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Monday 30 December 2013

What can I do to make my girlfriend of 10 years leave?

Lol ok, this is one mail which had my mouth hanging wide open...But he needs our advice so I know I can trust you guys to give him the best advice

Please Miss Petite I'm in a big dilemma. I've been dating my girlfriend for 10years and she is now 32, I'm 34. The thing is, I know deep in my heart I can never marry her. I knew that 2 years ago. But I have done all I can to make her leave inthe past 2 years yet she won't leave. I have cheated, beat her, not called for weeks, still yet she is always forgiving me. I have even set her up with men but she would always tell them how she loves her boyfriend of years. I've been dating another girl for the past 2 years and I want to propose but my stubborn girlfriend I don't love doesn't want to make way.my girlfriend who I want to marry is getting tired of waiting for me to breakup with this one
I even went as far as telling her maybe we should spend some time apart.She just laughed and said we are one in spirit so that doesn't make sense .
 I am fed up. What can I do to make a woman get tired and leave ? This is urgent and I need answers before I go crazy.Is it by force to love again? I'm pissed off

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    1. Yuck just like Wizkid and Dbanj left their girlfriends for me. I'm begging him to go back he refused. Whooop

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    2. One mans meat another man's poison, while peeps re looking for a faithful woman ur throwing urs away, I bet ur oda babe would have fallen for all those ur friends u were sending the other ones way

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    3. You are an otondo. Better tell her so she can find someone better mumu

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  2. Read this nigga. You are a fool, a product of watery impotent sperms, you are a disgrace to humanity. A fool of the highest order and a being of no consequence. You wasted a lady's life for 10 years and you want her to go to where. She should poison you foolish maggot

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    1. Serzly..am in support of this! U should be poisoned, u wasted her Life..Bastard

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    2. Serzly..am in support of this! U should be poisoned, u wasted her Life..Bastard

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  3. u better go crazy o cuz u r one of d selfish men that like wasting women time!! imagine if someone want to do the same to sis. after 10yrs u just wanna dump her like that! smh!

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  4. You re very selfish. You probably find a younger girl. If that girl swear for u e go follow you cos I go join her pray too. And for that ur new gf to be waiting for u to break way ur relationship tells d kind of girl she is. Ladies pls u guys shld stop this long time dating biko.

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  5. Do Bovi the fish.Wear shark cloth appear for night. She go bolt. But you be otondo

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    1. Bros dis one pass Otondo,na otaku b dis one.bros u go nid go on bended knees,u go beg her say make she dey go her bt bros blood of jesus no go ptotect d kind curse wey go follow if d girl dcide curse u o.I sure say she don abort 4u well well.nna mehn na die u dey o,bt d girl go understand if u beg her 2 go dan force her.

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  6. See Mr poster just leave her! Tell her you are done and want to move on that u don't love her and that she should find love else where. Then go and marry ur new babe...then just sit back and watch how men will deal with your sons and daughters... Your children will suffer like mad. No be swear but its the simple law of nature. You spent ten years of your life fucking someone, beating her and setting her up yet she stayed...but u are with one who wants you to even destroy your good luck by encouraging you to break up with your girl. Don't worry as she's convincing u to leave ur Gf so me body will convince her to leave you.

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    1. My first instinct is to curse him out. But no I won't. I totally agree with u. @poster, since u know u don't want to marry her. Tell her that u don't love her anymore and I'd advise her to move on with her life as you have done the same. Then start making plans to marry ur new belle. She's definitely get the message. But u must realize a few things first: 1. U are throwing away a good woman. U can't get 2 of those in a life time. Be sure to know u will pay for ur disservice to her and pray the payment ends with u and not ur future children or their children Most importantly, for ur future wife, a man who beats a woman and worst still, sets her up with men to make her cheat so he can come out smelling of roses is not the kind of man anybody should want to marry. I can only promise u that one day, u will regret knowing these and sticking with him. I only hope it doesn't cost u ur children then. Because men like that would do anything in the future if things don't work out to paint u in the worse light possible to ensure they hit u where it hurts the most. Anyway, as they say, who nor know go know!

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    2. On the other hand I think I should withdraw my previous statement. Mr poster please don't marry her. She deserves a king. A real man. Someone better than you. I pray in Jesus name that you don't marry her! I pray in Jesus name that she finds love in a man better than you. I pray in Jesus name that all the years she lost will berrestored. I pray that you receive allthat yyou have given to her in Jesus name. This is how bad people like yougive good men a bad name. I believe even as at last week u had sex with her but still u beat her. Don't worry she will soon slice that your penis and this time she will chop the whole damn thing off

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  7. Wonders shall never end, so after 10years you want to leave? You must be a joker. I so feel pity for the lady #sad face#. Http://juraocholi .blogspot.com

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  8. You must marry her, and if you don't you'll regret it. Mark my word?
    Jdy last posted...Signs Sex Is More Than Physical For Him

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    1. I am joining the other anonymous in this prayer that she gets a deserving man that will treat her like a queen and all the years u wasted her time will b replenished. The man will worship the ground she works on. Will be willing 2 die 4 her. She will find the true meaning of joy when she leaves u. U will b a spectator in her joy. U will envy her. U will wish u were the one married 2 her. U will beg her 4 4giveness. She will b so blessed that her light will shine. I don't know her but this prayer is very powerful. God has answered it.

