"I don't believe in gender equality,I believe the husband is the head & the wife an assistant"-Omotola | This Is Miss Petite Nigeria Blog

Sunday, 2 March 2014

"I don't believe in gender equality,I believe the husband is the head & the wife an assistant"-Omotola

When asked in a new Interview with Punch on how a woman can have a successful marriage, she said
I don’t believe in gender equality. I do not believe that God made man and woman to be equal in any way. I believe that in every organised institution, there is always a head and an assistant. It doesn’t mean that one should take the other for granted, or disrespect the other. I believe the husband is the head of the home and the wife is an assistant. My husband is a pilot, I have flown with him several times and I understood that here is a captain and a co-pilot. They are both responsible for the passengers’ lives. But when there is a final decision to make, it is up to the captain to make it. He is more experienced and the one with the responsibility.
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 But any mature captain will not ignore his co-pilot because the co-pilot is not a cabin attendant. He is there for a reason. It just depends on how you understand and play your roles. I believe women should understand this. When a woman starts a struggle for power tussle with him, it tends to cause friction in the home. The woman should give the man the respect as the head of the home and also prove herself as a worthy co-pilot. He needs to see you as a reliable co-pilot. Sometimes, he may not be the one running the house day-to-day, you are the one to take decisions but you have to do it in such a manner that he is comfortable enough to see you as someone he can rely on.
When you have a proud and egocentric husband, hand him over to God. If you feel like your life is being threatened, or that of your children, get yourself out of that situation. You owe your children that. Try separation for a while, but before that, you must have tried other things. I do not believe that people should throw in the towel in their marriage at every flimsy excuse. You must have been a diligent wife and tried prayers and intervention. If all those fail, then you can remove yourself from that situation. Also, couples should be friends and communicate. What we call love sometimes fizzles out. True love comes from friendship. When you don’t feel those initial sparks, friendship is what keeps you together, until when the spark comes again.

27 comments:

  1. Obviously you have an inverted definition of gender equality. mshewwwwww

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    1. Lool. She doesn't know d definition of gender equality. Sad

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  2. What is this yoruba woman saying? Why not turn to a house wife to complete your foolish statement

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    1. Truth! Dats why ur a babymama,ur lucky u were opportuined to read dis,u better adhere to wot Omosexy had to say (or take a cue frm her) if u want d father of ur child to walk u done d aile and turn u into a married woman

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  3. She is absolutely right. 10000 likes.

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  4. Endtimes couple

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    1. Mr Endtimes my man! D endtimes slogan no click wit dis couple.It'll probly click wit another couple(couples like d tatooed couple,those ones r more of endtimes couple) not Omosexy and her hubby...

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    2. Lol e no go atall.Epic fail

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  5. Omosexy has spoken! I really wanna grow u to be like this woman.. She has said it all!!

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  6. 1000 likes always follow Everything Omosexy says, cos she is a celebrity one day she go feed una shit. Truth i dig ua opinion...



    Nankabeauty

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  7. Mr end time abeg inform us oh

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  8. @Truth and Nankebeauty! Wot she's trying to say is dat as married woman,u need to submit to ur husband,is in d bible(Ephesians 5-22/23).U guys shuld read and shuldnt be naive

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    1. Sharap submissive for what as what?Be deceiving yourselves there backward people.

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  9. Such a nice post! Women shd learn from this! If your wife isn't submissive then the marriage will most definitely have bumps.

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  10. Omotola if you are really submissive, you won't abandon your home and be flying from one place to the other inthe name of being influential

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  11. I can't believe what I see in posts nowadays from women. You don't want to submit to a man, do you want him to submit to you? Please if you don't like being submissive, marry an imbecile. That way, you can assert yourself all you want.

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  12. THIS WOMAN GET SENSE LIKE THIS. ALL THOSE MUMU PPL TALKING NONSENSE WITHOUT HOMES. ME NO LIKEY. GOD BLESS OMOSEXY sha.

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  13. omotola is a goat

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  14. You pple dat ur brain dey back if u. Don't know wat to say pls keep shut

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  15. I'm not a fan of omotola but for the first time I do agree with her, the man is the head of the wife, being the head is different from dominating or lording over her, it's being the priest in ur home, the man make decision after consultation with the wife and protects/provides for his family. The bible calls the wife " help meet" wch means she assists and the bible clearly states that we wives should submit to our husbands. It's not old fashion, it's the word of God and the word of God is forever fresh

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