Dear Emeh,I feel miserable, before the beginning of the year i made a promise never to watch porn and masturbate again but i fell into it few days into the new year some times i stop 4 a while and fall right back into it. I've read so many tips and browsed on so many ways i can stop this addiction but they all seem useless after i try them since i always fall back. My mom has warned me about it and spoken to me not to let my eyes see such but i have obviously disappointed her. Although she doesn't know. Well i even started b4 she spoke to me abt it, eme pls help me if u know any way or what i can use or do to stop this.. i have sinned against God n myself. i pray but its worse when i fall back immediately after praying abt it.
Keep praying
ReplyDeleteWalahi u took this topic out of my mouth but mines a lil diff. I am a single mom and not had a man in ages.
DeleteSo I watch porn to give myself a happy endn. But I remember ppl sayn it is a sin. Pls my question is; is it a sin?
I can get a partner to hv sex with but I do not want a body count. I wanna wait for my right man. So is it bad for me to be watchn porn. Thnks
If you have a sag boobs,stretchmarks,green vein due to bleaching,guys will get erection even if you suck him.only 1% of guy who want to recharge his card badly will manage you.
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Delete@ sunday, I am sure thats wat ur mum did so she can hv a child in life. Wat a pity, waste of money. Cus u r fuckn retarded. Did I state I cant get it from whom eva I want. I bet d likes of u just sits home and wank thier asses off until they start seeing black spots.
DeleteIdiot, kmt if u dont hv beta ting to say make we see road. Bloody waste of sperm. I bet u now hv low sperm count due to u wankn all d bloody time.
Yes I hv takn it p cus I only askd a question.
Dis sunday you 're just an idiot,if u dnt have anytin nice to say den u shud'nt say anytin @ all mtchew nd poster start by gettin rid of all pornographic stuff,nd jus kip prayin abt it u'd pass nd above all u just av to force urself to stp it,gudluck.
Deletewhy are this stretchmark girls replying me furiously?I am advising you to remove those eyesores cos it turns guyz off completely.no offence boo.
Deletesunday otuns go back to sch and learn english.. Please, for the sake of our eyes... lmao #MUMU i'm sure you have stretch marks on ur face. RETARD!! I'm sure u have low self esteem and the only way u get thru is when u bring ppl down. I hope u thk and make a change in ur sad pathetic life.
DeleteWhenever u feel like watching porn try and replace it with something else like read ur qurán or bible or any religious books. Try and stay away from things that get u in the mood, get a hobby that keeps u very busy like sewing or painting (u don't have to be an artist to paint) cuz they require u to pay attention cuz of the details, you can engage in sports or if its at nyt play video games or read a book that baffles ur mind and makes u think and explore more like mystery or fiction. And most of all think of the day u will meet ur lord and account for all ur deeds. I hope ths helps. (studied a bit of psychology, I'm a DBA though)
How can it be a sin to satisfy yourself? R u suppose to go n fuck a stranger if u don't have a man? If your body require sexual satisfaction then give it damit
DeleteHmmmn this is serious. I don't know what to say.I suggest you continue praying. God knows you are trying
ReplyDeleteYu need to start a practical one other than this one....
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Dunno why but I actually felt it was eddreamz dat sent dis post
DeleteBLOG ANALYSER: keep praying to God , he will help u to over come it. Get rid of all pornographic stuffs around u. Cleanse ur mind of all sexual thoughts nd most importantly get busy.
ReplyDeleteDear poster 1st of all you need to confess to a good christian counsellor the process of stopping this act is slow but worth it, infact your on the way, the fact you decided to stop is a good start, 2, you have to let God fight this battle for you tell him about it, 3, try hard not to be alone (an idle mind is the devils workshop) everything porn you have to quit if you feel the urge n u masturbate the minute you cum u hate urself for it, rather than wear a guilty face discard every masturbation/pornography equipment around you, wakeup by 2aam everyday to pray abt it. Masturbation ssets you back from everything. May you be guided in jesus name
DeleteIt is because you have not seen a guy who will fuck you as sweet as masturbation that is why you cant stop it.His tongue on your clit will stop you permanent.some guyz dont know where the jellybean is.show him how to eat it.
ReplyDeleteMiss petite,u av to stop approving abusive comments like Otuns Sunday's own. @Sunday,if u like insult me,am not coming back to read ur comment.
