I am a 19 year old junior in a reputable university in America. I came here in 2012 and it's really been stressful dealing with school without having my family by my side here.
In high school in Nigeria, I had a list that had all the qualities that I wanted in a guy (I was still really young then oh, lol). He needed to be tall, ambitious, funny, handsome, well-built, blah blah. All my friends kept rebuking me for being too picky cos I turned guys down like no man's business.
Emeh, I turn 20 in October and I feel so lonely without a boyfriend. I have friends here but they are all in relationships so it's always awkward hanging out with them. I broke up with my last boyfriend in February because I wasn't happy with him anymore. I am still a virgin and I love God too. Infact, I think I would be a great girlfriend because I'm tall, very smart, ambitious, hardworking, and I get along with people. The only thing is that I am told that I'm too independent, too focused on my grades, and can be standoffish.
There are a few boys asking me out but I don't want any chewing gum guy for now cos even though I'm in College, my on-campus job pays well and has many financial incentives. I am ambitious, I want a man equally as ambitious as I am. I know a lot of other older students who are Nigerian too and are still looking for boyfriends. Most of them attend my church.
Am I over-reacting? Should I be patient? I go to parties a lot and I'm in many campus organizations so I know I'm putting myself out there. Are men just intimidated by me because of my strong character or what? I'm so sad...
Odi egwu. In my days, at 19 I didn't even know what they call boy talk less of friend. Endtimes children
ReplyDeleteJunior in university ke! Pls remain focused and ambicious ,at ur age,u need to concentrate more on reading ur books,going to church like u do and belonging/going to fellowship and yes ur over-reacting and being impatient ,forget guys,dat shuldnt be ur priority,its a good thing ur still a virgin ,pls don't get de-flowered, u can later sell ur virginity for N10 million or above dat price or wait till u fall in-love
DeleteEmeh Achanga,r u desperate?why do u like posting stories like dis?is there somefin u arent telling ur readers?now is time to come clean ooo..dese desperate stories don come plenty well well
DeleteEmeh is my wife for your info.
DeleteMaybe ah could help her
DeleteWho's dis Pandora! Ur name reminds me of panadol,why do u like picking on Emeh? Annon 15:31 saveur replies,we Emehs readers got her back.Pandora! Be warned.Leave Emeh alone,if u don't like her stories,u can as well jump into d lagoon , some of us do enjoy her post
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Deleteyou truely need help*rawbone*
ReplyDelete19 and you are sad and lonely without a boyfriend. Even talking about you don't want chewing gum boyfriend. Heeee this world yaf spoil finish. If you know what's good for you, face your studies
ReplyDeleteSharrap, u way comot belle reach 3times at d age of 14,u won form 4 here.*okoro*
ReplyDeleteWhat you need is a slap.Im here looking for a man at 35, eating hungry man pack indomie and you are complaint at 19. Hissss
ReplyDeleteTruth, can we hang out, I think u funny, but I am a girl though. We can man hunt together. No joke
DeleteI would advise you concentrate on your studies, trust me it pays. Hang out with friends and don't rush anything, enjoy being single and achieve all you can. At the right time, the right man will come along, relationships come with responsibilities cos it isn't a bed of roses.
ReplyDeleteIf what i just read is exacly hw yu are, God knws i cant and will never date a gal like yu..... I hate too much ambitous lady bcos they hate romance and i dont knw one when is been presented to them......
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guyz she jst said her mind... Allow her 2 join dah nxt ultimate search.. Guess she will see dah luck guy... Dnt wori will gat dah form 4 yhu... Lolzz
ReplyDeleteEmeh is Truth. She's just looking for controversy on her blog after she got tired of being Pwetty.
ReplyDeleteThen u 19 years old, u r not impatient, carry gun & start chasing every man on d street to date u by force
What is this world turning into?...u are still too young to be bothering urself with these things young lady... there are other important activities to occupy urself with...but if u still insists,then who am I to turn a sister down,holla at boy!..after all my last babe was 16 when we broke up and we dated for 3 years,..do the math...and did I mention that am richly blessed down there?...yeah a male horse gat nothing on me...#Dominic Obi#
ReplyDeleteEmeh! Slow news day yea? I see u have finally changed ur blog from a gossip blog to a "Search and Find" blog abi? How's this news?
ReplyDeleteWork on upgrading ur blog and not downgrading wit this yeye badoo...
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DeleteYOU ARE TALL...SMART...AMBITIOUS N HARDWORKING.
ReplyDeleteOHHHH NOW I KNOW WHY YOU DONT AV A BOYFRIEND....YOU ARE NOT 'BEAUTIFUL'....
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ReplyDeleteIt is normal for a young girl to wished to feel being loved, but u shouldnt be over taken by the wish of what may distroy ur future. most guys nw are interested in the pleasure... trust me.
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19 and u are complaining..hhhmmm..girl just chill down and focus on ur studies..u don't actually need a boyfriend before u move out of loneliness..and who even told u that a boyfriend is what is needed in order not to be lonely?? Just relax owkay.everything would fit in when the time is due.
ReplyDeleteI have loads of work today and am so tired. WHO CAN GET ME PIZZA from Picolo mondo
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we r both 19 pretty, so we r gud to go. hit me on 08163................. emeh complete it for me
ReplyDeleteSo u're 19? Chai!
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ReplyDeleteLmfao..hahahaha..ur never see anything..your case go pass gulder ultimate search..miss picky..
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ReplyDeleteAjo nwa tufiakwa. Umu Ogbanje. Nmmo nmili mama Iwota ------- The Moon !
ReplyDeleteKeep ur virginity. its priceless
ReplyDeletePls remain focused and kwil men at arms length.Dis s time to build Ur future.At d appropriate time U wil have a gud man
ReplyDeleteOk naa u'd b a good girlfriend because u are tall. So why are u not even a girlfriend of some one, talk less of a bad girlfriend. . Yeye
ReplyDeleteBaby,when you see a guy that has the qualities you admire you should walkup to him and toast him?must guyz be the toasters always?we are not intimidated by any class of girls,it's just that we cant tolerate your arrogance and shakara.period.
ReplyDeleteare you sexy enough to catch guyz attention to your side?I dont mean going semi nude o?
ReplyDeleteLol calm down n ambitiously stay focus. i understand exactly what u mean but thats only disturbing you bcuz you yeilding to alot advices. from what u say u are, somebody somewhere is actually looking for you. so pls sit your butt down n study u are still young thou.
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babe calm down first,den other things go follow...d velli rain
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