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Saturday, 15 February 2014

Help!! My Fiancee says he didn't use my pic on Valentines day because of network

Hi Emeh,I have a pressing issue and hope your readers can help me out. Yesterday being Valentine my boyfriend of 6 years who proposed in Feb 2012 couldn't spend the day with me because being a Friday, we both went to work. However,I expected him to comeback home around 6 so we could maybe have dinner, he claimed he was held up at work till 9pm and then called to say he would see me today and we will go out for our own Valentine.
That is not the issue, Yesterday this man didn't use me on his Blackberry DP, no sweet message and anything. When I asked him around 3pm, he said he has done that.I told him it was still a pic of him on his dP, he said maybe it was network.He still said it was Network by 7pm.I use MTN like him and I had him on my Dp.
This morning, he came with no gift and when I confronted him, he said why am I trying to fight over a picture,he said is he not engaged to marry me and I should not bother him with things which don't matter. I'm also shocked he didn't buy a gift and he earns alot.I don't want to ask him about that because inthe past he always gives me gifts
I'm still scared that maybe he had someone on his BB he didn't want to know about me. Am I over-reacting? 

31 comments:

  1. Just because you had his pic, does NOT automatically mean he must have yours! However, I think you've answered your own questions.

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    1. Exactly, this girl must be very low in thinking. Wats d fuss about him not using ur pic? He doesn't love u n thr re so many ppl who stuffs like dp usage don't matter to. And u shld very well understand him by now if u ve bbeen dating hiim for 6yrs if u think he's seeing some1 else n other vals has been diff handle it with diplomacy cs almost all men cheat abeg cos Don't know y u shld be all up in his cool aid about dp wen he don engage u for 2yrs neva marry u sef

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    4. Dis is stupid sha............, buh emeh, u go put dis stuff here sef

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    5. Lol girl go find work

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  2. Soooo whats d big deal dia biko.... Everyt na case. #park well

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  3. Give the benefit of the doubt, Don't work yourself out over minor issue.

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  4. The guy is cheating .No doubt he has one new girl he is probably lying to he is still single

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  5. My boo booo used my pic on his bb,facebook,twitter,instagram to let all them thirsty bitches know who is queen.He also bought me a ride. This is to say your boyfriend is not pure.It is worse if he is Yoruba .So, have a backup plan

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  6. So for that singular act, u r scared he might be cheating or you have other concerns

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  7. I don't think you are over reacting, but at the same time using your pics as dp to me personally shouldn't be an issue, except if he has been using it before, and also the fact that he did not use it should not cause any form of misunderstanding btw u guys, I also think you should not panic yet and get your facts right if he is dating someone and he is hiding it from u, but I am still wondering why a guy proposed to you since 2012, and you guys have not taking it to the alter yet, all in all if he has not been showing any uncomfortable signs, before now, if this is just the first sign of change in him, I think u should not raise an alarm yet, its too early for that


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  8. Also if you have dated a guy for 6yrs, although as humans we change and also guys can be unpredictable sometimes, but after 6yrs, u should have some level of trust for him, there should be things u should know he can do and can not do, not any small issues then u raise an alarm, like I said before u are not over reacting, let's say, u are just being cautious and sensitive


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  9. My advice's to chill nd don't do anything rash. Something kept U togeda for 6yrs, think on those things nd dont overreact if ds's d first time he's disappointing U

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  10. Who's this again.... Girls and their low I-Q,useing you as his DP does not gurantee his is love for you or maybe your love is on a saver side by so doing...grow-up and y get your self walkedup over a minor issue,and more over you both are already engaged so why behave like a 10year old infant....your source of complain should come from another asspect or angle(like something more concrete)and not from a DP asspect of a thing...he can still put you up on his DP and still have external affair with other girls without you not knowing,cos I tell you guys can be very diplomatic to your own unexpectation...make your complains more of a advance level nt from a DP thing my dear....please

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  11. Girl am a guy cut ur lose u been replaced

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  12. Don't raise issues where there is none,he may still use you as his Dp and still be playing, since you said he gets you gifts and this is the first time he is doing this, then don't get yourself all worked up....Simply have fun and stop giving yourself headache..

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  13. Free the guy oooo

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  14. Don't panic, he may just be playing the field but will be back. Let him marry you tho

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  15. Ur a foool, dp n gift.nawa o

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  16. Lol babe u be side chika

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    1. *Chica* not Chika. Chika is an igbo person's name n chica means a girl in Spanish.

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  17. Whether he used it or not doesn't in anyway tell if he's faithful to you or not. Its normal to get worried about stuffs like this, but since you've been together for six years, you should be able to talk to him about your insecurities.

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  18. You not get work .Girls no even see their own yesterday, u dey complain about DP

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  19. Well, the writing is clear! Get yourself together and move on

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  20. My dear. Little things do count, not when he goes to the extreme. Pack your baggage and sit down. At the same time calm down. He has bein wit you for 6yrs doesn't mean he can't cheat on you or that he's engaged to you doesn't mean he will marry you. Wash your eyes well and pray

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  22. My dear,you are dating yourself.lol

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  23. Hand writing clearly written on the wall!
    The ball is in your court.
    Sincerely though, what's all these fuss about valentine? We have missed the concept.
    Love should be expressed everyday.

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  24. He Def has something to hide

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  25. What about those chicks that date married men,even with the man having millions of family pictures on Facebook and changing dps every min on bb,pictures don't concern them my dear. The truth is," true love is not about displaying pictures". Find out if he is going tru difficulties at work. And if he is cheating,relax and dont get unnecessary bp cos men are born cheaters!!!

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