Am 24 years and I have had dated 3 guys previously. They are all married with kids, it makes me very unhappy cos am always the one who walks away. I was so in love with my last, but he did so many wrongs which I always forgave him till it got to a point when I couldn't take it anymore. I had to leave him immediately I was posted to Abuja for NYSC. Some months later he begged for us to get back but I refused. I cried the day he was getting married cos I was stil in love with him..... but I have already put everything behind me, and I so regret all my actions
The problem now is I just broke up with my current boyfriend cos he hit me. I stil love him tho, but am sick and tired of everytin. He has been begging me for over a month and all my friends are begging on his behalf to forgive him. Am just so confused.....
Should I move on or forgive him????
Will I regret leaving him as I regretted leaving my ex??? I know for sure he loves me, we where already planning to get married next year and am so used to his family.... but dating a woman beater scares d daylight of of me
Have u had an ex u wished u forgave and you are still together? Pls forgive my typos
Thanks a lot for possting
It shows u don't really know wat u want in life. Wait till you're 30 and ask us again.
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DeleteYou are still young. Forget Him and move on.Hitting a woman is wrong and those men are not meant for you
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ReplyDeleteU are so right!
ReplyDeleteAt 24 with 3 ex boyfriends? When did you start dating? Hiss
ReplyDeleteShut ur gutter ... fool ! are u not a public toilet ???
DeleteSomtime women with their problems wud mak a man hit-them all over and over again...I can't judge on the contray cos I don't know wat you might have done that may have prompt him to hit you...?if you you think deep and you see you are cos of the hit....just forgive him and move up to your marriage plans..#sikena
ReplyDeleteYou are 24 and complaining me who is 35 nko?shift
ReplyDeleteThe Convent await your arrival...35#SMH
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DeleteI will neva advice any1 2 marry a violent person however, you have 2 do an honest appraisal as to ur failed relationships and also on urself. If u do it well, u'll reach a definite conclusion on what to do. Goodluck
ReplyDeleteBABE you are confuse , get ur life togerther ok then you will know what you want exactly!!
ReplyDeleteYou can't keep doing a thing in a particular way and expect different result, I guess u had good reason to leave those people, remember you are not perfect either. U need to move out of that guy's house fast, pls show yourself some respect!
ReplyDeleteThe problem is you go for the same guys or the same trype who always treat you badly.Or maybe you do all the loving.Take some time off to relax and clear your head and mind you will find someone worthy
ReplyDeletemen like me can do the worst to know how u can handle situations in the future if u walk away that means u can also ask for a divorce when we have problem in the future so be wise men have many tricks
ReplyDeletethat doesn't mean is there personal character so is just a tactics to prove a point if you are really a wife material or not
DeleteChinonso u are foolish for dat statement. Wat kind of testing tactics is dat.mschewww. Nonsense comment
ReplyDeleteyour comment and Abusive words have already defined who u r just be polite and get urself some good education tht will make u more matured.
ReplyDeleteChinonso thr is nothg like matured is mature. thank me later.
ReplyDeleteHonestly u need to appriase urself and ur man, that he beat u. Once does nt mean he is a woman beater i must confess i once beat my wife but i hv always lived to regret eVertouching her and is about four yrs now and by the grace of God i hv neVer repeated it is all about knowing if he has geniunely repented.wishing u the best
ReplyDeleteIf you have walked away from 3 men for different reasons, then perhaps it is not them dear...it is you. You need to do a self evaluation and determine what it is about you that makes you so restless that you even walk out on the 3rd one who you claim to "love" so deeply.
ReplyDeletePerhaps you get bored far too easily. Perhaps you have a lot of unresolved insecurities. Or maybe you are the type that needs the continuous validation of the opposite sex to feel alive and wanted or you are addicted to wallowing in self pity. Or could it be that you need to review your taste in men?
Whatever it is, there is something much deeper and you alone hold the answer to your problem.
Go into the next relationship and try a different approach from the one you adopted in your last 3 relationships.
Good luck
I don't want to believe you're every guy's last step to "greatness"... Please date me too, I go like marry asap.
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