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Monday, 27 January 2014

Ladies! Stephanie Okereke Linus wants you to read this...

The married actress wrote this on her blog addressed to ladies. Hope you are inspired

Hi Ladies,
The words in the picture above mean a lot and I think it’s something we should all take seriously.
Many times as women, we tend to feel incomplete without a man by our side and would go to great lengths to ensure we don’t remain “single”. I know that feeling.
But it’s also important we do not express our vulnerability or sound too desperate that we forget to build ourselves up as individuals. Sometimes, we give up our lives, our careers, our dreams for the desires of a man and leave our own self worth and fulfillment aside.

I am not trying to undermine the importance of men in our lives. Our husbands, our partners, our relationships are very important and sacrifices can, and should be made sometimes. However, I’d just like to remind us today not to forget who we really are.
I know its hard, especially for women who have reached a certain age, not to feel incomplete without a man in their lives. But please, do not lose track of your dreams. When you build yourself and are proud of the person you are, you will naturally attract good men who would be inspired by your success and treat you with love and respect.
I do hope this inspires someone today.
Have a great day!

23 comments:

  1. Hope she is not divorcing soon because this is how it starts considering she doesn't have a child since she got married

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    1. Truth haba, in this day and age you do not get what she is saying? Be a woman that can stand on her own two feet and can exist with or without a man. These are words spoken by a wise woman. Be there waiting on a man for your every need.

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  2. Truth! U sound like a demon!

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    1. You guys are just making her(@truth) look relevant when she is not by replying som of her comment!!!u guys free her by making her look like fool in her own world...

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  3. Nice message dear Stephanie. As for Truth I understand life hasn't been too fair to you.Being broke, ugly, poor and heartbroken. It is well. Read psalm 23

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    1. Truth read psalm 112 also

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    2. And also read Jeremiah 10vs16

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  4. Lmao @ bible verses for the demon

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  5. That's wonderful.

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  6. Yeah! I was inspired and Truth I hope u'll adhere to wot ur being told to do cos dat'll really help.

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  7. Can't argue to this!!! Well said!!

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  8. For the fools quoting bible verses. Read this John 3:16. Bunch of rotten house flies

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    1. Ur case is really serious! I'll probly ignore ur miserable comments.

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  9. Well said steph..

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  10. Nice words from someone who's been married twice. Let her talk abt being married and waiting to have a child. Make we hear word. If she were single and saying this, it would have been credible of her.

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  11. Why is it dat most of u are always foolish in ur comments?must u make her feel bad dat she has not given birth or is she God,I pray God will not judge most of u by d words of ur mouth.do u knw d pains a childless woman go through everyday simply bcos dey don't av children yet,I pray u won't be in dat condition 2 see hw it hurts.she is only advicing nd encouraging women not dat she is fighting dem.pls be reasonable.THANKS

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