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  9. Please don't marry her, she deserves better than you. If she marries you, she will have to endure more pain

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  10. Oloriburuku somebody..anuofia..@tee_on_radio

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  11. Omg u r soo selfish nd heartless,u wnt 2 dump a girl u started datin wen she was 22?who sacrificed her life,love etc 4u 2 marry de 1 whom u met jxt 2yrs ago?mmmm i dnt hv much 2 tell u dan:if u liv d@ lady,u will hv no peace wit de new 1,if she curse u,it will folo u nd ur generation#think twice#beta go 4 de 1 hu hv nd will sacrifice evrytn she hv 2u

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  12. God will punish all ur generations. Wicked soul. Oloriburuku somebody

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  13. God ll punish u,wicked n greedy bastard

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  14. God ll punish u,wicked n greedy bastard

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  15. well now that you know, do not keep her and make her suffer even more for your foolishness because she now getting to late 30's...tell her how it is and what is making you change your mind and leave her to decide if she wants to stay with you after your gross actions...follow that with repentance!

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  16. U should be used a SACRIFICE to d gods of d land..Aiye oma baje ni.. if u leave her ehn..ur marriage to d new slut will nt be FRUITful.. u shall return and amount to nothing!! Wicked and hopeless man.. I knw it is you.. Ma worry..Oloriburuku

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  17. U should be used a SACRIFICE to d gods of d land..Aiye oma baje ni.. if u leave her ehn..ur marriage to d new slut will nt be FRUITful.. u shall return and amount to nothing!! Wicked and hopeless man.. I knw it is you.. Ma worry..Oloriburuku

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  18. U should be used a SACRIFICE to d gods of d land..Aiye oma baje ni.. if u leave her ehn..ur marriage to d new slut will nt be FRUITful.. u shall return and amount to nothing!! Wicked and hopeless man.. I knw it is you.. Ma worry..Oloriburuku

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  19. Aww my ...,
    This man dat posted dis namely indeed a wicked self centered thing, and for him to v d gods to come n post abt d issue shows dat he is jus a piece of shit(pardon my French)... He doesn't even v any single respect for d lady of 10yrs... How can u stay wit a person for 10 yrs n not define d relationship... I blame d lady artsy sef... After dis wicked thin of a human has done all dat to u..u still stayed..dats y he beliv she can do wrote a he wants n get away wit it...
    Mr poster I assure u 1 thin... As u v wasted a lady's life like dis....10yrs n she has nothin to show for it., don't b surprised wen ur seeds starts to suffer d consequences of ur actions ...u kno wot dey say Karma is a B***h..
    And for d gf waitin for him to break up wit d gf of 10yrs... U r 1 of d reasons y men treat us ladies anyhow... How can u subject urself to such embarrassment n insult... Y wud u b a side chick for 2yrs...
    Oh well, I wish u n wore a ur plan is mr poster..all d worst... U jus dented my day...

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  20. Heratless man, u wil. Reap wot u abt to sow, evil wil surely slain d wicked,peace nd love wil elude u for d rest of ur life. U aredigging ur grave, 2morow we go hear groom dies a day after wedding.,we go dey suspect family members, not knowing dat u dug ur grave urself FOOL. Infact u don't deserve ds girl

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  21. Send her away! Simple! For Best advice, Click HERE JOR

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  22. After reading all the comments I found no advice just cussing nigerians please feel free to walk on if u don't have a brain in ur skull... Mr poster you wanna leave please take her to the point u met her ten years ago and let her know its the end of the road don't be a coward by beating a golden gal and pray ur not making a mistake of a life time at 32 she has more than a 100years of happiness she should forget 10 wasted years of pains... God bless u and heal Nigeria

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  23. Heartless human being who doesnt hv d fear of God........If u leave that gal u suffer d rest of ur life hw can u b so wicked after been with her for 10yrs u nw want to leave her nt fair at all.think twice b/4 u do sometin

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  24. I blame the girl for staying in a relationship for 10 years.Na wah oh

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  25. the guy needs to be shot with a double barrel gun. He don fuck the girl finish, probably disvirgined her and he wants to dump her....smh

    your older girlfriend may be nice to you now. When she finally gets the message, i pity you. If only i were she, miss petite would have announced your untimely death in tomorrow's post

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  26. Hmm dis lyf is smh sha

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  27. Ok poster....dem don over curse u
    In my candid opinion,its best you marry her cos if she can 4give every of ur stupidity and fuckery and still loves u dis much....she is wife material #fulloption
    But if u still wanna leave,then I'm sorry for you

    How I wish I had a gf like this?