DeleteYou can't stop on your own, just keep praying to God about it
ReplyDeleteHw old r u ? If u r a teenager its wrong . If u r an adult n u prefer it to real sex, den there's a problem. Meet a real man of God to brk dt spirit. Get v busy, u wldnt hv time for it anymore.
ReplyDeletePray to God about it, and anytime you fall back to it after your new year resolution, don't give up and say "after all I've done it let me continue" No!!! Stay away from it week by weeks, month by months. And God will see you through.
ReplyDeleteNxt time d urge cumz, make sure u miz atarugu (red pepper) wit aboniki (balm) round d surface den screw urself to ur satisfaction. I'm sure dat will help. If it persist den contact *vizzy* for more infor (ladies only) *vizzy*
ReplyDeleteLOL Oº°˚˚°ºoo I go die Oº°˚˚°ºoo
DeleteHaahaaahaaaa.....I like that advice, I'm abt 99% sure it will work**winks**
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Cut the hand you use.That should solve it
ReplyDeletego for deliverance at mfm but most important give your life to Christ.
ReplyDeletekeep praying and maybe you need to go for deliverance too.
ReplyDeleteU r jst idle.. I used to till I got married n had a baby.. nw I'm so busy dt even d real sex dey tire me, nt 2 talk of masturbating.. u go tire
ReplyDeleteI too went thru this process for years. The truth is...only Christ can get u off this. A lot of people would tell u that it's better to masturbate than have sex ....lies....masturbation opens a lot if devilish doors u can't imagine. Fast n pray seriously about it ...a true n contrite heart ...the lord wld not disperse...
ReplyDeleteI too went thru this process for years. The truth is...only Christ can get u off this. A lot of people would tell u that it's better to masturbate than have sex ....lies....masturbation opens a lot if devilish doors u can't imagine. Fast n pray seriously about it ...a true n contrite heart ...the lord wld not disperse...
ReplyDeleteAlways keep the Bible nearby.Once you have the urge, look at it. Pray more
ReplyDeleteRihanna's picture.. How appropriate. Lol! Good work Emeh!
ReplyDeleteEndtimes Riri Ashawo
ReplyDeleteKeep on praying. Get rid of everything that puts you in the mood. Go and get baptize. Take the communion and anointing oil. Every yoke will be broken. Its well with you.
ReplyDeleteGod is d way forward
ReplyDeleteEndtimes masturbator
ReplyDeleteGet born again (Repent genuinly and accept Jesus as your lord and personal saviour) after that you can go for deliverance.
ReplyDeleteBlackBerry is just evil. Porn is all I use my Mb for. Its prayer my dear. My solution is fasting. When I fast the urge isn't there.
ReplyDeleteI went throught the same but God healed me and I know that by the power in the name of Jesus Christ I will never go back to the same way I was.
ReplyDeleteIt is actually a bad spirit and u will need to pray for that the holy spirit will help u get rid of the thought of masturbating and watching porn.
It also draws set backs and delays in one's life, which is why u must get rid of the act. Pray and fast like others have said and determine in your heart that as a child of God you are free from every bondage of satan and his agents.
Jesus christ can heal you but u need to make up your mind that you are ready to fully surrender all to Jesus.
May God deliver you in Jesus name. It is well.
The bible takes sin away and sin takes the bible away. In addition to prayer, study the word of God and let it dwell in you richly. It is the sword of the Spirit you can use to overcome sin. Remember it is a sin against God and against ur own body. It is an addiction dat cant b broken just by keeping materials away.
ReplyDeletePrayer nd readn of the word of God, nd most importantly try nt to alone nd do away wit porn everitin even d 1 dat can triger u to doin it watchn romantic film nd sex scenes. And be DETERMINED to put an end to it cos masturbation destroys ooo....*Ovietemi*
ReplyDeleteThe mind becomes restless, when d taught creep up, until one give in to it, he/she will be tormented by this evil force(s) behind it, but thank God you're willing to stop, and the following steps is sure:
ReplyDelete1. Dispose of every pornographic materials in your possession
2. Control the kinda movies u expose ur eyes to, since the eyes is d window to the heart
3. It takes the holy spirit to get rid of this evil spirit since light nd darkness don't agree
4. Fasting, it weakens d flesh nd brings the spirit being to life
5. Deliverance, jst fellowship with SCOAN, that was where I got my own deliverance, over 2mnths now nd no urge of it, not even idleness or pornographic movies can make me masturbate now, I feel so free nd have control over my body now!
Riri i can assure u i have only one way u can use to stop it, i am very serious but is only if we can meet in person face to face
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