is pushing a new visual sexual agenda for the kids and her supporters are egging her on by saying it’s her body or using a silly mantra that her husband likes it like that. The one which makes me chuckle is when some say she is an entertainer and her short-of-strip-dancing antics in the new video is all about entertaining you.
Tufiakwa!

I live in Africa. I am a Nigerian and last time I checked, my country still has laws against that. I will not subscribe to an infidel agenda even if any other person does. A married woman, no matter the career path she choses, in this part of the world should evoke respect and admiration for sterling values. Does that video evoke anything short of wanton abandon and wagging fingers? You decide.

But in these days of  anomie ,nothing really surprises me anymore.

What would really surprise me wears a hat. A long one.

35 comments:

  1. Abegii this guy shld take several seats and face his own life, leave oda people to leave their life weda gud or bad. Dah video is gaining massive views on Youtube and tiwa is making her money and equally fame. is he d only one dah saw the video? Smh on sum people that take panadol on oda people's headache.

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    1. Mr. Charles small small.. Uree just gathering more enemies with the way you criticize ur collegues.. You evn went to aso-rock to find fault.. Should pple be scared of you at events, dressing, composure, before tweeting, b4 uploading instagram picture, b4 making vid or movies? Elemi nio? Mtsheew!!

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    2. @laide, if you gather more enemies because you are speaking the truc it is better because one day they will réalisé it. With the way tiwa is going don't you think her in laws will keep quiet forever, they won't and that will be the beginning of her problems. This is Africa and we are Africans must we imbibé other cultures bad values and add it to our own. Would you allow you future daughter in law do that. For the fact that she isn't related to us doesn't mean she isn't close to us cos she is close to us because we sing her song and watch her videos and she mentors other Young girls out there. With the issue of the traffic police the other time and these now it obvious that tiwa has little morals.

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    3. @laide, if you gather more enemies because you are speaking the truc it is better because one day they will réalisé it. With the way tiwa is going don't you think her in laws will keep quiet forever, they won't and that will be the beginning of her problems. This is Africa and we are Africans must we imbibé other cultures bad values and add it to our own. Would you allow you future daughter in law do that. For the fact that she isn't related to us doesn't mean she isn't close to us cos she is close to us because we sing her song and watch her videos and she mentors other Young girls out there. With the issue of the traffic police the other time and these now it obvious that tiwa has little morals.

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    4. This guy shouls STFU! He's beginning to sound stupid!

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    5. This guy shouls STFU! He's beginning to sound stupid!

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    6. Oh he sounds stupid? U obviously lack morals urself n a proper education! Now check dat!

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    7. Magarita why don't you make life easy for you and write in vernacular? At Call a spade a spade please. The video is vulgar. Simple!!!

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  2. Endtimes article

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  3. I cudnt read it all..sleep is cashing me,will read it in 2015 no doubt

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  4. Love him or not, he certainly makes a lot of sense.

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    1. Why is she opening legs wide like someone receiving oral sex!! Hmm

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    2. Am a typical African woman n a nigerian to b precise, d last tym I checkd she was a nigerian n a married one, she's to have regards for her culture, values, beliefs, family, husband n herself, it looks like none of the afore mentioned. Keep up d gud wrk CHARLES, I gotcha back.

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  5. I love his articles He is even nice compared to critics abroad. People make a living off critiques..So if you don't understand his articles due to low 1Q, it's allowed

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  6. Well said mr Nokia

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  7. The one that pained me most is that stupid Venita abi na Benita that included the chibok situation and Mandela to justify the video.... That is the dumbest human alive

    I still maintain that, that video does not deserve all this long talk.. It was tasteless and classless and not different from what we see everyday in Music videos.... But I guess what Mr Novia is worried about is the effect stuff like that will have on our kids.. And it is common knowledge that, when kids decide to copy what they just saw you do, they will do worse than what you did.... But these entertainers seem not to care about our future. So, it is up to us as parents, brothers, uncles, aunts, etc to shield our kids from these evil lot

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    1. Xyz venita is a beg Friendster she wants to be invited to Tiwa's next wedding rubbish girl

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  8. abegi make una free this Tiwa savage matter e don pass biko but MeanWhile #ClickOnMyName

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  9. No big deal bout d video, but she should know her audience is a bit conservative.

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    1. Little children love her songs and watch her videos. Now tell me, how they would perceive the video? What they see... They ape

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  10. truth be told, this guy is saying the right thing.Women are debasing themselves. where is our moral values, where is our dignity, everywhere you turn to you see women nudity. men have no respect for women anymore, what a shame. its like without nudity you can not market your product. it is so disgusting and bizzare. our so called stars should act as role models not brandishing their private parts on our faces in the name of singing. I won,t even allow my kids to watch such videos.

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  11. Am with u Mr Charles..they say the truth is bitter..Tiwa should should respect her old age jare..


    ~MR EDDY~says so via www.facebook.com/eddywhiz

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  12. What do u expect frm a woman dat got married to a thug like man.......datx d result.

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  13. D song nor even get head

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  14. D tbils I hear say dey take fuck kill that tiwa. That's why she rush marry am.

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  15. No home video, or music channel is allowed in my house, if they are not singing abt sex they are spreading their legs for everyone to see. Women no just smart how many male artist de wear just boxers for for their video? Women will turn themselves to sex toys and expect u to treat dem like gold. The more involved tiwa is with bills the worse she becomes.

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  16. Yes d guy is damn right , tell me now wot message has she passed wit dat video no one even understands d lyrics of d song its just d video d way she puts her fingers btw her genitals and all d trash she does in dat shoot. Its rili alarming dat such act could come from a married woman and a promising mother as well let's face it its all wrong ! #OMa#

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  17. Some people say dey can't read d article its too long but d video insint too long to watch and get defended by dem too! I pity dis my generation which way are we heading to?

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  18. Ai...enough already...the video is whack...I agree...Go look for another celeb to slander....Jeez....Same topic for many days...

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    1. You need to check up the meaning of slander in the dictionary.

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  19. thumbs up mr.charles.you nailed it.it is a shame tiwa is doing this and the thug she married as a husband is encouraging her bcos he is making money through her.shameless family

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  20. I support u 100%...d video doesn't make any sense!

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  21. Tiwa ooo!!! Don Jazzy where were you when this happened. Maybe I am wrong but I never thought you would approve such extreme Perverseness. We have had nonsense shoved in our faces by the music industry and their obscene videos but this just screams HELP!!! Tbillz!! Geez!! I knew there was something that didnt quite gel about that man on face value. Now I know I was right. The Miley Cyruses, Rihannas and Beyonces that set this pace Tiwa wants to follow are in a stage of their lives we believe they will outgrow. Tiwa no be pikin na. Youthful exuberance suppose don pass.

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  22. I support you Mr Novia

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