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  28. Simple tell Her U̶̲̥̅̊ don't want Her anymore U̶̲̥̅̊ want to b wit someone else. SHe deserves something better.

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  29. D voice of dpple is d voice of d Lord, its better u think with. Ur brain not with ur prick, cos its men like u dat make women who have d heart to join witches and wizard cult to get even with u. As u can see, nobody is giving u any advice,but rather cussing u. My advice is u adviice ur misrable self

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  30. Naija for show. U guys should take it easy with d guy, he hasn't left her yet, he only asked for advice.lol, u guys are wicked oooo,h

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  31. After 10 years?

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  32. Stupid things that men do. A man dates a woman for many years. marries another, the first girl is waiting 4 him to divorce her; mayb the marriage was wit no certificate. Shameless hag waits for many years, does many abortions, clings to him like a leech, he dates other women beats her up, she still there, sets her up she's still there, many other women hav children for him, she's still there. All waiting on a crooked penis, drunk asshole, bisexual idiot. Who cares? Everybody in this picture needs therapy. A bad adaptation of our husband has gone mad again. He should marry all the women active in his life. Yeye marry by force man.

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    1. how can a girl wait for 10years with someone who doesn't love her? Why do some ladies ignore the danger signs? Mtchess

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  33. If this is true, may you die a sudden death... How can you break up with a gul that really loves you.. If you leaves someone that love you, what is the assurance that the person you want to leave her for, is not playing you...

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  34. God will punish u. So u started dating her since she was 22, she turned 25, u didn't know den u weren't going to marry her, she turned 27 u didn't tell her then, even at dis point it's obvious u haven't come out to clearly say I don't want u. I don't blame u, I blame d silly gehl dat wasted her time with an ingrate and jackass. A girl gave u 10 years and all u can call her is a leech? Wicked man. Don't wori, pls tell her point blank u are tired, let a good man find her and marry her, ur not hood enuf for her. As 4 u, do you know Karma? Binta

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  35. God will punish u. So u started dating her since she was 22, she turned 25, u didn't know den u weren't going to marry her, she turned 27 u didn't tell her then, even at dis point it's obvious u haven't come out to clearly say I don't want u. I don't blame u, I blame d silly gehl dat wasted her time with an ingrate and jackass. A girl gave u 10 years and all u can call her is a leech? Wicked man. Don't wori, pls tell her point blank u are tired, let a good man find her and marry her, ur not hood enuf for her. As 4 u, do you know Karma? Binta

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  36. Hi Emeh, i think you should filter some of this comments before posting them. Too much cursing and strong language. Checkout my blog: uyiehigie.blogspot.com

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    1. Aunty Uyi, if they leave u now, Uv made sense. Don't u see all the comment removed by a blog administrator? and NO we will not be visitin ur dry blog, since all u do will be censorin comments. Stop visitin dis blog, if u can't take d heat.

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  37. Mr poster, may God punish you. May madness strike u and may u never know peace. IDIOT, big fool. After wasting 10years of her life, now u want to marry anoda. May the devil himself strike u with leprosey. Evil man. You will not go unpunished. Happiness will be far from u. Idiot. Ewu gambia

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  38. I can't date sm1 for that long.. Damn!

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  39. Y are u heartless, y are u acting like someone who is born by mistake y are u acting like someone dat Is no mature at ur age bros u wicked ooo after 10 years of her life can u hear ur self talk a girl of 25 never see husband marry na 32 go come see bastard dats wat u are at list tink about her future how she will feel wat she will loose tinks how misreable her life will be but y are some men born with wicked heart I don't want to really insult u but I can't hold myself u be goat, fool, mum, don't u knw she's a wife material n u tink d other girl will make u happy or wat if u knw wats gud for u plss go back to her, u don't need anybody to tell u she's ur wife plsss go back

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  40. *Her Royal Hotness*31 December 2013 at 22:07

    After 10yrs commitment nd bein faithful 2 u, At 32 u want 2 do wat? U want her 2 start over? From wher? Dude, Respect urself o! But dis gal sef in 10yrs u cldn't advice urself dat dis guy isn't serious? Two of u sef! I dnt even knw whose mumu is worse! Mtscheeeeeew!

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  41. Dis guy God will punish u 4 sure if u leave that girl and when she know dis is urban plan I hope she gives u rat poison

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  42. Dis guy God will punish u 4 sure if u leave that girl and when she know dis is urban plan I hope she gives u rat poison

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  43. I will advice dat he leaves d girl, cos if he marries her, I bet she'll leave in regerts all her life n she'll b sad n sorry 4 hersef!!! D guys doesn't deserve her. Am sure if she leaves, God wil give unto her her own missing rib! Rada dan dis gud 4 nothin fool....

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